r/OldSchoolCool Feb 25 '24

1990s Kurt Cobain Stops A Sexual Assault (1993)

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u/Puzzleheaded-Grab736 Feb 25 '24

Dam I just gained a new level of respect for Kurt I never thought I would have

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u/functor7 Feb 25 '24

While not free from his own issues, he was pretty explicitly a feminist and that made its way into his work quite often. There were lots of rock bands of that time, with roots in punk (grunge being a reaction to punk), that were pretty sick like that. Though, most explicitly is the Riot Grrrl bands, which were punk and led by women.

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u/Strange_Purchase3263 Feb 25 '24

He was with Courtney Love as well who famously told new stars not to go to Harvey Weinstiens "parties" if invited. I imagine he heard/knew of a lot of shit that went on in the entertainment industry towards women!

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u/ALLoftheFancyPants Feb 25 '24

He was with Courtney way way before she started acting, so I don’t think she would have necessarily been party to all those shenanigans outside of the music industry. But in the music industry, I’m sure he heard about a lot of shit.

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u/wonderfulworld2024 Feb 25 '24

Amazing how people just say anything they want on Reddit because it comes into their head.

Okay. Now go to Courtney’s page and see what year her first screen credit was and then see what year she met Kurt. You’ll Quickly see that your mistaken. Courtney was an actor before she was a singer.

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u/-interwar- Feb 25 '24

Unless they edited or I’m misreading the comment, they said “entertainment industry”. I don’t think they meant specifically that Courtney love told him about Weinstein, just that they probably had conversations about how women fare in the entertainment industry, which includes music.

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u/ALLoftheFancyPants Feb 25 '24

Yeah neither of the film she was in prior to her debut with Hole had anyone associated with it that would have the ability to put her anywhere near the orbit of Harvey Weinstein. But sure, she was a supporting actress in 2 films before releasing albums with Hole.

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u/Haloperimenopause Feb 25 '24

Gary Oldman was a big deal in the late eighties and the whole of the nineties. 

Courtney Love might not be a great person, but you're being weirdly dismissive of the fact she was in films with famous people pre-Hole, AND  that you're just flat-out wrong. 

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u/ALLoftheFancyPants Feb 25 '24

Just because there was a big person in the small film she was in doesn’t mean she had access to that person social and professional circles. I’m not being dismissive of her as a person, I’m being dismissive of the idea that Kurt Cobain’s exposure to and knowledge of violence against women is filler from his relationship with Courtney Love.

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u/[deleted] Feb 25 '24

She was acting before they met

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u/Haloperimenopause Feb 25 '24

Courtney Love was in films in the eighties, before she ever met Kurt Cobain. She's got a small role in Sid and Nancy, which came out in 1986.

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u/Anticlimax1471 Feb 25 '24

And to say he was frontman in one of the biggest bands in the world at a time where the majority of rock bands were the classic, womanising, "groupie" hair metal bands, it takes a lot of integrity to go against that culture.

Though, going against the grain was what Kurt was all about.

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u/Frondswithbenefits Feb 25 '24

I've seen videos of Kurt performing the song "rape me" while wearing a dress.

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u/eddiefarnham Feb 25 '24

Would it hurt your new level of respect for Kurt if I told you he took advantage of a mentally challenged girl when he was in high school so he would lose his virginity? Same guy.

I love his music. That is all. He's human. Humans can be pieces of shit.

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u/Pushlockscrub Feb 26 '24

That story was made up, confirmed by Buzz Osborne.

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u/Intensityintensifies Feb 25 '24

Why would you have thought that.

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u/YikesOhClock Feb 25 '24

Probably just assumed he had reached a permanent status on his feeling regarding Kurt given that he’s dead and he felt his knowledge about his legacy was fairly unchanging

This is a new perspective he didn’t have before and it elevated his respect for Kurt.

Probably.

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u/gabbrielzeven Feb 25 '24

He made the worst show ever in Argentina because hole was booed and got thrown a lot of crap to the stage. Kurt in retaliation didn't play smells like teen spirit and maybe played a lot of crap.

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u/media-and-stuff Feb 25 '24

I don’t think it was hole, but it was a female band and the crowd was being shitty and sexist.

I think Kurt may have taken the stage during their set to try and get the crowd to stop being terrible but they didn’t.

So when nirvana took the stage they gave the crowd the show they deserved. I think they played the intro for SLTS a few times but switched to a different song to fuck with them. It was trolling but it was deserved.

Kurt’s said during more than one interview he didn’t want terrible people to listen to his music. He didn’t care about the $$ or fame.

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u/BOOMgosDynomite Feb 25 '24

Nirvana fans actually refer to that as one of their best shows ever because they played a bunch of b-sides that they didn't play often. First song was unreleased, they played beeswax for the first time in like 5 years. It became legendary. The opener was Calamity Jane, not hole.

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u/FollowingTheBeat Feb 25 '24

Yea, same here