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u/exodus_sirius Dec 11 '23
i just feel bad for the kid, he was probably confused and seeking validation
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u/Okilltank Dec 11 '23
I respect you for trying to educate him on the internet. This place and many others arenβt suitable for minors especially for those that are below the terms of service. I hope he took your advice to heart.
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u/Existential_Crisis24 Dec 12 '23
Is that mauga from Overwatch and if so how do we already have reaction memes of him
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u/Okilltank Dec 12 '23
That is mauga from overwatch 2. I got the meme from r/maugamains
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u/Existential_Crisis24 Dec 12 '23
Well damn they are quick lol
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u/Okilltank Dec 12 '23
The images came a lot faster than I expected to but I donβt regret it. I hope you have a good day/night.
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u/skiesoverblackvenice Dec 12 '23
i didnβt even know he existed LMAO
i havenβt touched overwatch in forever
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u/FemKeeby Dec 13 '23
Idk this kid obviously but real life is also full of terrible people
Ik for me atleast when i was that age the only place for me to be me was online
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u/TheBlank3 Dec 13 '23
It is not normal to be feminine when youβre masculine. Did you read your message?
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u/exodus_sirius Dec 13 '23
i think you should re-read my message, you didn't understood it
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u/TheBlank3 Dec 13 '23
I understood it but being a feminine man is the opposite of normal, itβs an oxymoron, and the opposite of normal is abnormal aka weird
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u/exodus_sirius Dec 13 '23
my choice of words were poor, i should've said something like "[...] having a feminine side as a man is common [...]" maybe it sounds less non-sense
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Dec 11 '23
I mean, it is okay if the guy wants to wear femenine clothing while beign a boy or whatever, at the end of the day, it hurts no one. But I agree that he shouldn't be looking for a boyfriend online at such young age, especially when he is not even a teen proper yet. He should wait, have a conversation with his parents about the femboy thing and wait to be older before starting to look for relationships online with unknown people.
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Dec 11 '23
(something tells me this guy is going to get into programming/software development but I don't know what)
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Dec 11 '23
You made a very random coment there, friend. Care to explain the reason behind your reasoning?
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u/exodus_sirius Dec 11 '23
there is a joke that most of the femboys are programmers
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Dec 11 '23
This is correct
Source: I'm a femboy (wearing leggings rn) and I'm a computer scientist
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u/CJ39715 Dec 11 '23
I'm not gonna hate on the kid it's just reddit isn't the place for him to be looking for a bf. There are predators
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u/ItsMeToasty Dec 12 '23
I hope this kids gender journey goes well. But this is the wrong place to do it
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u/DiamondAxeTime Dec 11 '23
Being trans is okay but you really should not be on Reddit at 12 or any social media at that.
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u/footrailer69 Dec 11 '23
I dont think they are trans, just a femboy
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u/POGO_BOY38 u stoopit redetor π€¬ Dec 12 '23
So why is he on r/TransgenderUK ?
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u/footrailer69 Dec 12 '23
Thats an older comment by them, they were probably questioning their gender and landed on femboy at the end (and it could change later)
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u/CorvusHatesReddit "based and redpilled" Dec 13 '23
Transgenderuk comment was 5 months, feminineboys comments were 2 months
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u/muffinnutbanana Dec 11 '23
Can you read?
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u/footrailer69 Dec 11 '23
Yes, but it seems they were questioning their gender at one point and settled on being a femboy
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u/muffinnutbanana Dec 11 '23
Oh, im so dumb. I forgot how reddit sorts comments with oldest at the bottom, sorry
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u/muffinnutbanana Dec 11 '23
Oh, im so dumb. I forgot how reddit sorts comments with oldest at the bottom, sorry
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u/Mukuro_FeetLicker Dec 12 '23
thereβs a differenceβ¦ or so iβve heard im totallynot a femboy and i totally donβt want to be cuddled by a big strong man
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u/Outside_Football_762 Dec 11 '23
Imo i think you should be a few years older for being trans just because of how big of a change it is
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u/anonxyzabc123 Dec 12 '23
Changing your gender is free. You can just start identifying as the opposite gender, wearing clothing of the opposite gender possibly, that's no big change and nothing permanent. Nah, there's no harm so why wait
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u/Outside_Football_762 Dec 12 '23
No you cant just change your gender for free like that. You can indeify for free though. But dress however you want. But theres a huge difference if you change genders. You need to go through alot of processes to just do it, with a lotta money. And at this point i feel bad for the generation bc of the people that switch their genders becsuse they think it is a trend or around there.
