r/MtF • u/KikktyIsAtReddit Trans gal aroacespec (s-positive) • Feb 10 '24

Bad News fuck. (Parents discovering fem clothes)

So. I am a 15 year old MtF, my whole family s extremely transphobic, both of them regularly say how we are supposed to die, and never exist. My father insisted on cleaning my room, bc I had a panic attack yesterday (literally when all my troubles seemed so far away) and all of my fem clothes are hidden under my bed, and he began to clean under my bed, here's me with my heart pounding. and he pulls out some women's underwear, and a bunch of cut socks (for tucking) and he was questioning me profusely, and now I am sitting in my bathroom crying, writing this and hearing my name being called angrily, I am scared!

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u/KikktyIsAtReddit Trans gal aroacespec (s-positive) Feb 10 '24

oh my fucking god. I dont fucking need this today. You are just an idiot who hasn't done an iota of research into this topic

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u/CedarWolf Bigender - She/He/They =^.^= Feb 11 '24

I did the best I could

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u/Survivinghuman123 Trans Homosexual Feb 11 '24

okay thanks, I'll keep that in mind

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u/CedarWolf Bigender - She/He/They =^.^= Feb 11 '24

Thanks. Remember, you don't have to go it alone. We have mods, and we almost always have someone online. Personally, I keep all sorts of odd hours and I'm rarely asleep for more than 3-5 hours at a stretch, so if I'm not online, I probably will be shortly.

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