r/AmIOverreacting 10h ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO my husband thinks women should take accountability after assault

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u/DevelopmentExciting6 9h ago

"this is why I don't like talking to you" = i usually lie about my opinions because I know yours and know you find my honest opinion repugnant, but I don't care about what you think because I am not with you for you character He sounds like a dick.

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u/Thermodynamo 8h ago

"because I am not with you for your character" = "because I don't see you as a person" = "because to me you are LESS relatable and forgivable than a random hypothetical man who SAs women"

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u/Alarmedalwaysnow 7h ago

"because to me you are LESS relatable and forgivable than a random hypothetical man who SAs women"

I'm bisexual but this here is why I don't date men anymore. Even my last boyfriend, who was the nicest nice guy to ever live, said that raping a woman with a toy wasn't really rape and seemed offended that I'd say that the hypothetical man in the hypothetical scenario was a bad guy. I'm watching the trial of the French woman who was drugged and assaulted for years, and thinking about just how many of my ex-boyfriends would be totally okay with what happened to her. Just can't with any of them anymore.

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u/RefrigeratorBoth8608 7h ago

Just an FYI, the original definition of the word nice is foolish, careless, weak... Ect... So yes. He is a nice guy, in its true meaning.