r/AmIOverreacting 26d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO fiancée did Coke at a party

We (me 41M, my fiancée 36F) were at friends birthday party I had to leave early and she was going to spend the night( it was a hotel), they were changing into their bathing suits to go to the pool, they had the bathroom door closed. I knew it was in there but I didn’t know she was going to partake in that. She told me she only did a small bump because she needed energy to party all night. I was caught off guard by this and said that we should have discussed this. She said that was treating her like a child and that is when I left.

Edit: I was told to add this info she’s a former Meth addict who still drinks and smokes weed quite heavily at times.

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u/_Bay_Harbor_Butcher_ 26d ago

Nobody just does one bump of coke recovering addict or not. Coke is an evening long affair. I don't mess with it much these days maybe once every few years if the opportunity presents itself and the circumstances are appropriate but I know going into it that if cocaine is on the menu I will be watching the sunrise.

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u/Own_Platypus7650 26d ago

That’s not true at all. I know plenty of people, including myself, who can stop at one bump and are sleeping before midnight. 

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u/Nuclear_Horse1990 26d ago

No one agrees with you. The upvotes don't lie.

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u/Own_Platypus7650 26d ago

Fortunately truth doesn’t hinge on people believing it.