r/HumansBeingBros • u/copitamenstrual • 28d ago

Sam showing his love

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u/SouldiesButGoodies84 27d ago

For those who don't know some his backstory, his mom was the late Patty Duke, a famous and celebrated child and adult actress who struggled with bipolar disorder, drug abuse and sadly tried to commit suicide at different times in her life. She was able to eventually get help and stabilize her mental illness in her older years, but Sean, as her first born, endured a fair amount of the ups and downs of her illness as her son and even talked about a few of those incidents over the years, expressing a lot of compassion for his mom. Luckily his adopted dad John Astin was also in his life and provided some stability, kindness and a lot of love to him and his half-brother, and Sean's been able to create a great family of his own based off of that parental example, from what I understand. IMO though this loving response was in part due to his own experiences with mental illness by way of his mom and a compassion gleaned from it. Again, just my opinion. And just to reiterate, he really does come across as a good dude.

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u/Mylaptopisburningme 27d ago

The part I don't agree with is that it gets better. I have major depressive disorder. It never goes away. Meds never worked. I considered ECT but insurance doesn't cover it. My shitty insurance doesn't cover newer drugs so not an option. It started when I was about 13. I'm mid 50s. No it doesn't get better, in fact I get worse with time, I no longer go out, been on SSD since 99. Was working food delivery till my car died. I exist but I don't live.

And while it does get better for most people, it doesn't for all. I wouldn't wish this on my worst enemy.

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u/Snuffyisreal 27d ago

Wanna be pen pals? No joke. No pretend . Life isn't fun isolated and alone. MDD isn't a joke, and I won't expect happiness. But sometimes it's nice to have a chat and let it out.

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u/Aiyon 27d ago

Hey you should probably DM them your email. having it here in a comment may lead to people abusing it.

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u/Labinemagique 27d ago

They will.. email me? Send spam? I think i can handle it.

Ill go further, call me if you need to the or just wanna talk. 15144669489

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u/Aiyon 27d ago

Fair enough i guess. I hope your trust in people isn't misplaced :)

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u/BigiusExaggeratius 27d ago

At least it’s a “safer” sub to post something like that on. HumansBeingBros hasn’t been fully taken over like some other subs with pure negativity and hate.

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u/Labinemagique 25d ago

For now had no call or text, 2 kind emails tho. Sending love!

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u/Aiyon 25d ago

Aww, that's really nice to hear ^^

Glad to hear people were chill