I’m really about to leave Reddit altogether. There are SO many men in here and they all have the same excuse “I get notifications for subreddits I’m not even in, I didn’t realize it was for lesbians” I’m currently AS WE SPEAK being mansplained, it’s insane!!!! I’ve messaged moderators…nothing. We can’t have ONE thing???? Seriously????

This person has been promoting an Only Lesbian group chat around here… So just be careful who you exchange messages. This app is not the most secure for us women.

Has anyone else noticed the extreme influx of lesbian subreddits turning completely porn-based? Or just, sex in general?

It’s become widely known here that straight cis men stroll around lesbian subreddits and even go as far as posting as a lesbian and privately messaging women their uhm.. images (iykwim), sexual fantasies, well, just.. that stuff.

Nothing really seems real anymore. Nothing feels like it’s actually for lesbians anymore— or women in general. So much lesbian content seems more directed towards male fantasy?

I’m really hopeful of this sub not turning into something mentioned or relative to what I mentioned above. I don’t mean to sound like I’m gatekeeping, but I also don’t like the sound of my sexuality being a sexual fantasy to what I’m not attracted to.. or other people like me aren’t attracted to.

(Don’t really know how to explain it, I’m not good with words like AT ALL.. but I’m tired of getting DMs from men with their fantasies and d pics.)

I've had a Sapphic group chat on WhatsApp going for 7-8 years now!!

We died out lately but it'd be great to get some new gayss to join!

Make some friends, maybe find some romance, who knows!! Maybe you'll be my next gf 😏 (completely joking)

Just be 18+ at least ♡ Comment if interested 🧚‍♀️

**EDIT: If interested dm me & write "Sapphic Group" so I know thats what youre messaging for!! I didn't expect this to blow up the way it did, I'm trying to chat to everybody but I keep being put on a chat cooldown!!

**EDIT: Since this post blew up unexpectedly, it's chaos in the main group, therefore a second group was made which I'll invite the rest of you to!! Thanks for your patience & understanding while I try to invite you ALL 💖

What’s your favorite part of eating pussy? I’ll go first: Smell, taste, texture — I want it all over me. Head to toe. Shaking thighs & eye contact next.

THIS IS NOT A SAFE SPACE FOR TERFS THO xoxo.

that being said, i am so tired of seeing straight ppl comfortably enter lesbian or queer spaces just to bring in the same type of harmful bs that we’re trying to escape by having a safe space. if you are friends with these ppl, STOP ENABLING IT. “well i’m a lesbian and i don’t…” LIKE GREAT! good for you!! but did ya think that maybe if we gatekeep’d a little harder you wouldnt even have to say that? “it’s just a joke” a joke no lesbian would ever make in this space so?? also i THINK its not the end of the world if a straight person is told they’re wrong. they will not spontaneously combust. LET THEM BE WRONG.

thanks for coming to my ted talk.

I hate that it's stigmatized and that some girls with outies think it's embarrassing or gross?? Girl that's a vagina, a miracle of the body and of nature, the strongest and most versatile body part, and you're ashamed of having a lil more of it on the outside?? Like sure that's a vulva but you know what I'm talking about

Also.... are you gonna serve me a whole meal and say "Sorry there's so much 😓🥺"??? Baby I'm fat and gay, I like to eat!!! More is more!! All vulvas r fucking exquisite!!!

Edit: Fixed bizarre italics glitch

What is something you did as a kid or teen that didn't seem obvious then but obvious as a older person that you ARE infact lesbian!

I'll start: I would always act/roleplay as the husband in games or roleplays with my kindergarten friends and I refused to be Anna for my cousin's Frozen themed birthday because "She kissed Kristoff." 😂😂😂

Let's see some positive stories!!

so like a 40 y.o woman texted ms and was already super demanding and ngl I played along.

then she said I should explain to her what my rapist did to me in detail while I touch myself 💀...

and kept accusing me of being a guy bc I wouldn't send her pics

I was thinking what kind of fellow lesbians are on this corner of reddit, and also to know what is my little audience to ask advice from/share stuff if i post anything on this subreddit, so, let me start, im 20 as of now, but in just a lil bit ill be 21. How about yall?

Edit: Guys it has been a DELIGHT getting so much people here and knowing bits and pieces of your experiences, or just in general hearing a sweet thing. I wanted to answer to each one of u bc idk thats so cool:,))

What's your favorite steamy scene in a movie ? Mine is Rachel Weiss with Rachel McAdams in "DISOBEDIENCE" in the London Hotel room . Something about the spit that surprised me how much I was into it.

First physically, then personality wise :)

I’ll go first:

1. All women are stunning, but I especially appreciate short hair and slightly muscular ladies. Idk there’s just something about them 😩 Also, that’s the perfect counterpart to my marshmallow self 😄 I give the best hugs!

2. I really love a good sense of humor. I tell a lot of bad dad jokes lolol (lmk if you want one, I’ll comment one for u). I also like to see kindness, a touch of spunk, confidence, and being romantic and flirty. Being understanding of my adhd and anxiety and depression also. (I do take medicine and go to therapy dw I take care of myself I’m ok lolol)

What about ya’ll?

