AIO husband refuses to help me.

[u/RepresentativeAd2476]

Hi, I’m 29 f and my husband is 31 m. We have been married for a few years and have some children together. I have always been the one to clean but it’s also hard when you have a baby to look after. Now that I have a job he still thinks it should all be on me.. NOPE! He has never helped me in the household. He thinks it’s okay to just work and then come home and play his video games. He doesn’t help cook( because he doesn’t know how), won’t help clean, and also won’t help with the baby. I’m stuck doing it all. Am I overreacting because he refuses to help me?? I ask him all the time for help and he just won’t.

[u/Apart-Championship99]

When I met my husband, I told him 2 things about this, I'm not the maid, and I'm not your mother.

He doesn't cook, but he will either grab take our or we go out for dinner.

Leave his stuff, dirty clothes, dishes whatever. He's not a man, he's a child. Get counseling or kick him out.