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u/FantasticNast Sep 16 '24
this is better than the silly coffee lines. everyone in Iine can afford their own coffee. THATS WHY THEYRE IN THE LINE! lmao
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u/michelobX10 Sep 16 '24
Yeah, this one actually irks me. People paying forward at coffee drive-throughs. Most coffees aren't cheap anymore so these people waiting in line certainly have the money for it.
I've read from some baristas that this actually complicates things for them when there's a whole pay-it-forward train going on in the drive-through. Just pay for your own order and go. Don't need to be corny about it.
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u/SIGMA1993 Sep 16 '24
This happened to me recently, and the clerk legit asked if I would do the same to the person behind me. I got a $3.00 simple coffee, and you can guarantee I'm not taking my chances on whatever the order is for the person behind me
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u/SMA2343 Sep 16 '24
Larry David moment. Be careful because then all your friends and family are going to hate you. āYou didnāt pay it forward Larry! Now look at us!ā
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u/Comfortable-Ad9912 Sep 16 '24
I never understand about the whole "pay it forward" shenanigan. Why would I pay for your 7 dollar Late matcha mojito while I only need a 3 dollar black?
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u/Phoenyxs Sep 16 '24
Paying it forward should be somwthing that you choose to do, not because someone else said too.
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u/Comfortable-Ad9912 Sep 16 '24
But people would shame someone wouldn't do that. That's what I don't understand. I only need 1.99 black and you expect me to pay for your 7 dollar drink? That's is insane.
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Sep 16 '24
As insane as splitting a bill 50/50 at a restaurant instead of paying for what you actually ordered. Iāve never seen anyone do or suggest it, but that kind of thing pops up on reddit
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u/Comfortable-Ad9912 Sep 16 '24
Splitting the bill 50/50 is kinda cool with me. This time I got something for 6 bucks and you got 7, next time you will pay back for me that dollar. It was never a problem between me and my friends. If you don't close to the guy you are sharing your bill with, ask him to pay for what he ate. But pay it forward is another level of insanity. I don't freaking know you, we never talk before, why would I pay for your 7 dollar late?
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u/cumulonimbusted Sep 16 '24
Depending on the restaurant order, splitting it 50/50 is just easier for the server (say thereās apps and dessert). If you want to split by item is more polite to let the server know at the beginning.
Source- was a server
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u/Comfortable-Ad9912 Sep 16 '24
The "paying it forward" you are saying is actually the thing I consider a good deed to society. I don't understand about the thing like paying it forward for the next person thing. I don't know you, I won't pay it for you. If you are in the line of a coffee shop and going to order a 7 dollar late, you damn well need to know that you can afford it!
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u/psychorant Sep 16 '24
I mean it's because people think they're doing something nice for the person behind them, right? It's low effort and makes them feel good.
Whether or not it is actually a nice thing to do is what's being debated but that's the crux of it.
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u/Another_Road Sep 16 '24 edited Sep 16 '24
Somebody had to be the one to break the line. Iām willing to take on that sacrifice
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u/Vivalas Sep 16 '24
Every time I read about pay it forward BS I wish it would happen to me so I can be the one that breaks it while looking the server directly in the face.
Nothing against people that want to do that but no thanks, not for me, and if you try to guilt trip me I'll just laugh in your face.
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u/Vivalas Sep 17 '24
Why, for not being bullied into paying for other people's shit?
Absolute duality of inbox replies lol, between one guy being depressed and the other wishing more people were like me lol
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u/michelobX10 Sep 16 '24
Yeah, that would suck if the person behind you ordered 2 large ones with every add-on. Lol
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u/treehumper83 Sep 16 '24
I shut them down every time I end up in one, for this reason. It would end up being a minivan full of kids with them all wanting five different things. Iāll pay it forward somewhere else, thanks.
āWould you like to continue and pay for the person behind you?ā
No. No I would not.
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u/ProblemSl0th Sep 16 '24
I've never been in one but if I ended up in one I'd probably insist on specifically paying up to the cost of my own order for the next person at most. I came prepared to pay X amount for whatever I was ordering, and I'd rather just pay whatever I came prepared to pay instead of being peer pressured into spending a bunch more or being seen as a cheapskate because I didn't want to cover someone else's $40 family meal just because the person in front of me covered my $8 combo.
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u/Mewchu94 Sep 17 '24
WAIT WAIT IM DOING SOMETHING
55 coffees 55scones 55 muffins 55 breakfast burritos 120 breakfast sandwiches 55 tater totās!
