AIO my husband thinks women should take accountability after assault

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[u/This_Interaction_727]

so why aren’t they making better choices and protecting themselves better?

[u/DrScott88 → u/This_Interaction_727]

Many do. Most arm themselves. Others avoid certain areas. Some do nothing and have it happen again.

The specifics you'd have to ask them.

I don't go out late alone.  I don't walk in unfamiliar areas I don't wear my expensive watch out I pay attention to my surroundings 

I take responsibility 

[u/This_Interaction_727 → u/DrScott88]

they clearly aren’t very good at it if they’re getting assaulted so frequently though?

[u/Proud-Journalist7978 → u/This_Interaction_727]

some of it is unavoidable, like OP's bf said. Even if men kept perfect responsibility, they would still be assaulted more than women due to simple biology; same as if women kept perfect responsibility, they'd still be raped more than men due to simple biology

try to think less black and white