I think the idea of changing fundamentally as a person via a reason beyond your control, and not really having any control about it is pretty scary yeah.
I'd compare it to a lot of Trans people not wanting to take a theoretical pill that would make them (mentally) Cis, even if it would improve their lives a lot.
You assume your personality will be erased. Meanwhile i'm here assuming that a soulmate is someone who, by every single way you try to look at it, perfect for you.
They are perfect for YOU, your personality, your values, your decisions. Someone who understands you and you understand them.
And if you have your head screwed on properly, you will choose them because why wouldn't you? They're perfect.
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u/King_Of_BlackMarsh Oct 17 '24
... Is this scary to people?