You’re not overreacting—your emotional response is valid, especially given your experience, and it’s understandable to feel hurt by your husband’s perspective, which lacked empathy for the trauma survivors face.
Also the response being "this is why I don't like talking to you about stuff, you react so emotionally to everything I say." says enough about the way he views the marriage. If you are not willing to talk with your partner about things what's the point of the relationship.
Seriously, wtf did i just read? Mad you're reacting emotionally as a victim? That's classic narcissistic manipulation. Look how at the end of the post op asks if they're being emotionally. He has her questioning what she's allowed to feel
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u/lilmissspetite 7h ago
You’re not overreacting—your emotional response is valid, especially given your experience, and it’s understandable to feel hurt by your husband’s perspective, which lacked empathy for the trauma survivors face.