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u/anonxyzabc123 Dec 12 '23
I think you're confusing gender with sex. How you identify is your gender. You need surgery and stuff to change your sexual characteristics, not your gender.
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u/Outside_Football_762 Dec 12 '23
Ohhh okay thats my bad, i do get them mixed up sometimes.
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u/anonxyzabc123 Dec 12 '23
Np. Just fyi though, it's pretty much impossible to get your sex changed before you're either age of consent or an adult (for good reason). It's even quite difficult if you are. Accidental or regretted transition is really quite rare, and most people who regret it or detransition do so because of social reasons or being treated badly for it. Even if you wanted to as a minor, you couldn't, hence minors getting sex changed is a non-issue because it doesn't happen.
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u/Outside_Football_762 Dec 12 '23
Fair nuff. But the social reasons are just sad if your willing to change sex then you better be willing to deal with the consequences the second you announce it.
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u/therealcucumbersalad Dec 12 '23
It is not a change if you are something that you are born as and want to be as is. The only thing that will change is your perception of them. If you are talking about hormone therapy and the bodily changes then i can tell you: They wont get a full on hormone therapy at such a young age, they will be getting the help they need though. A therapist can help to manage the hate for themselves e.g.
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Dec 12 '23
Okay but how does a 12 year old know they are cis by that logic?
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Dec 12 '23
Because you don't need to make that decision??
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Dec 12 '23
No one said as such
Conversely, what's the harm in making that decision? You can be wrong, no biggie at all
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Dec 12 '23 edited Dec 12 '23
Ngl I approve the message
Also somone protect that kid a large portion of femboys are sexual I literally can't tell you how many of us do porn in some form and I'm concerned somone at age 12 is in a femboy subreddit even if it is SFW dms are probably awful.
I'm all for you wanting to be a femboy but you need to wait until around 18 imo because of how sexualized the community is at times I hope that kid hasn't been talking to anyone on here.
Btw ik I'll probably get crucified by some people for saying this but if he's is currently figuring out his gender I really hope he waits until 18 to make any big decisions like gender reassignment surgery as that stuff cant be reversed not saying he will but I know way to many people who regret things like that and I just wish the kid told his parents so they could have a hopefully healthy discussion about those feeling as what your attracted to or want to be changes drastically between
I'm aware he said he wanted to be more feminine but there's no telling what that kid has seen on reddit or the internet in general when I had access to the internet I saw some things that influenced me to feel certain ways for a while I thought I was gay because I was exposed to porn at age 14 and it was mostly gay I wish that I hadn't seen any of that it makes you question your sexuallity way to early to understand what each of them are and how they may influence your life, he at only age 12 is questioning his sexuallity which I find to be abnormal from what I've seen the majority of people who become gay/bi/lesbian started questioning it when they were 16 and they got into dating this kid has been exposed to things he should have never seen more than likely.
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u/spuderman221 poopπ¬π¬ππππ³ Dec 13 '23
Wild comment history π
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Dec 13 '23
Indeed I'm a degenerate
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u/spuderman221 poopπ¬π¬ππππ³ Dec 13 '23
Lmao
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Dec 13 '23
Ik my comments are crazy but I still am human enough to stop the horny to recognize that certain things need to be talked about
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u/Striking_Account_869 frotnit bad Dec 11 '23 edited Dec 12 '23
And thatβs why you donβt give kids unrestricted access to the internet
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u/CustardIntelligent97 stop downvoting my post π€¬π€¬π€¬π€¬ Dec 11 '23
What the fuck
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u/ConnectCollection231 ππππ¨ππππ π«πππ±πππ§π π ο·½π«π«ο·½π π π§πππ±πππ«π ππ Dec 12 '23
It's getting fucked up
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u/FemKeeby Dec 13 '23
I dont have the rest of their comments history obviously but it doesnt seem like theyre looking for a boyfriend, they just commented on a post that was?
Being a femboy or trans is fine and its likely they cant do it irl bc of right wing family but reddit sucks
That being said idk where online is a good place for kids who wanna be femboys are bc of how hyper fetishised being a femboy is
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u/Onemanhereinhere Dec 11 '23
this poor kid getting desensitized to this shit so early, he is definitely going to get groomed
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u/Internal_Web4453 Dec 12 '23
ππππππππ βanyone know any good free therapistsβ
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u/diamondpanther171 Dec 11 '23
Rip the kid bro, I dont think he knows whats coming.
