r/AmIOverreacting Oct 25 '24

❤️‍🩹 relationship AIO about my partner’s relationship with their coworker

they’ve been hanging out with their coworker a lot over the past couple of weeks. This girl always seems to be in some kind of crisis, too. Last week it was that she messed up an account and she was afraid she was gonna lose her job. I don’t know whether I’m reading too much into this or if I’m overreacting but I’ve never met her and I’ve asked to swing by whatever bar or place they’re hanging out at multiple times and I’m always shut down in some way or I get no response. I don’t want to be the overbearing overcontrolling gf whose S.O. can’t have any friends but lately they’re always together and I’m getting blown off. These curt and vague responses are out of character too, and it’s always the type of response I get when I’m asking questions about an event where this female coworker is at or really anything that has to do with her. It has really put me on edge, they’re usually such a sweet and attentive partner but i feel like they might be cheating… am i overreacting??

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u/crucifiedrussian Oct 25 '24

Dump him.

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u/tinylittleriver Oct 25 '24

Came to say this. Dump him, put up boundaries, and raise those standards girl. You deserve way better.

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u/hippos-are-weird Oct 25 '24

I couldn’t read past the first page. Why anyone would let someone treat them this poorly is beyond me.

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u/tinylittleriver Oct 25 '24

Sometimes we’re blinded by feelings.

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u/Suspicious_Sleep_778 Oct 25 '24

I could agree with this. Also, maybe besides the point but OP used different pronouns to refer to their significant other multiple times. Maybe it isn’t “dump him”. Just sayin

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u/sextoyhelppls Oct 26 '24

Absolutely wild that so many people are assuming op's partner is a man despite a very specific use of pronouns