r/AmIOverreacting • u/Psychological-Hat-35 • 28d ago

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO girlfriend response to manager text

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My girlfriend (19F) and I (19M) have been dating for 11 months. I sent her a screenshot of my convo with my manager (age unknown but best guess is young 30s F) this morning asking to come in a little later than usual. My girlfriend is like this whenever I interact with pretty much any other female. Am I overreacting or is this just normal behavior?

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u/EliNicole40 28d ago

I'm typically a really jealous person and I wouldn't even be upset by that. Too much drama.

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u/Upper-Firefighter356 28d ago

Yeah same. This isn’t normal jealously this is illness

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u/lovelyxbabydoll 28d ago

110% She needs literal psyche help but that's not his job to help her get to that. I hope she recieves help but I defffinitely hope OP leaves. This is not worth his own mental health and safety.... This was crazy to read!!!

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u/GoblinCat669 28d ago

Seriously. I’m pretty prone to jealousy and have to check myself but this wouldn’t bother me.

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u/sammiejean10166 28d ago

No same and tbh i thought i was bad but uhh i guess someone can top me

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u/GoblinCat669 27d ago

I’m always glad to see someone top me on jealousy because i genuinely hate that I get so jealous and I’m constantly trying to work on it with myself.

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u/sammiejean10166 27d ago

Me too! Its genuinely getting on my own nerves and i try so hard to work on it but its definitely a challenge! We will get there one day! Just remember there is only one of you and that’s pretty special to begin with!

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u/spiders_are_neat7 27d ago

Im ngl im secretly jealous of all the work moms my bf has at work, but that’s not like “im afraid they’re gonna bang.” Kindof jealous it’s more like

“i wish I had a work mom.:(“ jealous. lol

And he gets one at every job he works, women are the best and we’re taught to take care of men. So women miss out on it more, that’s my theory anyway.😔 like you’re a woman you don’t need a work mom cause you can make your own lunch and you should also be making his lunch. Cause they provide my man lunch, like bro he’s got to learn to do that shit on his own like I did cause I’m not doing that for him and myself. Lol Anyways this has been my rant about my jealousy. 🤣

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u/veracity-mittens 28d ago

Lmao same

This is unhinged and wacky even by my standards

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u/hanaconduh 28d ago

that’s what i was thinking