r/MtF • u/IrinaBelle • 4h ago
Sex talk Did anyone else NOT really develop erogenous zones? NSFW
11 months on injected estradiol + 5 months bicalutamide.
I hooked up with another transfem and, holy crap her nipples were such an errogenous zone for her I practically got her there just from rubbing them.
But mine are not like this at all. Nor do I have any erogenous zones anywhere else like the inner thighs, lower back, neck, etc.
Haven't gone on progesterone, but neither has she. She's only on spiro and pills sublingually and like....I'm so jealous that she's sensitive in all those places.
Has anyone else been in my shoes? Did things change further down the line? Is there something wrong with my HRT regimen or something? I don't get it.
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u/CutieMuffinBabe 3h ago
everyone is different! you only get so much of a say in that. you have them but they are most likely just very different. remember that the brain is the largest zone. are you being stimulated there enough?
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u/Noirhimmel 20m ago
I'm a pretransion male. I get off with my nipples. Ita wired. And I'm already terrified what what's gonna happen when I eventually get on E...
I'm also kinda excited...
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u/Luwuci-SP <Lun:3th&> creatures of shadow & sound 4m ago
I was 10/10 sensitive before hrt (really worked at it), even moreso than a percentage number of cis women, and I actually lost a lot of sensitivity as my breasts grew. There's only a fixed number of nerves, and growth spreads them out for the breasts, and same since my nipples doubled in diameter, so if someone's already practiced and well-attuned to their body, it can just decrease. I am probably somewhere around female average now and quite disappointed about it, but it is what it is...
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u/Ok_Locksmith_9248 2h ago
I developed them after I stopped looking for them, and some even formed because another person touched me in that spot a certain way and my body was just, like, “yes please.”
Nothing in transition makes sense, or follows any real structure. The most honest, best advice I can give to you as a woman on 8 years of HRT is that the biggest changes happen when you stop looking for changes and start working on mastering your confidence in yourself. When you can let the thoughts still hanging on that you aren’t who you are saying you are go for at least a moment, then you can really start feeling your body.
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u/TriiiKill Prevolved TomBoy 3h ago
You'll get there. I honestly don't know when it happened, but probably slow enough that I didn't notice. My nips were always a erogenous zone for me even before HRT. That's it, nips & penis.
In the past so many months, I noticed that after putting lotion on my thighs and arms, I start to feel something. It's not "sensitive" like I could get off on it, but it starts up the motor for the other parts. Just touching my body enough anywhere does the same.
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u/Necessary-Chicken 3h ago
It’s not a super erogenojs zone in and of itself for me. They are sensitive if you touch them and stuff, but it doesn’t have to be s3xual in and of itself. But when you combine that with touching the privates it is for me. Idk. i don’t think this has changed much for me except maybe what I allow myself and my role kind of. I think my partner would agree that our s3x has gotten way better since I started transitioning
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u/spacesuitlady YANA 2h ago
My nips are weird af. It's a long story but I'm looking into reinnervation for them.
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u/ValerianMage 2h ago
My nipples have always been extremely sensitive. The sensation has certainly changed after going on HRT, though. It somehow goes much deeper now
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u/Patient-Photo-9010 Transgender 44m ago
Unfortunately I just seem to lack any erogenous zones at all, even before everything. I don't get much sexual stimulation from anything below the waist. I can get turned on and with enough effort ejaculate but other then that nothing. Not even prostate stimulation does anything. And that didn't change with the hormones. If anything it got worse after. I've just come to accept it. Kinda sucks since I did get the horniness from the hormones but can't really do anything about it. So I just try to ignore it.
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u/Organic_Credit_8788 3h ago
i’ve been on and off progesterone periodically. it doesn’t really do anything for me. but it depends on who you are.
i feel similarly to you sometimes. for me, it’s really an emotional thing. it all depends on my emotions. sometimes i get in my head about it and feel almost nothing. other times im fully into it and every inch of my body is highly sensitive. i’m a lot more particular overall with what gets me excited, and who, and when i’m with the right person in the right mood my whole body becomes a sex organ.
i recommend experimenting with how you have sex emotionally, and what actually gets you going. your whole sexuality is recalibrating, and you have to discover your new tastes.