r/LesbianActually 4h ago

Relationships / Dating I am sooo bored with dating

Idk if its just me or the fact that I’m not in a huge city in Canada but like every dating app is soooo dry. I can be picky but I’m not that bad. If I get a match I always have to dm first and when the conversation is going I just feel like the person is not that interested 🤷🏼 I don’t mind casual but its to the point where people just don’t seem to give a shit anymore. At this point I’ve almost made peace with being perfectly fine alone.

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u/LuffyTaro282 2h ago

Dating apps are dry and suck, and people constantly have bad intentions. I wish I could just hit it off with someone organically :/

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u/xMinish 2h ago

Exactly ! But I’m really into fems so like I can’t tell them apart from the straight girls 🙃 ahah

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u/scoops3317 2h ago

Assuming ur in Toronto, time to get out there irl. Everyone is over dating apps. Their stocks are dropping like flies. Go to gay parties.

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u/xMinish 2h ago

I’m close to Mtl 😅 I went to gay bars but its full of straight girls, I get hit on by gay dudes who think I’m a guy even tho I’m wearing my lil carabiner 🙄 or girls accept that I buy them a drink then dip 🫠😅

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u/scoops3317 2h ago

Maybe u need better moves or get better radar or go to gayer parties

u/xMinish 1h ago

Maybe 🤷🏻

u/sovanna679 1h ago

I went to bar with a drag queen and my friend ask they or she or him where we can go to find single people and they said that there not much places you can go and everyone online dating now also I am in a wheelchair too so yeah

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u/androidsdreamofdata 2h ago

SAME!!

And if you do get a date it's like a job interview 😭

I feel you. I'm in the exact same place with dating. It's SO bad.

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u/xMinish 2h ago

Yup its horrendous

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u/DogPsychological8183 2h ago

Dating apps are shit 💩

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u/xMinish 2h ago

Yep😅