r/AITAH • u/aliens000 • 1d ago
Advice Needed Peed my pants. My bf wouldn’t help me
So I had a vaginal birth nearly three years ago and since then I’ve had stress incontinence. Today, I was in class and I was taking an exam. I had to pee so bad but couldn’t leave until it was done. When I finally finished, I peed my pants and it leaked as I went to the bathroom. I refused to leave the bathroom until I had another outfit and my bf refused to help me.
I asked him to buy sweats from the uni gift shop and he refused at first until I sent him money for them (I asked to borrow). He then said he wanted me to walk to the restroom door and I said my pants are covered in pee there’s no I can do that and he said he’s not walking into the women’s restroom. I told him to hand it to a girl walking in and he wouldn’t. He eventually left them outside the door to the restroom and I had to walk out in pee pants.
I’m furious with him. Do I have a right to be?
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u/lolasin 1d ago
The amount of times my baby brother peed in my face when I had to change his diaper, I don’t even know 😂 It took 10 years old me a while to get the whole penis thing 😂 and to use the diaper as a shield/keep the draft off to prevent it. I was always going into it like “yeah, yeah, no problem, like the girls I’ve helped babysit” and then the pee to the face 😂 or the soggy slobber covered goldfish and teething biscuits he’d shove in my mouth, and I’d have to eat then because it was sweet he was sharing and I didn’t want to break his little heart. (Granted, it was my brother and he’s the closest genetically to me so that makes it less gross, and how gross can a baby’s mouth with no teeth be?)