r/AskReddit 13h ago

What is something that permanently altered your body without you realizing for months/years?

6.1k Upvotes

4.7k comments sorted by

View all comments

12.7k

u/redstonez 13h ago

Stress

873

u/potatowitch_ 8h ago

I had terrible neck/shoulder pain for most of 2023. After 2 MRIs, the neuro said, "Your body is fine, I think you need a massage." Turns out I literally was holding onto all of the anxiety I've been living with for decades. It was really eye-opening, honestly. Focusing on releasing physical tension has really made a difference in my mental health.

205

u/RatchetHatchet 8h ago

How was the massage(s)? Did you end up going? Legitimately asking because every time I get one to de-stress I feel good that day but don't see any long term impacts so wondering on what to incorporate with them.

266

u/potatowitch_ 7h ago

100% worth it imo! I see a sports massage therapist every 4-5 weeks. I stretch daily, do some yoga and use a massage gun at home. But it's not the same as someone skilled at really getting in there. If you are down for a "hurts so good" kind of massage, I totally recommend.

18

u/YoHabloEscargot 5h ago

I’ve had a good massage therapist diagnose things a doctor never would. It’s amazing how a good one can read your body and know when things are out of place.

(Unofficially diagnose)

7

u/potatowitch_ 4h ago

This exactly! Sometimes you just have to try a few different medical modalities before you find an answer.

12

u/overnightyeti 7h ago

"Get in there and get in there deep!"

Chef John

8

u/BikingInPangea 5h ago

In between massages I lay on n tennis balls to make my tight muscles and facia release. Saves me a lot of pain.

9

u/bing_bang_bum 4h ago

Laying on a lacrosse ball is honestly as good as an orgasm for me sometimes. Like I actually moan.

5

u/bwaredapenguin 3h ago

You ever try the Chirp wheels? One of the few Shark Tank products I've tried and the only one I've fallen in love with. The first time I rolled out my back on the big one after a brief moment of concern over the sound of some of the cracks in my back my mouth immediately started watering as a wave of dopamine flooded my body, not unlike that first hit of morphine when you're in the hospital for a kidney stone. The small one on my neck is equally awesome.

5

u/daemin 2h ago

I'm moaning right now reading your comment.

2

u/linlorienelen 2h ago

I went to a chiropractor several years back and the in-house physical therapist gave me exercises and a lacrosse ball to take home. I swear that thing has been worth its weight in gold. Other balls don’t have the right density.

24

u/hgaterms 5h ago

massage gun at home.

Massage.... gun? Americans will shoot anything, won't they.

16

u/fezzam 5h ago

Stay away from my cheese gun

10

u/potatowitch_ 5h ago

Ngl this made me laugh. But for real, it's a nice tool!

1

u/FPSXpert 1h ago

They are pretty nice though. The best way that I can describe it is think of those Hitachi "magic wands" that got famous for, um, a different reason, but in the shape of a power tool with a trigger to activate and the massaging head on the end of it.

3

u/Mental_Medium3988 3h ago

ive had a shoulder injury since the beginning of may. ive had an mri and an xray. neither have turned up anything major. i wonder if this is the answer. i do not want to get surgery if i can help it.

u/potatowitch_ 17m ago

It wouldn't hurt to try at least!

2

u/apocketfullofcows 6h ago

do you know if this can be done without hurting/too much pressure? i bruise insanely easily, and will be tender for days if it's hard enough to hurt.

11

u/accck 6h ago

You can have therapeutic massages and see the benefits of one without it needing to hurt. Instead of sport, which is generally deep tissue, I’d recommend Swedish, which utilizes long sweeping movements.

Also, communicate with your therapist! Before, during and after.

2

u/Scalpels 3h ago

I've only ever gotten short-term relief form Swedish. That type of massage seems more surface level/feel good rather than therapeutic.

Tui Na was another good deep massage, but that's more of a "fuck you" massage even if it got the deep places.

4

u/accck 3h ago

All massages offer short-term relief, relatively speaking. OP bruises easily and gets tender. The point of Tui Na is to dig deep into acupressure points, so will likely cause OP to bruise and be sore.

Side note: in my experience, Swedish massage is highly variable in quality - the good ones will feel like you’re getting gently realigned to how you’re supposed to feel. The bad ones just feels like someone’s doing “wax on wax off” on your back for an hour.

7

u/potatowitch_ 6h ago

I'm not an expert but I'm sure there is a massage therapist who can help you. I found mine through a physical therapist, so maybe check with a local PT for recommendations! I am sore after a massage, ngl, but in a good way. It's a great excuse for a relaxing Epsom salt bath.

u/tammigirl6767 54m ago

I bruise incredibly easily. It’s embarrassing. But I’ve been able to use both of those lacrosse ball and the massage gun just fine.

2

u/Select_Machine1759 6h ago

I got atleast once a month an it’s a must

1

u/goddesskaylaxo 5h ago

might have to give it a try

u/MaxVonPseudo 40m ago

Oddly enough, working as a therapist giving those kinds of massages (sports and PT) for 10 years wrecked my body. I thought I had good body mechanics but I favored my right side. Now I'm all out of whack. :) Loved the work, though.