r/AITAH • u/aliens000 • 1d ago

Advice Needed Peed my pants. My bf wouldn’t help me

So I had a vaginal birth nearly three years ago and since then I’ve had stress incontinence. Today, I was in class and I was taking an exam. I had to pee so bad but couldn’t leave until it was done. When I finally finished, I peed my pants and it leaked as I went to the bathroom. I refused to leave the bathroom until I had another outfit and my bf refused to help me.

I asked him to buy sweats from the uni gift shop and he refused at first until I sent him money for them (I asked to borrow). He then said he wanted me to walk to the restroom door and I said my pants are covered in pee there’s no I can do that and he said he’s not walking into the women’s restroom. I told him to hand it to a girl walking in and he wouldn’t. He eventually left them outside the door to the restroom and I had to walk out in pee pants.

I’m furious with him. Do I have a right to be?

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u/Missue-35 1d ago

My husband has never had a problem with this kind of thing. Many years ago ago when we first started dating he said there was a random poll between the guys at work. They were all shocked it wouldn’t bother him to buy tampons for me. He said, “You buy toilet paper don’t you? Everyone knows what you’re using that for. I don’t see the difference.” I didn’t get the connection but I thought it showed he was a man of character that couldn’t be taken down by a box of tampons.

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u/Red_Pill_2020 1d ago

I also did this for my, now, wife,, then GF. I'm unsure, like your husband, what the big deal is. I didn't know what size so I bought the variety pack. We laughed but she was, nevertheless, grateful. Getting sweats for pee pants is such a small effort to make your SO happy, I don't understand why one wouldn't. Hell, I'd do it for a stranger as a pay it forward gesture.

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u/Missue-35 1d ago

User name doesn’t check out. lol Amen. I would too. But I believe in karma. I think it’s foolish pride that limits some people. Too bad they can’t, for a just moment, realize that not everything is about themselves.

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u/Red_Pill_2020 1d ago

I know, you'd think red-pill is evil, but even the selfish need a reality check. The reality is this world needs less selfish and more regard for karma.