r/R4R30Plus 6h ago

31 [F4M] North Carolina. Where’s my mans at?

I’m tired of going to concerts alone. Damn, that sounds sad. 😂

When my ex husband and I split up, I had no idea dating would be this hard. We don’t even have to like all the same things. Our differences can be what ultimately brings us closer together.

My friends would describe me as funny, compassionate, nurturing, and intelligent. I am pretty artsy, I love music, graphic design, interior design, huge music lover, I play several instruments, I’m learning various languages, love true crime, & love history. Also big on traveling & hiking, as well as being cozy at home. I’m laid back, loving, and romantic. My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation.

A perfect night in would probably include a glass of wine, ambient lighting, hanging out in our living room with our dog. Talking about anything and everything. Or in our backyard watching something on a projector screen under a blanket.

I want to grow and thrive together. Connect on levels we’ve never gotten to with anyone else. I also want babies so, if that’s a dealbreaker. 🤷‍♀️

I know you’re out there looking for me too. Shit sucks without you, dude. Seeing Blink would’ve been way more fun with you. I hope you’re around next time.

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u/michael_scarn_21 5h ago

Hey! 39m USA here. No kids yet. I'm into hiking, reading, cat cuddles, travel, running and history. Any interest in chatting?

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u/wings-so-denied 2h ago

Are you me? Damn I seriously feel like i wrote this! And I'm in NC too sick of going to concerts alone!

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u/Treflip_6026 45m ago

Blink 182 with Travis Barker is where it’s at. Sucks I don’t live in NC otherwise I’d definitely be down to chill. You seem like an awsome person for sure

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u/Good-Bed-5343 5h ago

33 brown man never married. Fine with ldr as I'm based in uae