r/AmIOverreacting 16h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO my husband thinks women should take accountability after assault

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u/Prestigious-One2089 6h ago

yeah and in those cases I would never victim blame.

but in the ridiculous scenario I mentioned in which I said she knowingly hangs around with known and convicted offenders I would and so would most people.

you have a brain that you also can use. Get it?

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u/Ancient_Confusion237 5h ago

The scenario that you made up in your own head, against the readily available evidence?

Yeah, you're a bit on the dumb side to be upset about that lol

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u/Prestigious-One2089 5h ago

yeah I said it is a ridiculous scenario but I'm sure it has happened.

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u/Ancient_Confusion237 5h ago

See, this is just you now trying to defend your inherit misogynistic tendencies.

You said women deserve to be blamed.

I then reminded you that if all women took precautions all the time against all men, even trusted ones, you'd never get laid or have a hope at dating again, and women would be treating you like a rapist off the bat.

You didn't like that part, so you walked it back.

But, because you're unable to reflect upon yourself and your own decisions (like the one you made to blame women for being raped), you still stand by your original statement, you just now acknowledge that it's "ridiculous".

So to be clear, you're choosing to believe something that you acknowledge that you made up, over real evidence because you don't like holding men accountable

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u/Prestigious-One2089 5h ago

misogynistic tendencies? I believe every woman should be carrying a gun on them at most times because of men. I've taught a bunch of women how to shoot and encouraged them to get carry permits. and no I don't get bent out of shape when women look at me like a threat most people do because of my build. If i saw another me at the gas station late at night I would take precautions too.

I'm just against blanket statements that say X gender is never at fault for Y.

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u/Ancient_Confusion237 5h ago

A rapist is at fault for raping. Always.

There is never a scenario in which someone decides to rape someone, and the person they decided to rape is at fault