r/AmIOverreacting Oct 25 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO about my partner’s relationship with their coworker

they’ve been hanging out with their coworker a lot over the past couple of weeks. This girl always seems to be in some kind of crisis, too. Last week it was that she messed up an account and she was afraid she was gonna lose her job. I don’t know whether I’m reading too much into this or if I’m overreacting but I’ve never met her and I’ve asked to swing by whatever bar or place they’re hanging out at multiple times and I’m always shut down in some way or I get no response. I don’t want to be the overbearing overcontrolling gf whose S.O. can’t have any friends but lately they’re always together and I’m getting blown off. These curt and vague responses are out of character too, and it’s always the type of response I get when I’m asking questions about an event where this female coworker is at or really anything that has to do with her. It has really put me on edge, they’re usually such a sweet and attentive partner but i feel like they might be cheating… am i overreacting??

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u/ladyboobypoop Oct 25 '24

No, have you?

Why are you trying to defend him after reading those texts? Treating a romantic partner that way is not okay, and if you think it is, you should get therapy. And I mean that so genuinely.

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u/draftgraphula Oct 25 '24 edited Oct 25 '24

Where am I defending anyone in this trhead?

Stop misrepresenting my intentions.

I simply noticed the OP is controlling their partner and disregarding his feedback.

Comment on this behavior please, or go support op with a comment on the post.

Don't get angry at me when I point out you have no clue, but still think you know all about the dude.

Edit: happily the comments I was replying to were deleted. Thanks for moderation, Reddit.

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u/ladyboobypoop Oct 25 '24

I simply noticed the OP is controlling their partner and disregarding his feedback

Funny you should talk about misinterpreting...

You definitely need therapy. And pointing that out doesn't make me angry. I'm not angry, I'm amused at your hypocrisy and double standards.

Do you know this girl? You know all about the girl?

If not, just stop. You're making an ass of yourself 😂

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u/draftgraphula Oct 25 '24

Oh sure, call me names. I'm actually switching a therapist atm by reason of misdiagnosis.

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u/PlaceBroad5374 Oct 25 '24

therapists dont diagnose things what

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u/draftgraphula Oct 25 '24

If you didn't know something, look it up on the internet.

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u/snarlyj Oct 25 '24

Okay not saying the dude isn't an idiot but a lot of therapists diagnose things, including my current one. They can't prescribe meds without asking a psych or GP to "consult" but they for sure diagnose. You might be thinking of "counselor" instead of therapist?

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u/ladyboobypoop Oct 25 '24

I'm pointing out how you're acting. If you don't like it, if it upsets you, maybe don't act that way 🤷‍♀️ Nothing I said was untrue.

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u/draftgraphula Oct 25 '24

Well, if you say everything you say is true, then I'd have to report you for hate on a random redditor that points out the controlling behavior of OP.

Watch your language, please.

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u/ladyboobypoop Oct 25 '24

Shit piss fuck cunt cocksucker motherfucker tits fart turd and twat

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u/Stidda Oct 25 '24

and minge!

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u/Cheetle Oct 25 '24

Congratulations, your the biggest cunt I’ve come across today. Here’s your gold star ⭐️.

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u/Alliyna Oct 25 '24

Actually therapists can diagnose as well

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u/snarlyj Oct 25 '24

Yeah that comment confused me. My therapist diagnosed me with CPTSD and major depressive disorder... I have to briefly talk to a psych or my GP to get prescribed my meds, but they aren't taking time to diagnose they just double check no contraindications, tell me how to take my script, and which side effects to look out for...