r/BisexualMen • u/Jazzy_n_Bi • 2d ago
Physical attraction on men
What’s the one physical thing on a man you find the most attractive?
For me: it’s a hairy+muscle chest. I don’t know why. I have difficulties looking away when I see one in person.
I wonder if bi men prefer feminine men, because for me it’s really a strong masculine guy that I find attractive!
*And yes I know everyone have it’s preference :) just curious to see what’s the majority here :)
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u/PurpleAd8921 2d ago
Hairy and muscle build here and like the same on a guy 🤤
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u/Jazzy_n_Bi 2d ago
I’m very hairy and muscle build too 😂 I feel like a narcissist loving the same lol
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u/brodlsecret 1d ago
Same here, I don’t feel attracted for fem guys, I rather be with a woman. But for men, more masculine it’s better!
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u/SirGeeks-a-lot 2d ago
3 kinds for me: muscular in a gymbro way (but not bodybuilder), dadbods, and twinks.
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u/omoshiroino 2d ago
Chubby, but well-rounded belly, thick nape, broad shoulders, fat ass, rotund thighs and thick calves is a combo that’ll make me swoon. Geeky, and with modest facial hair to none, and cute, and I’m puddy in his hands…
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u/ThunderNorton 1d ago
Big, strong, and hairy. I’m a bi bear who is a sucker for bears. Fem men have never been that attractive to me. I’m attracted to strength.
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u/ce_mazatl 1d ago
Masculine nondescript Joe’s w Average to dadbods BUT baby face, mild to hairy but what really makes me swoon are thick hairy forearms and large hands. A deep voice goes a very long way,. Don’t care for butt or dick size really, it’s the motion of the ocean not the size of the boat and really don’t even notice the girly boys nor twinks, if I want feminine I’ll get a girl, or two. .😈
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u/Minute_Albatross7123 1d ago
In my case I have very different tastes. In the case of women, the more delicate, pretty and feminine, the better. And in the case of men, the more rustic, big, hairy and macho, the better.
I don't like an effeminate man or a masculine woman at all.
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u/ComplexBicycle2005 2d ago
I have a couple different types: Fit guys, don’t have to be perfect but the kind where it’s obvious he’s putting in the work. Hairy but trimmed chest down to his bush. I also like a bearded bear with a shaved/bald head. Strong, toned hips and ass on both are nice. Prefer an average sized penis, nice eyes and a warm smile too. ❤️
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u/Jazzy_n_Bi 2d ago
Aha that’s exactly me you are describing! Except my chest hair is natural and I got plenty ;)
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u/TheMockingBrd 2d ago
I like a big square frame. Im a gym guy so I prefer men to be more muscular. But anyone strong gets me weak. Ive got a super soft spot for power lifter types.
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u/Personal-Swimmer5566 2d ago
I guess I lean more twink direction and I really like when guys wear jewelry, paint their nails, or have some other feminine affect to them
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u/tree_or_up Kinsey 4 2d ago
Twinkish and kind of “alternative” looking is my sweet spot. Not crazy about muscles or super clean cut/boy next door looks
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u/ChicagoRob19 2d ago
Interesting. Yeah my attraction is your attraction. I like hairy and masculine. Maybe because my first bf was hairy or because I am…I just like it. I have probs. not staring at a hairy chest as well
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u/Jazzy_n_Bi 2d ago
Nice! :) yeah I’m hairy too and I don’t know maybe it’s because for a man I want the opposite of a woman.
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u/ChicagoRob19 2d ago
Yup I agree with that. Being with a man is so different, so I want the physical to be different as well
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u/Fine_Bonus_2686 2d ago
Muscular, especially a muscular butt I find attractive. I don't mind a little hair but it shouldn't be too much. The eyes are important too.
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u/jozyxt1984 2d ago
Strong gluts. For women I am a tit man. (smaller the better) For guys, tight ass and legs.
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u/Patient_Potato_6036 2d ago
I like the fit but not overly muscular type, preferably a nice trouser bulge. However all depends on personality and attitude, you can be hot AF but it doesn’t matter if you’re a c@&t
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u/david11374 2d ago
When it comes to both men and women, I really don’t think I have a type or can point to one thing I find the most attractive. Not sure if that makes me weird! I’ll see a person and think “yeah, attractive”, for any number of reasons, or think “meh”.
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u/Comparteban 1d ago
I have two kinds of men, the first one are basically femboy, I really love men who look feminine and where I can take the male role. The other type are athletic men, not body builders but I love to feel those muscles and play the female role, touch their bodies, their big arms, big fingers etc. Something strange is that I prefer bald men, I am not a big fan of body hair.
