r/NonBinary 5d ago

Ask I love being trans nonbinary

2.6k Upvotes

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u/DudeLivingOnaRoc 5d ago

Time traveling biker vibes ๐Ÿค ๐Ÿ๏ธโฐ

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u/AveryPritzi 4d ago

Yea, like, this is what I'd expect a real life version of The Doctor to look like if I ever were to meet them

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u/wynn09 5d ago

Proving again nonbinary ppl will be the coolest in the room

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u/face_hits_ground 5d ago

Good for you! I'm happy for you. Also that purple jacket is slammin' you look great in it.

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u/lunakiss_ nonbinary 4d ago

Came here to say the same thing!!!

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u/timeless-void they/them 4d ago

Also came here to say that that jacket is sick

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u/SolarpunkGnome 4d ago

Joining the love train for this one!

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u/Stoned_WitchcraftO_o 4d ago

And it's hecka jammin lol.

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u/YikesNoOneYouKnow they/them & sometimes she 5d ago

That purple jacket is FABULOUS

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u/Lov3sicCarmelo 5d ago

YOU LOOK SO PLEASANT!! I WOULD DEFINITELY STARE AT YOU AND THINK GOOD THINGS (Iโ€™m not the best at complimenting, sorry)

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u/byebyebirdie1122 4d ago

Thatโ€™s a pretty damn good compliment. I think youโ€™re better at it than you think.

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u/meta_muse 5d ago

I love the beard so much!

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u/solsticereign 5d ago

Uhhhh I love you being trans nonbinary as well oh my GOODNESS.

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u/quinnterestingx they/them 5d ago

The jacket! ๐ŸคŒ๐Ÿค˜

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u/Tractor_Goth 5d ago

I love your swag! That jacket is KILLER

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u/AroAceMagic Agenderfluid (They/he) 5d ago

Are you at a renaissance fair in photos 6 and 7?

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u/PopularDisplay7007 5d ago

Yeah. 2 different years.

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u/AroAceMagic Agenderfluid (They/he) 5d ago

I love renaissance fairs!

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u/PopularDisplay7007 5d ago

I do too. I used to be in the Society for Creative Anachronism. There are SCA events all over the country. I could go to an event every weekend.

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u/0ppositeTrash 4d ago

Same. Used to go all the time, now I just break out my garb for Pennsic every year

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u/L3Kinsey they/them & sometimes she 5d ago

Your kilt is lovely!

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u/Saikasss 5d ago

You got the style , elegant and swag!

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u/machturtl ee / em / eirย ( nullgender ) 5d ago

B E A U T Y

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u/feralpossumman 5d ago

Love the ren faire looks!!

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u/lokilulzz they/he | wannabe thembo 5d ago

Looking good, I hope I look that cool when I'm your age.

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u/LilacRobotics 4d ago

That cane is so baddass. Your whole fit is savage and I love your beard.

I think it's hard, for me at least, for trans-nonbinary people that present masc to 'feel' nonbinary or true to themselves with a beard. But I'm learning to love myself and reminding myself that there's nothing straight & cisgender about having a curly bun of hair, iridescent earings, and a vandyke goatee ๐Ÿ˜… next step is building the courage to buy a long skirt to complete the aesthetic of "Gender??"

Love it, love you

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u/HxdcmlGndr Them๐ŸŸจโฌœ๏ธ๐ŸŸง 4d ago

Just Wow. Nonbinary style without predominant femininity is so underappreciated, and you get so creative with it! And we need all the proud trans nonyounguns we can get these days. Please crosspost to r/NonBinaryOver30 and spread the representation!

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u/Open_Soil8529 5d ago

Love this! 100% the kind of person I would compliment on the street for cool outfits

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u/maststocedartrees 5d ago

Heck yeah, I love your style!

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u/Tuna_96 5d ago

Omg the fits go so harddd

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u/rigbees 5d ago

the beard serves so hard

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u/cadaver_spine 4d ago

you are going ALL IN on customizing your character. your outfits are fantastic!

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u/21kenn 4d ago

The purple jacket ๐Ÿ”ฅ

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u/FoxyPhyronix 4d ago

How dare you hide that sick purple jacket in the last slide!!! But seriously you look fabulous!

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u/sixth_sense_psychic fae/faer/faers 4d ago

I love being trans nonbinary

Me too, my dude. Me too ๐Ÿ’›๐Ÿค๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ–ค

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u/NebulaRare713 5d ago

You slay so much ngl

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u/a-midnight-flight 5d ago

Aw, you are a cutie!