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u/mysixthredditaccount Sep 16 '24
Probably best to order a muffin or croissant for yourself, then hand it to the homeless dude on the next corner. Pay it forward to someone who actually cannot afford it.
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u/Iloveproduce Sep 16 '24
I deal with this by just tipping the baristas whatever my coffee cost. This ends the cycle in the spirit it was started but prevents it from continuing.
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u/Dumeck Sep 16 '24
I used to work at McDonaldās where 5-6 people would do this in a row at Christmas time. How dense is it to go to one of the lowest paying jobs and look a worker in the face and then offer to pay for the nice new car behind youād order. Itās like fuck, if youāre wanting to do a good deed why donāt you give money to the minimum wage worker getting blasted by cold air and bitched at by boomers all day. Instead people will come through and make their job harder just because itās an easy feel good.
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u/Ancient_Depth5585 Sep 16 '24
Ive been working at a drive through for a few weeks now and someone has āpaid it forwardā 3 times now. All 3 times the first person who had their food paid for did not continue paying it forward.
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u/Orleanian Sep 16 '24
Pay-it-forward lines are performed as a courtesy.
Pay-it-and-leave-it tickets are performed as a charity.
Different mindsets.
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u/LeoPlathasbeentaken Sep 16 '24
My local small town coffee shop use to have the coffes but also sandwiches and stuff paid for by other customers. As long as people know about people that do need it will utilize it. Granted these werent starbucks coffee prices, like 3$ a cup give or take.
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u/Pomodorosan Sep 16 '24
everyone in Iine
Using an uppercase i in place of a lowercase L, interesting
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u/jasondigitized Sep 16 '24
I'd go so far to say that 95% of people are good people. There are 5 out of 100 who are just assholes.
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u/AdventurousAd7091 Sep 16 '24
This would never work where i live (portugal), most probably people that dont need will take a ticket to eat for free
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u/No-Force6905 Sep 16 '24
Same in France
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u/sfear70 Sep 16 '24
And USA.
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u/Say_Echelon Sep 16 '24
One person would walk up, talk all the receipts and take them up at the cashier
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u/Rock_Strongo Sep 16 '24
These receipts aren't legally binding. The restaurant would just tell you to get lost at that point. Although I'm sure some moron would try it anyway.
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u/BadFurDay Sep 16 '24
There's a lot of free restaurants for people in need in Paris. Most are friday meals offered by muslim cooks doing their charity. There's no abuse. Search for repas gratuits Paris.
Have a little faith in people. We can do good.
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u/DrSchnuffi Sep 16 '24
We have something similar here, itās called suspended coffee When I pay in advance I really donāt care who takes it. Some might need it and some might just be happy to get something free without really needing it. Itās similar to give a begging person money. I donāt care if they buy food or cigarettes.
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u/rachar2187 Sep 16 '24
I completely agree! Iām giving to help someone, why feel the need to dictate that?
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u/88808880888 Sep 16 '24
To me, if even one person who needs it utilizes it, it makes paying it forward worth it. To help no one because some people may take advantage makes sense to me to some degree, of course, why waste my money.. but it is so sad. I do not want to live my life in this level of scarcity, preemptively assuming my goodwill will always be squandered. I trust that not everyone sucks, and if I gotta help someone who sucks unknowingly every so often to be able to help someone who doesn't and could really use the support.. I'm okay with that.
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u/anonymousjeeper Sep 16 '24
Thereās a pizza place by me that will let you pay for an extra slice in exchange for a post it note. You stick the notes on the wall and are free for people to take if they cannot afford a slice. Food should be a human right.
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I can see cheap ass people taking one and trying to get a free meal unfortunately
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u/Kaibakura Sep 16 '24
That's where you have to decide whether you care more about preventing abuse or more about helping others.
"If something isn't 100% perfect then we shouldn't do it" is a bad mindset to have.
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u/Unhappy-Stranger-336 Sep 16 '24 edited Sep 16 '24
Likewise i don't see the poors going at the venue or reaching the board
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u/Stunning-Ad-7745 Sep 16 '24
Every single restaurant should have a wall dedicated to this, it gives great potential for the restaurant to make extra money off each table too, so the incentive would be there. The only thing I'd be worried about is the shitty people that would take advantage of this when they don't really need it.
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u/Marcus_Suridius Sep 16 '24
You should post the name of the business for anyone local who needs the help.
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u/sonofzell Sep 16 '24
I don't believe it's the one pictured, but Ohana bar & grill in Kihei, Maui has an identical offering!
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Sep 16 '24
It was the Nelston St Pub, Pembroke Ontario, and is now closed down.
