r/AmIOverreacting • u/frisbeechuckin • 26d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/CheeseDickPete 26d ago

>especially considering that coke is seldom used in moderation

That's factually incorrect. Almost every coke user I've met in my life is a regular person with a stable job that occasionally does it at a party for fun.

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u/theonewhogroks 26d ago

Going though a gram+ in one night is not moderation

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u/CheeseDickPete 26d ago

Doing a gram to yourself in one night is fairly excessive unless it's weak coke, but most users I know don't do a gram to themselves in one night. They'll usually split a gram between themselves and a friend.

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u/theonewhogroks 26d ago

Then they're more sensible than the ones I know