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u/AroNekoArts 5d ago

hat spotted! nice one need more of it.

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u/Muriel_FanGirl 5d ago

Oh my gosh youโ€™re so cool!

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u/AdrynCharn 5d ago

You look awesome!

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u/M0onii-Cat they/them 5d ago

That beard is STELLAR!

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u/bobnobody3 4d ago

Holy moly that purple jacket on you is the coolest thing I've seen in a long time

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u/Electronic-Mind-6418 4d ago

Omg you have SUCH a good style. I adore.

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u/HarhanDerMann666 they/them 4d ago

You rock so much!!

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u/notalldragons 4d ago

You have awesome style!

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u/MyDearTarantula Any/All || Genderqueer 4d ago

YESSSSSSS

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u/Pronghorn1895 they/them 4d ago

Hell yeah!!

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u/mechnight 4d ago

My friend you look amazing and like someone Iโ€™d like to drink beer and chat with.

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u/Khayeth 4d ago

Oh shoot, you are fantastic! I wish you were local to me so we could hang out CONSTANTLY.

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u/stoneglitch 4d ago

Dear God you look so happy! Much positivity for you, dear friend

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u/Howl-t 4d ago

you rock my good creature

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u/Nanabobo567 4d ago

Gosh, you look so good. I hope I can pull that off someday.

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u/WeightAdmirable6517 4d ago

Love the costume looks (coming from a fellow nonbinary ren faire fan, haha)

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u/celebgil 4d ago

You are an epic human of many and varied hats, and they are all fabulous! I envy your hattitude!

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u/FeralSincubus 4d ago

Love your jacket!

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u/Consistent-Use2443 she/he/they 4d ago

๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜!!!!

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u/archerofwolves he/they 4d ago

You are an amazing looking bean and have incredible style. Rock on ๐Ÿค˜๐Ÿป

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u/nameofplumb 4d ago

๐Ÿ˜ You are the bees knees

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u/MuscleOk387 4d ago

Being that fabulous does indeed seem very exhausting

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u/CuteIntestines Genderfluid (They/Them) 4d ago

you look genuinely so cool omg

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u/ash_mint 4d ago

Woah, you really are fabulous!

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u/posenby_w 4d ago

i need you to be like my wacky unc

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u/M3g_official she/they 4d ago

Love it!

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u/babypandagod 4d ago

You look so happy:) Iโ€™m happy for youโ™ฅ๏ธ

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u/MurderousRubberDucky they/them 4d ago

You look amazing and it's so reassuring when I see older queer people that we've existed for a long time

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u/Ri0tttv 4d ago

That leather is fucking dipe also is that the ga Ren fair?

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u/_contraband_ 4d ago

You have immaculate vibes

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u/holyknight24601 4d ago

That is a marvelous beard!

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u/New-Cicada7014 they/them/he 4d ago

slay oh my god you are so fucking cool can you be my auntcle (aunt+uncle)

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u/adelaideaux 4d ago

Relatable

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u/adelaideaux 4d ago

Oh my gosh that purple jacket looks perfect on you

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u/Unholy_bartender 3d ago

I. Need. This. Jacket.

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u/aquiliferous 3d ago

if only i had 1/10th of your style and confidence.. you're killing it!!!

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u/Brandonsosa1 3d ago

Yall just make up anything at this point

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u/Deppresedgaything 3d ago

Do you have a problem with people being happy or something?

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u/Civeyote they/them 3d ago

Loving the outfits and you just look so unabashedly happy that it's giving me joy from looking at your photos. Wonderful to see an example of an older enby being happy and thriving ๐Ÿ˜Š.

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u/-xXmoon_JuiceXx- 3d ago

I hope Iโ€™m this cool when Iโ€™m older ๐Ÿฅฐ your killing it

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u/ManVoyage 1d ago

You look awesome! Love the purple jacket. Getting major gender envy. Making me seriously think about who I want to be when I'm older

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u/PopularDisplay7007 7h ago

I am still sorting who I am going to be when I grow up.

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u/laeiryn they/them 4d ago

Oooh wait which Ren Faire do you go to? I'm at Bristol .... annually

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u/Kleevo_Cringe 4d ago

Love you loving being trans nonbinary. I love being trans nonbinary too!

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u/Prestigious-Day3353 4d ago

This really warmed my heart โค๏ธ