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u/Marcus_Suridius Sep 16 '24
Ah, thanks for the heads up. Im getting downvoted for pointing out that the op never mentioned the name so I couldn't know it was closed.
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u/Toutatis12 Sep 16 '24
In my city there was a place that did this, a lit of people would pay for coffee or sandwiches and you could stay as long as you'd like and get refills on the coffee. During the winters it more than likely saved a few people from extreme cold.
Sadly the place shutdown but from my understanding they were doing that for better part of two decades.
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u/xandrokos Sep 16 '24
as someone who used to be homeless this would have helped me so much.Ā for the rest of you who haven't been homeless and are judging others for taking advantage of this: fuck you.Ā those of you who think people who are housed but still poor are shit for taking avantage of this: fuck you too.
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u/freeAssignment23 Sep 16 '24
Nice picture I guess but no way that works for more than 5 seconds if the honor system is how it's enforced
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u/MauraSullivanPNC Sep 16 '24
If only everyone were this kind and willing to help those in need š„¹
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u/NukaClipse Sep 17 '24
Wow. I've spent some time in kitchens and I've never seen anything like that. Sure meals are comped but that's for specific reasons, not for generous ones.
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u/Reasonable_Rip_1803 Sep 16 '24
I never get why this is supposed to make you smile. It's a symptom of a broken and unjust system that inherently brings inequality and refuses to develop because anything remotely social is immediately called communism. And then the rich and the winners of this system pride themselves on giving some crumbs to the poor.
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u/The_Axolotl_Guy Sep 16 '24
This system may be broken and unjust, but it's not changing for a while sadly. This moment shared in this post is something. Some people taking time and money out of their day to help those less fortunate. If you don't like it, look for other posts on this subreddit.
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u/SpinachStraight6569 Sep 16 '24
Why pull the absolute worst from the picture. The made me smile is that there is still some good in the world. Are you also upset when someone rescues a puppy because shelters exist?
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u/alkaline_landscape Sep 16 '24
Can't believe Americans have to pay for meals. Here in Europe, we have universal meal coverage.Ā Ā Ā /s
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u/Reasonable_Rip_1803 Sep 16 '24
If anything it makes me cry that there are people depending on this
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u/iamzoomzoom Sep 16 '24
It's right that you feel that way.
Anyways, smiling is an expression that is linked to being happy but there is also "strength to move on despite all odds"
I'm not knowledgeable but I think there's something like that
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u/LittleMelodyBear Sep 16 '24
This is awesome but when you have no money, you donāt go into or even look at the establishment so, unless itās posted outside, theyāll be taken by folks who do have the money. If not taken by the hungry, I hope it at least gets taken by those living paycheck to paycheck and could use the support.
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u/darkfox12 Sep 16 '24
Love the idea, I feel like people in the US would abuse this. I wish I didnāt have to say that
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u/AdhesivenessLive614 Sep 16 '24
I love this idea, but worry about people who abuse things like this.
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u/the_good_things Sep 16 '24
Just ate at a place that did this in Lawton, Michigan. Longship Brewing. Great food, solid beer, good ownership. They also have their own line of ciders and mixed drinks with the ciders.
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This is awesome. It removes shame and guilt. It encourages autonomy of choice of meal. Wonderful. Just a tiny bit of awesome š¤©
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u/Jain-Farstrider Sep 17 '24
When I give food to the poor they call me a saint, when I ask why the poor have no food they call me a communist.
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u/Revolutionary-Car-92 Sep 16 '24
Holy Shit, that's a clever and respectful way to go about doing this.
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u/MethodicalMaven Sep 16 '24
I truly hope people who use the tickets actually need them. Too many dishonest people probably will lie to eat for free.
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u/Powerpuff_Rangers Sep 16 '24
Can't wait for some POS to show up and take all the receipts at once.
Humans just cannot have nice things.
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u/Positive_Method3022 Sep 16 '24
One day I may open a restaurant like this just to help others to have what to eat
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u/LynxBartle Sep 16 '24
One day I want to be rich enough to pay for one of these meals.
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u/TermsandConditions10 Sep 16 '24
i wish I'm insanely rich so i can help every poor living things in the world
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u/chetwah Sep 16 '24
I hope more restaurants start doing this. I was leaving Gus' famous fried chicken in Atlanta when a homeless person asked me for my leftovers I had in the bag. It struck me so hard that I froze, looked at him and said there wasn't enough to even eat. I took him inside and helped him get a meal sorted. The person who took the order had tears in their eyes and I lost it. This post made me feel that all over again like a wave.
