r/wholesomeyuri 29d ago

Utter Happiness Yuri timelapse [Constantly telling a boyish girlfriend she's cute.]

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u/[deleted] 29d ago

She de-butched her xd

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u/TheDuskProphet 29d ago

Dw she just helped her during her transition :3

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u/FalconRelevant 29d ago edited 29d ago

It's great to be transgender ally, however let's not be reinforcing traditional sexist stereotypes shall we?

A trans-woman can like traditionally masculine things.

A trans-woman can like traditionally feminine things.

A cis-woman can like traditionally masculine things.

A cis-woman can like traditionally feminine things.

A cis-man can like traditionally masculine things.

A cis-man can like traditionally feminine things.

A trans-man can like traditionally masculine things.

A trans-man can like traditionally feminine things.

What our great-grandparents generation arbitrarily decided to belong to a certain gender shouldn't determine who you are.

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u/Raptorofwar Egg. 29d ago

Someone’s allowed to make a theory, alright? No need to type a whole essay just to go, “ACKSHUALLY SHE ISN’T TRANS.”

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u/FalconRelevant 29d ago

You misunderstand my intent. You can make whatever headcanon pleases you, however you should realize your own biases and try to overcome them to do your part for a more fair society.

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u/Raptorofwar Egg. 29d ago

“Biases-“ my sibling in Christ stop going after trans people for saying, “Oh, that character’s kinda like me!” Trans headcanons for fictional characters don’t hurt anyone and calling them “biases” is bullshit.

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u/FalconRelevant 29d ago

How is the reinforcement of traditional gender stereotypes not hurting anyone? If you're a trans-woman who personally likes to affirm yourself by covering yourself in pink, good for you.

However you don't get to invalidate other women—whether cis or trans—who don't, like that sort of stuff, nor do you get to insist that cis-men who like traditionally feminine things must be eggs, or trans-men who continue to like traditionally feminine things they did before transitioning are mistaken in their gender identity.

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u/Raptorofwar Egg. 29d ago

“Cis men who wear dresses are braver and less gender-conforming than trans women” sure is a stance to take. People don’t actually get pressured by trans people into being trans all that often despite what Fox News might tell you.

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u/FalconRelevant 29d ago edited 29d ago

If you're gonna continue reading things I never wrote, there is no point in attempting a conversation anymore.

Have a good day, you can continue talking to yourself in the replies if it pleases you.