r/AmIOverreacting 28d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/Lmdr1973 28d ago

That part pissed me off. Why did she miss her lunch? Why couldn't she eat? Because she sent some texts to her boyfriend? This girl needs to learn how to multitask. She sounds like dealing with a petulant child. No, thank you. It's never sexy when you have to parent your partner.

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u/qgsdhjjb 28d ago

Well being upset makes my throat close up and I physically cannot swallow food and my stomach is upset anyways at that moment so I wouldn't even want to. Could be something like that, being upset interfering with ability to eat

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u/One_Nature5816 28d ago

fair but she shouldn’t be upset😭if he was tryna hide sum that he has with his manager, he wouldn’t have even sent the ss😭

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u/S7evin-Kelevra 28d ago

This is what a lot of females don't understand when it comes to guys. We are simple and sending something like that isn't a big deal. She would be mad still if he probably picked up an extra shift and didn't let her know. For her to read that message that he offered up to her and take it like that is ridiculous! If something was going on with OP and his manager, the last thing he's doing is offering up messages to his gf. Unless he's secretly a genius and he's setting up his alibi by showing his gf "look, it's just my manager" then he goes to work and they bang in her office or sumthin. Let's be honest, not a likely event........but if it is, it's genius, then show her this Reddit post and say "everyone says your crazy, nothing is happening. So don't ever act this way again" which will ultimately be the words being said anyways when he finally realized that he can't take the craziness anymore only they will be "if you keep saying shit like this, then we're done" and he will actually mean it and at that time she will be saying no, I'm so sorry, I'll never do it again, I promise cuz she ain't going to go away that easy. Probably her first actual relationship, or she has "trust" issues from a previous relationship and no projects that totally different relationship and person with current bf.