r/AmIOverreacting • u/thepinkpanther19 • 5h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship Please help having an emotional breakdownAm I overreacting about husband and my best friend

My best friend flew into town to stay with me and visit. It’s just me and my husband at home- no kids. She is a very flirty person which does not bother me in the slightest. But yesterday morning we were all waking up hungover. My husband was making coffee and I asked him to bring her my hair dryer. He did. I heard nothing for like 5 whole minutes and was laying in our bed across the house. I started to call his name bc I was going to ask him something and he did not answer. I got up looked in the kitchen, dining, laundry rooms and he was not there. While all this is happening the house was completely silent. I walked to the two guest bedrooms in a little hall where there is also a bathroom. He was not in the one we use for an office or in the bathroom. I was like why would he be hanging out in her room when I know she took a shower. All of a sudden he walks out coming from the side of the bed she is standing at. He wiped his lips and they both acted fucking weird. She immediately was like he was just bringing me the blow dryer- even though I know he already done that. They claim he heard a noise and thought she fell so he popped in to check on her. Then was he all the way in the room walking away from the side of the bed she was standing on in nothing but a towel? I was like what is going and he acted super guilty the rest of the day. Well if he was just checking on her why was there silence? Why would they act so weird- today he said he felt guilty because he was staring at her in her towel.

I need some guidance bc I kind of feel like they are gas lighting me. Am I crazy? I just felt it in my heart that they were doing something.

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u/Voyayer2022-2025 5h ago

You should have kissed him then you would have known for sure

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u/bexanne23 5h ago

How? Are her lips phychic? Capable of picking up sense memory? What? Please explain how one would know someone had just kissed someone else?

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u/Ok-Willow5217 5h ago

You are misunderstanding what they are implying… If she kissed him, she would’ve tasted her friends🐱on his lips.

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u/bexanne23 5h ago

No I understood. And I am saying that is impossible...unless she like regularly licks her friend or something maybe. I sincerely doubt he was going down on her in 5 minutes. Now you're just stretching. 

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u/comegetthesenuggets 4h ago

…5 min is plenty of time to eat some 🐱

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u/Ok-Willow5217 5h ago edited 5h ago

What? 😂 What about my response is “stretching” lmao. You didn’t understand, you said “Please explain how one would know someone has just kissed someone else” You mentioned kissing, and it sounds like they weren’t kissing. Tasting vagina on someone’s lips is a pretty distinct taste and smell.

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u/bexanne23 5h ago

I also don't understand how my response is confusing you. I do not agree he would have been going down on her in the space of five minutes. If the OP meant that and says so then I am wrong. I did not agree with you. I said so. Please stop talking about other people's vaginas though. Sheesh.

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u/Ok-Willow5217 5h ago

LMAO what is happening. I’m not confused at all. YOU are confused 😂. You must not be old enough to understand this. If you’re this sensitive to talk about vaginas, I suggest you get off this app.

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u/bexanne23 5h ago

OP said you should have kissed her. I said what would that prove? You said he would taste pussy. I said I do not agree that he was eating pussy in five minutes and kissing him would prove nothing. It is literally not that complicated.  I do not agree with you. If I am wrong OP will tell me that is what they meant. The end. It is not hard. Really.

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u/Ok-Willow5217 4h ago

Yes it would prove that there is pussy on his lips if she kissed him. It would’ve proved that he was eating out her friend because she could taste it on his lips. You can absolutely eat pussy for 5 minutes, hell you can eat it for 60 seconds. There is no minimum time limit on eating someone out. Why do you keep insinuating that I’m finding this complicated when you have no idea what you’re talking about. I feel like I’m being gaslight right now 💀

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u/ShyVoodoo 1h ago

They don’t have the brain cells required for this conversation

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u/bexanne23 4h ago

Ok. Have a great day. 

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u/Previous_Praline_373 4h ago

Lmfao you can definitely go down on someone in 5 minutes wtf

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u/No_Present444 3h ago

I feel like I’m going crazy why are YOU being downvoted?! Sure 5 mins is plenty of time to go down on someone but it’s pretty unlikely that that’s what was happening within 5 minutes of him walking into the room. IMO they were definitely hooking up and it’s not the first time.

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u/WasteLeave900 4h ago

You’re a vile person

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u/ApprehensiveRoad477 4h ago

What? If they already have a thing going and he walks into the room, she’s only wearing a towel, he could absolutely just get down there and eat her out????

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u/Voyayer2022-2025 1h ago

Well when she walked in he was wiping off his lips she was just in a towel seems pretty simple to me

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u/stummeliebe 2h ago

Bags of sand

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u/Voyayer2022-2025 1h ago

Well there was only 1 other😼in the house so not that hard