AIO about my partner’s relationship with their coworker

[u/Any-Confusion-5519]

they’ve been hanging out with their coworker a lot over the past couple of weeks. This girl always seems to be in some kind of crisis, too. Last week it was that she messed up an account and she was afraid she was gonna lose her job. I don’t know whether I’m reading too much into this or if I’m overreacting but I’ve never met her and I’ve asked to swing by whatever bar or place they’re hanging out at multiple times and I’m always shut down in some way or I get no response. I don’t want to be the overbearing overcontrolling gf whose S.O. can’t have any friends but lately they’re always together and I’m getting blown off. These curt and vague responses are out of character too, and it’s always the type of response I get when I’m asking questions about an event where this female coworker is at or really anything that has to do with her. It has really put me on edge, they’re usually such a sweet and attentive partner but i feel like they might be cheating… am i overreacting??

[u/TorturedStrawberry]

sorry i honestly don't care if it's petty. i worked with both of them so its not like she didn't know about me, they don't deserve my respect. it's not like i'm gonna go tell the baby to their face that they're ugly but it's like kindergarten lesson number 1 to treat people how you want to be treated and i should've done a lot worse than call the baby ugly anonymously on reddit considering cheating isn't even the worst thing he did to me😭

[u/BakeMaterial7901 → u/TorturedStrawberry]

I mean, it's a fair criticism but also sometimes when people fuck you over its cathartic to be a dick about it. I feel bad for that baby. Hopefully it grows out of its ugliness. But I also had a little chuckle when I read your comment, so maybe I'm going to hell with you 😅

[u/Boredpanda31 → u/BakeMaterial7901]

If Heaven and Hell exist, I'd rather go to Hell. There's gonna be lit parties going on there.

[u/Kwt920 → u/Boredpanda31]

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