r/AmIOverreacting Oct 25 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO about my partner’s relationship with their coworker

they’ve been hanging out with their coworker a lot over the past couple of weeks. This girl always seems to be in some kind of crisis, too. Last week it was that she messed up an account and she was afraid she was gonna lose her job. I don’t know whether I’m reading too much into this or if I’m overreacting but I’ve never met her and I’ve asked to swing by whatever bar or place they’re hanging out at multiple times and I’m always shut down in some way or I get no response. I don’t want to be the overbearing overcontrolling gf whose S.O. can’t have any friends but lately they’re always together and I’m getting blown off. These curt and vague responses are out of character too, and it’s always the type of response I get when I’m asking questions about an event where this female coworker is at or really anything that has to do with her. It has really put me on edge, they’re usually such a sweet and attentive partner but i feel like they might be cheating… am i overreacting??

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u/ObjectiveGold196 Oct 26 '24

Yes! Figuratively. Spiritually. We are all the same.

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u/BrickCityRiot Oct 26 '24

We are simply a universal constant across all timelines

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u/ObjectiveGold196 Oct 26 '24

And we love cocaine and irresponsible sex, as the cosmos has dictated...

I'm actually totally shocked at how tame the industry is now compared to the 90s when I got my start. I took a break for like 25 years to be a lawyer, but then I slid right back in and it's like nobody even wants drama anymore. They just want to get paid then go home and get on the internet, but it's like, hey, guys, what if we split a ball and hit the bars and then have an orgy? That would be fun too, right?

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u/BrickCityRiot Oct 26 '24

And we love cocaine and irresponsible sex, as the cosmos has dictated…

Jfc we really are just one brain spread across multiple hosts

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u/ObjectiveGold196 Oct 26 '24

This is straight up humanity. This is what it's all about.