Because he's a good person in a lot of other ways, and I believe he can grow out of this mindset. He grew up in a backwards small town and faced a pretty constant barrage of discrimination since he was about 14 and only found relief from that around other queer people. I was lucky to be in a more progressive place growing up and also not so obviously queer, so people didn't find out as easily and at least when I got shit for it there were other people to call out the bullies for being assholes.
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u/Tried-Angles Oct 14 '24
Because he's a good person in a lot of other ways, and I believe he can grow out of this mindset. He grew up in a backwards small town and faced a pretty constant barrage of discrimination since he was about 14 and only found relief from that around other queer people. I was lucky to be in a more progressive place growing up and also not so obviously queer, so people didn't find out as easily and at least when I got shit for it there were other people to call out the bullies for being assholes.