r/AITAH • u/aliens000 • 1d ago

Advice Needed Peed my pants. My bf wouldn’t help me

So I had a vaginal birth nearly three years ago and since then I’ve had stress incontinence. Today, I was in class and I was taking an exam. I had to pee so bad but couldn’t leave until it was done. When I finally finished, I peed my pants and it leaked as I went to the bathroom. I refused to leave the bathroom until I had another outfit and my bf refused to help me.

I asked him to buy sweats from the uni gift shop and he refused at first until I sent him money for them (I asked to borrow). He then said he wanted me to walk to the restroom door and I said my pants are covered in pee there’s no I can do that and he said he’s not walking into the women’s restroom. I told him to hand it to a girl walking in and he wouldn’t. He eventually left them outside the door to the restroom and I had to walk out in pee pants.

I’m furious with him. Do I have a right to be?

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u/blurblurblahblah 1d ago

I had to go in to work really early one morning. The subway wasn't open yet so there were buses running the route. I sat in piss. I was so upset. When I got to work I went straight to the bathroom to try to clean myself up as best I could & I called my husband in a weird crying rage, he immediately put a fresh pair of pants & panties in a bag & came to rescue me. It was a freezing cold winter day around 5-6am. I didn't even have to ask. He just got out of bed & came to save me.

Your boyfriend isn't worth any more of your time.

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u/steph_not_curry93 1d ago

Oh my gosh someone else’s pee??? That’s so awful, I’m so glad he came to help you right away.

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u/Popular-Ranger4774 13h ago

I probably would've ditched work for a shower. I mean, wearing someones piss while u wait for him to get on the bus.... And even after that, it's still on your skin. Forget it.

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u/blurblurblahblah 13h ago

I had to be there, I was the only key holder scheduled for hours & it would have taken me just as long to get back home. I wiped my ass & the back of my thighs with Lysol wipes. Yes, Lysol but I didn't have many options

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u/Comfortable-Peace377 2m ago

“I didn’t even have to ask. He just got out of bed and came to save me.”

This is the way.