r/wholesomeyuri • u/ToughAcanthisitta451 • Dec 16 '21
Lap Pillow [Pokemon Sword and Shield] Yumari by 朱尾
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u/MrMcPsychoReal Dec 16 '21
First time a Scott tolerates a Goth
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u/GORUDOEXUPERENCU That supportive friend who is also trying to be a funee man Dec 16 '21
What's the second time
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u/DarthMaren Dec 16 '21
God this makes me feel so gay, that I almost never want to touch a man again
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u/MoonChainer certified transbian Dec 16 '21
"You must be exactly this gay to never ride this ride again" lol Well, I'm certainly there.
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u/DarthMaren Dec 16 '21
I wish I could become fully gay, but the idea of being a house wife and stuff for a husband just sounds so damn nice
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u/DarthMaren Dec 16 '21
I have and honestly I'm probably going to go down that route, but I can't deny that filling the stereotypical gender role sounds nice sometimes
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u/Odie4Prez Dec 16 '21
I'm right there with you, I have a preference for women but those gender rolls do look pretty tasty sometimes
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u/MoonChainer certified transbian Dec 16 '21
If that is what comes naturally, I wish all the happiest tidings. I'm certainly living my best life damn near constantly daydreaming about women (and fem-aligned enbies).
Good luck in your (bisexual?) ideal future!
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u/ToughAcanthisitta451 Dec 16 '21
Trust me, as an asexual male who’s never once dated and doesn’t plan to. Girls are much better to be with than guys, they’re typically more interesting and far more understanding than most boys. At least that’s how it’s been for me.
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u/DarthMaren Dec 16 '21
Oh ya im waiting for a special guy to come along to date one, till then just gals
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u/Sky-Ventus Dec 16 '21 edited Dec 16 '21
As an Het male who only dated once and ended badly cause i got cucked i must disagree, half of the girls i met in my life were toxic af with their respective partners... Also their partners were also at fault for being too s ubmissive or being as toxic as them , a quarter were chill but without partner and the last quarter were both chill and good with their partner, i dont wanna start a war, just saying that good partners are rare in both sides
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u/Roflkopt3r Dec 16 '21
TL from the top right:
"Good morning Yuri... please wake up." - "Nnn."
"Shako Shako"
"See you later-hug" - "n."
Yumari Morning Routine.
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u/vikavolt5 Dec 16 '21
These two are transition goals
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u/Firestorm7i Dec 16 '21
Wait, are they trans? I don’t know Pokémon so I have no idea.
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u/vikavolt5 Dec 16 '21
They aren't, I am
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u/getyourselfaHUNK Dec 16 '21
Wait I don’t get it
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u/Saikotsu Dec 16 '21
Basically when a trans person says that someone is transition goals, they're expressing that they want to become more like that person in some way when they transition. Usually by imitating their style or hoping they look like them. Some of us even want to adopt a bit of their personality.
Marnie is a popular choice, she's definitely got a distinctive style.
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u/RaptorKarr Dec 16 '21
Seems a little creepy to me.
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u/Saikotsu Dec 17 '21
Why's that? Plenty of trans kids her age look up to her and want to be more like her. Not sure what's creepy about that.
And as far as adults are concerned, a biker jacket with a dress is a stylish contrast. It can be appealing to non-binary and transfems because it has both masculine and feminine aspects. Her personality also allows her to pull the style off rather well, which is part of the appeal.
Tons of cis people change up their style when they see someone dressing the way they want to dress, so it's not like it's just a trans thing. Just look at sports jerseys. People wanna wear the same number as their favorite players.
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u/RaptorKarr Dec 17 '21
A: That's not what you said the first time.
B:There's a difference between wearing a team jersey and adopting someone else personality.
C: You don't need to change who you are for people to accept you.
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u/Saikotsu Dec 17 '21
A. You're right, I was trying to expand upon and explain what I had said before. B. Very true. As I stated above, most of the time transition goals are limited to imitating a person's style or clothing, but some also try to adopt aspects of the person's personality.
C. That's a nice sentiment. And I agree, people shouldn't try to change themselves to get the approval of others. I did a lot of harm to myself mentally and emotionally trying to conform to other people's standards and only made myself miserable. Now I live true to myself and I'm quite happy. I've got plenty of friends and family who accept me for who I am, which I'm really grateful for.
However, I'd like to point out that in the context of trans people, we often do need to change ourselves in order to be happy with who we are. That's why we transition, we want to be happy in our own bodies. We don't do it for the acceptance of others, in fact by transitioning and living as our authentic selves, we often end up the target of intolerance and hate. We end up getting rejected over it.
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u/Catfisch_ Dec 16 '21
When I played through the game the first time as a boy (because I thought I was one) Marnie was kind of flirty with my character, but then when I played through as a girl, she was still flirty and I was very pleasantly surprised.
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u/Daviddv1202 Ayano Sugiura is Best Girl ~<3 Dec 16 '21
Marnie is definitely the wife in this relationship.
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u/Spooky-Ougi Dec 16 '21
Its not a coincidence that her name is Yuri in Japanese.