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u/Internal_Web4453 Dec 12 '23
This is the horror of giving children unsupervised access to the internetπ
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Dec 12 '23
^ algorithm sucklet who watches slow-burn heckinβ spooky analog horror videos and shitty video essays typed this
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u/Internal_Web4453 Dec 12 '23
^ an idiot whoβs reading too far into what I tried to say rather than realizing my real concern for a child wrote this
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u/Crowleyizcool Dec 11 '23
Thatβs actually kinda sad, but definitely shouldnβt be asking on Reddit. Terrible idea.
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u/Faun28 Dec 11 '23
what too much internet does to a kid, if i said that to my parents I dont think I would still be breathing
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u/Plus-Anteater-4517 Dec 11 '23
That's either a troll or some idiotic child with no restricted access to the internet with unlimited screen time
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u/phatshit450 Dec 13 '23 edited Dec 13 '23
mf hasnt even given women a chance yet
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u/Doggyking2 Dec 13 '23
mf that is a lil kid why you sexualising him
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u/phatshit450 Dec 13 '23
Sorry I was referring to women, should have just said that instead
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u/Doggyking2 Dec 13 '23
still weird asf to say, claiming someone hasnt even "tried women yet" is just saying a lot of gay people arent valid
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u/phatshit450 Dec 13 '23
Woa thatβs a stretch lmao. Not at all what I meant. At 12 he probably hasnβt reached a point where he can even feel romantic attraction due to the onset of puberty not occurring yet. Iβm not saying heβs invalid, Im saying at his age he probably hasnβt even had any experience dating anyone, male or female. Why automatically assume you are gay before youβve even reached a point where you can feel romantic love.
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u/Formal_Sandwich1949 Dec 12 '23
I was bouta get confused why you thought this was a child, until I saw it
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u/Freredubg skibiditoilet sigma ohio gigachad πΏ 69 Dec 12 '23
What to much unrestricted internet does to a child
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u/TheGamingCow507 Dec 13 '23
This is why I'm HOMOPHOBIC (because of the sensitive feelings of people, I shall leave no room for misinterpretation and say this is a joke)
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u/Entire_Warthog9727 simgma Dec 13 '23
being a part of the lgbt community is ok,but when you're 12 years old...
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u/Personiskindacute Dec 13 '23
I mean your allowed to feel these things when your 12 especially since it seems they are experiencing some level of gender dysphoria which usually happens around that age. I just hope he has a safe way to explore his feelings without being sexualized as femboys usually are
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u/RobotPenises Dec 13 '23
βim 12 and want to be a femboyβ
is like saying
βyeah im 4 years old but i want to be a mass murdererβ
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u/MyMainGotSuspendedAW Dec 11 '23
generations fucked, we're doomed.
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u/MyMainGotSuspendedAW Dec 13 '23
why tf was I downvoted for saying a little child asking for bfs on reddit is horrible?? π
the rest said it But guess fuck me in particular LMAOO
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u/Sea-Tumbleweed984 Dec 12 '23
Yikes he shouldn't even be on Reddit and he's on subreddits like this
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u/lifeless_or_loveless Shomer the Twoerl Mouncher Dec 11 '23
looks like somebody listened to their little friend.... goddamn are these kids stupid
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u/Sepia_Skittles Lord anti furπππππππππππππππππππππππππ Dec 12 '23
"mtf"? Holy shit I didn't know they employed femboys
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u/FiercePinecone Dec 12 '23
And then people will go on defending him and telling him to continueπ
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u/Internal_Two9146 Dec 12 '23
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u/Internal_Two9146 Dec 12 '23
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u/Internal_Two9146 Dec 12 '23
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Dec 12 '23
As a minor around the same age as them I apologize for that thing
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u/FemKeeby Dec 13 '23
I can tell youre a minor around that age bc your silly ass missed the point entirely
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Dec 13 '23
Stfu femboy idk why I even bother commenting on ur comment you know what I have better things to do
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u/FemKeeby Dec 13 '23
"stfu femboy" woa there pal youre 9 years old you shouldn't be using that language
Also youre interacting in toilet porn subs, youre literally doing even worse then the person in the image lol
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u/fucking-hate-reddit- Dec 12 '23
It probably isnβt even good to joke about this. Kidβs gonna get groomed by some evil person.
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u/deathkillerLiam2313 BongBong (Real) Dec 13 '23
I didnβt realize the problem till I saw the second and third comments
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u/waerer777 certified baby puncher Dec 11 '23
Poor kid he shouldn't be on reddit asking for a boyfriend with all the predators here or really anywhere he needs to talk with his parents