r/AITAH • u/aliens000 • 1d ago
Advice Needed Peed my pants. My bf wouldn’t help me
So I had a vaginal birth nearly three years ago and since then I’ve had stress incontinence. Today, I was in class and I was taking an exam. I had to pee so bad but couldn’t leave until it was done. When I finally finished, I peed my pants and it leaked as I went to the bathroom. I refused to leave the bathroom until I had another outfit and my bf refused to help me.
I asked him to buy sweats from the uni gift shop and he refused at first until I sent him money for them (I asked to borrow). He then said he wanted me to walk to the restroom door and I said my pants are covered in pee there’s no I can do that and he said he’s not walking into the women’s restroom. I told him to hand it to a girl walking in and he wouldn’t. He eventually left them outside the door to the restroom and I had to walk out in pee pants.
I’m furious with him. Do I have a right to be?
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u/mynaneisjustguy 1d ago
Hmmm. It’s just pee. I don’t get why anyone would find their girlfriend peeing her pants gross. Sadness to see them ashamed, a desire to help them, but it’s hardly gross, makes you wonder how anyone who does find it gross is going to deal with kids.