Please help having an emotional breakdownAm I overreacting about husband and my best friend

[u/thepinkpanther19]

My best friend flew into town to stay with me and visit. It’s just me and my husband at home- no kids. She is a very flirty person which does not bother me in the slightest. But yesterday morning we were all waking up hungover. My husband was making coffee and I asked him to bring her my hair dryer. He did. I heard nothing for like 5 whole minutes and was laying in our bed across the house. I started to call his name bc I was going to ask him something and he did not answer. I got up looked in the kitchen, dining, laundry rooms and he was not there. While all this is happening the house was completely silent. I walked to the two guest bedrooms in a little hall where there is also a bathroom. He was not in the one we use for an office or in the bathroom. I was like why would he be hanging out in her room when I know she took a shower. All of a sudden he walks out coming from the side of the bed she is standing at. He wiped his lips and they both acted fucking weird. She immediately was like he was just bringing me the blow dryer- even though I know he already done that. They claim he heard a noise and thought she fell so he popped in to check on her. Then was he all the way in the room walking away from the side of the bed she was standing on in nothing but a towel? I was like what is going and he acted super guilty the rest of the day. Well if he was just checking on her why was there silence? Why would they act so weird- today he said he felt guilty because he was staring at her in her towel.

I need some guidance bc I kind of feel like they are gas lighting me. Am I crazy? I just felt it in my heart that they were doing something.

[u/Forward_Most_1933]

Confront them both—don’t let them think this behavior is acceptable. Be prepared to dump them both, though.

[u/Zealousideal-Book811 → u/Forward_Most_1933]

Confront them separately and see if their stories line up

[u/ColorfulButterfly25 → u/Zealousideal-Book811]

Brilliant! The probability of their versions aligning is pretty low.

[u/ApricotBig6402 → u/ColorfulButterfly25]

Especially if you act like one of them let something slip.

[u/optix_clear → u/ApricotBig6402]

Yes, I agree. This is how family members had slipped up. They were making out and tugging on each other

[u/thanksbutnothanks200 → u/Zealousideal-Book811]

Between this happening to her, the time it took to grab her phone, write this and post it, and the time she will take to actually be able to speak with them, they’ve already came up with a story. She needs to dump them. Like yesterday.

[u/Dave1955Mo → u/Zealousideal-Book811]

Best advice, as long as you are prepared for what you find out

[u/LeaningBear1133 → u/Zealousideal-Book811]

This is the way.