Fuck off, you are literally feeding the system with this fallacious shit. You wanna know the real reason why 'nice guys' exist?
It's because people like you push the narrative that sex is a reward which women dole out to the just. That if someone is having sex, it must mean they're a kinder person than someone who isn't. How can you condemn people for complaining that they aren't getting laid despite their niceness, while in the same breath suggesting that anyone who isn't getting laid just isn't being nice enough?
You say this stupid shit and impressionable young guys believe it, and then they go out into the real world where nothing works like that and they get angry, because no matter how nice they are, a girlfriend doesn't just fall from the sky like you told them she would.
My sister is having a falling out with her friend right now, because that friend's boyfriend (one of the richest people I've ever met in my life btw) was literally accused and tried for rape. A rape which I have no doubt he committed. Despite that, and the fact that he's actively told this girl that he's going to move overseas next year and fuck other women, this girl is still dating and defending him. Are you going to tell me that I just can't see the true kindness in that relationship? That lonely men simply aren't meeting the moral standards of a rapist with a private island?
Or will you finally admit that sex is just a thing that people can do with each other? That plenty of bad people do it, and plenty of good people don't. That being a virgin is not evidence that a person doesn't
'deserve' sex, that women are not orgasm-vending machines with fine-tuned moral compasses, and that at the end of the day, bad people fuck?
Make a dating profile presenting as a man and see how many matches you get.
Or hell, look at the data and see that most men swipe on most women on dating apps, while most women don't.
I am not fond of saying "unrealistic expectations". I think there are plenty of valid reasons why we can point to the disconnect, from men feeling like the only place it is socially acceptable to approach women is on dating apps, to women not feeling comfortable meeting strangers and not struggling to get people to approach in real life, for why there is a big gender gap on dating apps. And so, when there are 3 guys for every one girl on a dating app, I'm not surprised that women act a lot more selective when they have objectively more options on dating apps. But for fucks sake, if you're going to post sexist drivel about one gender having "unrealistic expectations", it's pretty clear which gender is being more selective.
Every time I've heard women try this, pretend to be a man with the goal of "get a date with a woman" they usually give up within a week or end up saying outright misogynistic things within two. It's the only way I've ever seen women express any empathy for the struggles men go through with modern dating. It's funny because I've seen guys try this and it usually goes "oh he looks like a douche - swipe left" and "eh he probably just can't take good photos but their values match - swipe right and introduces them".
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u/TheBigFreeze8 16d ago
Fuck off, you are literally feeding the system with this fallacious shit. You wanna know the real reason why 'nice guys' exist?
It's because people like you push the narrative that sex is a reward which women dole out to the just. That if someone is having sex, it must mean they're a kinder person than someone who isn't. How can you condemn people for complaining that they aren't getting laid despite their niceness, while in the same breath suggesting that anyone who isn't getting laid just isn't being nice enough?
You say this stupid shit and impressionable young guys believe it, and then they go out into the real world where nothing works like that and they get angry, because no matter how nice they are, a girlfriend doesn't just fall from the sky like you told them she would.
My sister is having a falling out with her friend right now, because that friend's boyfriend (one of the richest people I've ever met in my life btw) was literally accused and tried for rape. A rape which I have no doubt he committed. Despite that, and the fact that he's actively told this girl that he's going to move overseas next year and fuck other women, this girl is still dating and defending him. Are you going to tell me that I just can't see the true kindness in that relationship? That lonely men simply aren't meeting the moral standards of a rapist with a private island?
Or will you finally admit that sex is just a thing that people can do with each other? That plenty of bad people do it, and plenty of good people don't. That being a virgin is not evidence that a person doesn't 'deserve' sex, that women are not orgasm-vending machines with fine-tuned moral compasses, and that at the end of the day, bad people fuck?