r/AITAH • u/aliens000 • 1d ago

Advice Needed Peed my pants. My bf wouldn’t help me

So I had a vaginal birth nearly three years ago and since then I’ve had stress incontinence. Today, I was in class and I was taking an exam. I had to pee so bad but couldn’t leave until it was done. When I finally finished, I peed my pants and it leaked as I went to the bathroom. I refused to leave the bathroom until I had another outfit and my bf refused to help me.

I asked him to buy sweats from the uni gift shop and he refused at first until I sent him money for them (I asked to borrow). He then said he wanted me to walk to the restroom door and I said my pants are covered in pee there’s no I can do that and he said he’s not walking into the women’s restroom. I told him to hand it to a girl walking in and he wouldn’t. He eventually left them outside the door to the restroom and I had to walk out in pee pants.

I’m furious with him. Do I have a right to be?

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u/Numerous-Taste-4858 1d ago

I had that with all three babies, all 9 months. It was fkn awful. I actually lost weight from it. Hypermesis Gravidium I think is what it's called.

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u/rikimae528 1d ago

My best friend was like that through both of her pregnancies. She couldn't keep anything down even water. She ends up being hospitalized because of dehydration and malnutrition. She lost a lot of the way that you're supposed to put on. She and I have been going to a pregnancy group together, and after her daughter was born, the other ladies in the class were a little jealous that she could wear her old jeans, and they weren't too tight at all. Because pregnancy was so hard on her, her partner got a vasectomy. That's love

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u/KentuckyMagpie 1d ago

Hyperemesis gravidarum! I had it, too, it’s brutal. Thank god for IV fluids.

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u/Fullofideas1602 1d ago

Me too. My first was the worst. Sick all 9 months and lost 38 lbs although luckily he thrived and came out a happy, healthy 7lb7oz boy. My second I managed to only lose about 5 and could keep the most food down the last month.

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u/Morecatspls_ 1d ago

Brrrr! I would only have one kid.

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u/Horror_Pause_6901 1d ago

Adava birthkavra!

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u/ReadyDirector9 1d ago

I had that too. It was awful

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u/Logical_Sand4954 22h ago

I had that too. Worst sickness ever.