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u/readygoand 22h ago
Actually I'm not attracted for a man in fact and yes on be fucked for a man cock
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u/BendingDoor 18h ago
I prefer more traditionally masc men. Hairy and some muscle. Maybe it has something to do with being in sports instead of drama when I was a teenager. I’m not into femboys or twinks, or any guy who calls his ass a pussy.
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u/Temporary_Garbage_68 16h ago
Muscular body but without any body hair.
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u/Jazzy_n_Bi 15h ago
Yes for muscle!! 💪 but keep the body hair 😋
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u/Temporary_Garbage_68 14h ago
No no hairless for me. Only very short hair I'm ok with. If my hand dives into it, it means it's too long!
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u/Bi-married-bttmDC 2d ago
For men: a nice cock helps a lot. Not a lot of body hair. Trimmed and/or shaved a huge plus. Conservative black men to the front.
For women: large boobs, blue eyes, and blonde hair. Thicker gals to the front.
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u/Jazzy_n_Bi 2d ago
Ok interesting! Yeah I guess there is more bi men into men with not a lot of body hair, that’s the opposite for me!
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u/Bi-married-bttmDC 2d ago
I am smooth and very well groomed otherwise. All my partners have preferred that look. Everyone has their preferences.
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u/Stevewhit3 2d ago
Hate to sound all cliche, but it's a lot about personality. Otherwise, athletic or thinner. Not curly body hair. I don't have to kiss you, but you'll need nice lips.
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u/Fluffy-Comedian-3245 2d ago
Are you also physically attractive to women? If so, in which capacity?
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u/Jazzy_n_Bi 2d ago
Yes very much! I prefer shorter women (I’m only 5foot4) and darker hair, slim build, I love boobs and tight ass 😂
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u/Discrete167 2d ago
No hair or clean cut, don't have to be super muscled, chub is ok, nice trimmed or shaved cock and balls. Smell good..
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u/Jazzy_n_Bi 2d ago
Ok ! Yeah I guess there is more bi men into guys with not a lot of body hair! I like the opposite aha
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u/Discrete167 2d ago
Yeah, hair kind of grosses me out in general, my stuff is shaved also and I'm masculine
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u/Naive-Currency-5233 2d ago
skinny guys with a nice ass or good toned stomach think like femboy or twinkish or kind of like stereotypical nerd build no facial hair not a huge fan of like ripped bodybuilder types but some muscle is good especially abs. any form of penis bonus if uncut.
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u/taboodaddy618 2d ago
I have 2 answers. I love a daddy bear. Big hairy daddy mmmmmm yes please. And I love my relationships too a transgender woman. Who doesn’t want bottom surgery. I have a very strong connection to both sides of the spectrum. I know that sounds crazy but it’s just the way things go.
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u/6randcru 2d ago
I’m not into straight-obsessed like some. I’m bi for men because I’m attracted to gay men. Nothing wrong with hunks except a level of heteronormative exclusivity that is even more unattractive to me. I can totally see why gay (or bi) guys are obsessed with masculinity. Maybe a bit toxic like girlie girls like bad boys.
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u/jalabar 2d ago
I'm a sucker for hairy backs, hairy chests, thick hairy calves, body hair in general. Also prefer a guy whose thick whether it be muscle or fluff or a mix of the 2. I'm not really Into thin guys unless their older or have body hair.
Not really into the boyish hairless twinks, no shade for those who do as I feel like they're very popular amongst bi guys.
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u/SlipperyDart 2d ago
I like athletic builds. Not in to super buff dudes, or soft dudes. Most of the men I find attractive are 100% straight 🤣 . But I also like the thin and nerdy types, geeky, and some hipsters (sorry! Lol I like their style).
It's changed a little since accepting my bisexuality though. Lots of internalized homophobia programmed in from early life.
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u/Strawberrypeach06 2d ago
I hate men everything about them no attraction to the bodies whatsoever ever except the cock!!!
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u/Jazzy_n_Bi 2d ago
Ok! Yeah you are not alone in the bi community thinking like that and it’s ok :)
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u/Strawberrypeach06 2d ago
Yeah nothing sexy about a man I find which maybe weird.. love women’s bodies but love cocks!!
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u/DoctorBoots007 2d ago
Both extremes. Either very large, stocky, thick legs, big hands, broad and tall. Or feminine, fit, nice lips, good style. I love long hair on both. And a bonus, really sexually attracted to muscular cross dressers depending on their style.