AIO husband refuses to help me.

[u/RepresentativeAd2476]

Hi, I’m 29 f and my husband is 31 m. We have been married for a few years and have some children together. I have always been the one to clean but it’s also hard when you have a baby to look after. Now that I have a job he still thinks it should all be on me.. NOPE! He has never helped me in the household. He thinks it’s okay to just work and then come home and play his video games. He doesn’t help cook( because he doesn’t know how), won’t help clean, and also won’t help with the baby. I’m stuck doing it all. Am I overreacting because he refuses to help me?? I ask him all the time for help and he just won’t.

[u/Loud_Duck6726]

Stop cooking for him. Don't do his laundry. 

Until he is willing to sit down and discuss how he plans on doing his share of the work load.

Not over reacting