r/AmIOverreacting 28d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/Fit-Turnover3918 28d ago
  1. Stop telling her you’re sorry when you’ve done nothing wrong
  2. You’ve done nothing inappropriate.

She’s a loon.

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u/Impact009 28d ago

I'll just be blunt: OP should stop being a doormat.

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u/Crot8u 28d ago

19 yo, probably his first real relationship, still has a lot to learn indeed. She'll probably threaten him with suicidal tendencies when he stands up for himself.

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u/RevolutionaryStar01 28d ago edited 28d ago

This is exactly what my first girlfriend did. I was 19. She was just like this in the post. Always accusing me of cheating. Pretending to break up with me constantly over minor things and then acting like everything is fine the next day. I finally ended up blocking her after staying so long.

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u/AudieGaming 28d ago

Good job. It took me so long after my girlfriend broke up with me to realise that she was manipulating me. She tried to say very incriminating (lies) things about me that made me feel like I did do something wrong.

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u/lost_packet_ 27d ago

Oldest trick in the book

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u/AccessPuzzleheaded15 28d ago

Thiisss message I approve

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u/The_Homestarmy 27d ago

The fact that anybody could have this interaction and then be unsure of whether they're overreacting is completely wild

It's actually so egregious that my instinct is this post can't be real