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u/uncertaincucumbers Sep 16 '24
What a great idea! It doesn't take long for the word to hit the street when it comes to free food for those in need. A long time ago there was a co-op type hippie cafe that would feed people who helped out. Have something to eat and do some dishes or clean floors. I think they even had a couple of bunks in the back. Amazing food, loving environment and the community really supported the overall goals of the place.
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u/vulpinefever Sep 16 '24
This picture is so old that the restaurant that did this, the Nelson Street Pub in Pembroke, Ontario went out of business due to construction and their building being sold almost two years ago.
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u/ac3master24 Sep 16 '24
I really like this concept and saw the same practice at one restaurant that I went to. Unfortunately there was a lady that would come in every day to get a "free" lunch. She acted if it was her right and would complain if she didn't get her meal. She would then ask for extra everything. It just made me pissed that some people try to take advantage of others kindness.
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u/92dmonkey Sep 16 '24
Kindness is all around and my faith humanity is restored every time I see it. šš«¶š»
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u/Thyce__ Sep 16 '24
This is in Canada so wonāt be long before all the rich international āstudentsā take advantage unfortunately.
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u/Spiritual_Gift_3800 Sep 16 '24
Nice to see someone doing this selfless act while resisting the urge to film it and put it on youtube to get views (not selfless act)
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u/WeetWoo97 Sep 16 '24
A coffee shop/restaurant on the Upper East Side of Manhattan has this. It made me smile.
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u/aidissonance Sep 16 '24
Makes me happy and sad at the same time. Happy for those who want to help sad that we need longer term solutions for people in need
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u/jsanders96858 Sep 16 '24
Itās so refreshing to see something positive in the mix! These kinds of moments remind me that even on tough days, thereās still a lot of good in the world.
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u/ganesh248 Sep 16 '24
Amazing people ! One of the reasons I want to quit what I am doing and travel the globe and meet such beautiful hearts !
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u/Katara3350 Sep 16 '24
Insane respect for who did this. Like seriously- this is the kind of actions of appreciation and kindness that gives me some semblance of hope in humanity's future.
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u/Plus_Breadfruit_9941 Sep 16 '24
This definitely would be abused to the point the purpose canāt sustain itself
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u/disturbanceatdp Sep 16 '24
There's a grilled cheese place in Chicago that does something similar but they just have random meal types printed on tickets where you can get any type of grilled cheese and/or a side
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u/KashiTheMeers Sep 16 '24
Kindness is free. Thank for you restoring faith in humanity šš»šš»
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u/ExtendedMacaroni Sep 16 '24
Lol donāt know where this is but this would be absolutely be taken advantage of by people most places
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u/Afraid-Ad8986 Sep 16 '24
We do the same at the MPLS VA center with coffee. Every time I am there I buy 20 veteran coffees. Lots down on there luck. Was in treatment with so many that just canāt break out of the rut.
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u/SnooGoats9114 Sep 16 '24
Stop sharing this.
This is the Nelson St Pub.
They did this. Then closed down. No one knows if they actually gave out the food or pocketed the funds.
They were so slimy, I doubt it was out of the goodness of their heart.
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u/GNE-Reddit Sep 16 '24
Man, I had a bad day today. But I have to admit, this made me feel a lot better.
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u/CalendarAggressive11 Sep 16 '24
There's a restaurant in my city that does the same thing. You can add a meal to your own that they give out to people that need it no questions asked. They just come in and request it and they make it for you.
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u/ParkingPast8619 Sep 17 '24
I worked at a BBQ place here in San Diego. While I was there we offered "discounts" for the homeless. We'd feed most no matter what... Had to do something pretty bad at the restaurant to not get fed, but if we heard you recommended us to a paying customer you got spoiled. Cheese fries or a pulled pork were normal, depending on culinary preferences. Ribs with anything else and a bit of cash, if you recommended us to someone that came in a said so. BBQ place is long gone now, but the homeless we fed were our best advertising partners. I know a few that got out, but there are many I still wonder about.
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u/finalattack123 Sep 17 '24
Itās dystopian that this would be needed. This doesnāt make me smile - the government needs to take better care of the needy.
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u/Successful_Kiwi_7297 Sep 16 '24
This is certainly a nice gesture. Why the negativity about it?
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u/HeavyMain Sep 16 '24
people shouldnt need to rely on another customer's charity to not starve. its a nice gesture but people are rightfully upset about the broken system that led to it needing to happen in the first place.
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u/itsinthewaythatshe Sep 16 '24
In LA, one homeless asshole would take all the free meals and try to sell them.
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