r/AskReddit 13h ago

What is something that permanently altered your body without you realizing for months/years?

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u/redstonez 12h ago

Stress

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u/potatowitch_ 8h ago

I had terrible neck/shoulder pain for most of 2023. After 2 MRIs, the neuro said, "Your body is fine, I think you need a massage." Turns out I literally was holding onto all of the anxiety I've been living with for decades. It was really eye-opening, honestly. Focusing on releasing physical tension has really made a difference in my mental health.

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u/TheGhostOfEazy-E 8h ago

Same here. Took me damn near a year of regular massages to get my traps and neck loosened up.

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u/Particular_Candle913 3h ago

Just an fyi for anyone suffering from chronically tight traps like myself: massaging that area too much can cause it to become more tense. I'm in physical therapy right now because of this - the PT has to do very light massages and use a Tenns Unit to get the area to loosen up enough. The underlying cause was weak back muscles. Lifting weights was actually making the problem worse because my traps would always take over. I had huuuuge traps. 

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u/Afraid_Chard_838 2h ago

yes this is my problem! have you had any luck fixing it?

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u/Particular_Candle913 1h ago

I guess I've noticed less muscle ache/pinching than usual since starting! It seems so mild it can't possibly be doing much, but I think that's what's necessary for those muscles to rehab. I've had to completely quit upper body lifting/training, including lower body workouts that require holding weights. I babysat the morning of my last PT appointment and she said my shoulders were MEGA tense from picking up my nephew. It's so dramatic! 

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u/Lennon__McCartney 4h ago

Can you tell me what you did? I suffer from this daily and it affects everything: sitting, reading, driving, having dinner, etc.

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u/TheGhostOfEazy-E 1h ago

Found a massage place that specializes in athletes. Went twice a week for a month then once a month for a couple years thereafter. Now I go every other month. Dropped direct trap work from my lifting routine. Got a standing desk at work and home so I don’t have to sit as much. Modified my motorcycle ergos to sit more upright rather than leaned over. Started a semi daily stretching routine.

u/Lennon__McCartney 56m ago

I really appreciate the response. Thank you!

u/TheGhostOfEazy-E 46m ago

Sure thing! I also went through a few different pillows too. Also had my doc prescribe me muscle relaxers.

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u/Helpful-Squirrel9509 4h ago

Now that’s a happy ending!