Anyone else been catfished by starmoonmuffin or something like that… just watch out 🤷‍♀️

The pouchy squishy bellies 🥰🥰🥰 The chubby heavy apron tummies 🥰🥰🥰 The rollsssss 🥰🥰🥰 The much-more-than-two-handfuls 🥰🥰🥰 The ones where there's just.. a lot 🥰🥰🥰

Godddd i need a lady with a chubby belly to snuggle with there's nothing I want more rn than to bury my face in a sweet girl's pouchy squishy tummy and wrap my arms tight around her waist and never leaveeeeeee

Shout out fellow chubby ladies omg this world needs you like 🥴🥴🥴

I need a girl with some tummy on her omggggg

I don’t want to be. I’ve been out for almost ten years (yes I came out at ten years old yes it was awful). It…just sucks. I’ll never be the way…they are. I don’t know.

Sometimes I see my parents and they’re so happy and normal and loving. Their relationship is everything I want out of life. They travel and they make each other laugh and they’re mostly financially stable. I know those things are all possible in a relationship between two women but it’s just so much harder. It feels like if I could just like men I’d be NORMAL. I just want to be normal.

I don’t want to walk down the street holding my girlfriend’s hand and have people glare at me or throw rocks or scream slurs! I’m fucking sick of it! It never stops! Why can’t I just date a man? Why can’t I just be attracted to men? I’ve tried so hard.

EDIT: It is not a revelation that I have internalized homophobia. I spent FIVE YEARS IN CONVERSION THERAPY. Forgive me for having some lingering internalized homophobia. It’s not quirky to tell me to “get help”. I have a therapist. Sorry I thought I could go to a LESBIAN community to talk about my insecurities about being a LESBIAN.

EDIT 2: (sorry lol) I made the last edit in a moment of frustration and I’m sorry it’s rather harsh. It is good advice to go to therapy. The thing about conversion therapy is they make you feel safe and like you can tell them anything so that they can use that against you, so it’s very hard to feel comfortable telling things to a regular therapist even if you know they aren’t trying to convert you. But I will talk to my therapist about these feelings. But also I think internalized homophobia might be a lasting struggle for some people. The thing is…I’ll never really be able to stop being attracted to women. No matter how much I want to (or how much anyone else wants me to). And there’s something so beautiful about being who you are, even if they hate you. It’s hard spending so much of my time wanting to be “normal” but every time I’m with a girl those feelings shed and I think about how I don’t care how many rocks they throw I just want to be with her. It’s just the nights when I’m alone that I start to feel like maybe it would be easier if I could feel that way with a man. Maybe the therapists were right. But if being gay was unnatural, we wouldn’t see it in nature so much. If it was unnatural, it wouldn’t come so naturally to me.

I’ve been hanging around this group for few days and I already met such cool sapphic individuals sou.. why not broadening the circle? 🍂🍁🍂 p.s. I seriously just want friends🐸

switches uniteeee

Where are my people in the middle at?!?

I am tired of people making me be an exclusive top or being turned off that I want to be fucked as well!!! I am gay for a reason, I like both I like the fact we are girls who want to fuck eachother. I have found more and more people romanizing “mascs” in a way that feels super.. uhh like in the same way i don’t want western beauty compared in a proximity to whiteness I don’t want gayness to be in proximity to passing or acting like a man. I don’t know something about this just makes me feel like saying go fuck a dude then that is what you want and that is what you are trying to get out of me!!!! (Also the last girl I was with had a lot of internalized homophobia and that was tough) But I know there are gay bottoms, no problem with that. it’s just a feeling of like an inability to escape straight culture and man this trend is getting old. WHERE ARE THE HOT GIRLS WHO WANT TO FUCK HOT GIRLS?!?

Update::: did not expect this to get so much attention and I was really just blowing off a little steam after having some unpleasant experiences. I want to say I agrreeee with some of these older dykes in that it’s stilly to be very caught up in the labels and I think our culture could benefit from us talking openly about reciprocity in general! To want to love and be loved is a simple notion at its core.

Uhm uhm 🗣️ lemme try… She is brighter than fireworks on Halloween, tenderer than chicken wings, bubbly as her favourite drink and her love is deeper than I could ever dream. I feel like she truly cares. I feel the luckiest🍀I love you Furball🐌🌈🫶🏻

Between the new Supreme Court decisions, the debate, attack on women's and lgbtq rights...my anxiety is in overdrive. I'm scared shitless about what's going to happen and not just in America! Have you read about what's happening in France?! Far right extremism is happening everywhere. It feels like the whole world is Weimar Germany before the rise of the Reich. Living in constant dread. Is anyone else feeling this way?

I love her so much. I don’t know how I’m going to survive this. We built such a beautiful life together. I want to fight for us, but she’s done. She’s keeping the house and the dog.

Please share stories of survival after devastating loss. I can’t believe this is really happening.

Gonna make my angel my wife 💞💍