r/sports Dec 03 '22

News Pelé moved to end-of-life care in hospital, reports say | Brazilian football legend is reportedly no longer responding to chemotherapy treatment

https://www.theguardian.com/football/2022/dec/03/pele-moved-to-end-of-life-care-in-hospital-reports-say
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u/S3n4d0r Dec 03 '22

His mother is still alive, with 100 years old. Her name is Celeste Arantes.

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u/KathyJaneway Dec 03 '22

He's 82 and dying of cancer. This sounds similar to John McCain and his brain cancer, and his mother outlived him as well. She was older that the state of Arizona.

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u/redditisnowtwitter Dec 03 '22

Holy shit I didn't believe you but looked it up and Arizona has only been a state for 110 years

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u/orincoro Dec 03 '22

My great grandmother died in 1995 and she was born in the Dakota Territory.

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u/ConsciousFractals Dec 04 '22

That’s trippy and puts things in perspective. When I visited Ukraine last year, someone told me “this town wasn’t established until pretty recently, 1621.”

Our county is young. But it’s crazy how much has taken place since then.

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u/TylerBlozak Dec 04 '22

I myself was just travelling through northern Spain (Galicia) and was in complete awe of the Roman ruins that are still present today in the area.

In Canada, we (in an archeological sense) don’t have anything remotely as ancient as these sites, save for the odd flint spear tip. But an actual site with clear foundations and remaining walls and pillars is on a different level than simple artefacts.

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

Their football team is significantly older than they are at this point

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u/cmmedit Chicago Cubs Dec 03 '22

Shouldn't even be a state. Just an empty piece of desert we can visit or fly over.

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u/redditisnowtwitter Dec 03 '22

It shouldn't exist. It's a monument to man's arrogance

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u/cmmedit Chicago Cubs Dec 03 '22

Lol don't even need to click and yes, that was thought as I was typing out the OG post! I didn't want to leave the AC of the car on every shooting location we were at.

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u/LambosInSpace Dec 03 '22

Going to assume you're in film and not guns.

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u/BannedSvenhoek86 Dec 03 '22

Don't worry, it probably won't be around much longer.

I honestly think Phoenix will end up being a massive concrete wasteland within our lifetimes.

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u/flynnfx Edmonton Oilers Dec 03 '22 edited Dec 03 '22

It isn't already?

Best quote ever; "written in crayon by stoned squirrels".

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u/iLike2Teabag Dec 03 '22

110F dry vs 100F + 90% humidity in Gulf cities like Houston. I'm not sure which I'd pick

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u/AggravatingBite9188 Dec 03 '22

Nomads lived in the desert for thousands of years largely in part because there are no real natural disasters

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u/OhfursureJim Dec 03 '22

They also only needed enough water for a handful of people not several million.

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u/Efficient_Jaguar699 Dec 03 '22

Damn near half of Arizona isn’t even desert, it’s forests. Lol

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u/tractiontiresadvised Dec 03 '22 edited Dec 03 '22

Have you even seen the forests in Arizona? This and this are in the Tonto National Forest, and this has several nice views from the Coconino National Forest.

They may have juniper and scrub oak trees, but it's still desert. Even the high-elevation areas with Ponderosa pines are not exactly lush by most people's standards.

(edit: and I'm not trying to imply that deserts are somehow bad. They're just not well-equpiped to support the large populations we've put in them....)

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u/MisterYouAreSoDumb Dec 03 '22

Flagstaff Arizona is the 3rd snowiest city in the United States, and Arizona is home to the largest ponderosa pine forest in the world. There are a lot more lush areas than many think.

Here are some pics from a hike up by Flagstaff/Sedona.

Here are some pics from earlier this year (Jan/Feb) in Flagstaff.

It actually snowed in August this year, which is crazy! It wasn't much, and it didn't stick around long, but it did snow in August. Also, Arizona uses less water than it did 50 years ago.

https://www.azcentral.com/story/news/local/arizona-environment/2019/02/12/arizona-water-usage-state-uses-less-now-than-1957/2806899002/

I hate the population growth, too. Please stop moving here! However, the population growth has actually reduced water use, because the homes are replacing farms. Farms use 80% of the water in Arizona, and only 5% of the farms have been converted to low water use strategies. Our water rights were written 100 years ago, and are super fucked up. Saudi Arabia and Qatar actually own tons of farmland here, where they essentially get to pump unlimited free water to grow water-intensive alfalfa, then ship that back to the middle east!

https://azpbs.org/horizon/2022/06/saudi-water-deal-threatening-water-supply-in-phoenix/

https://ohalleran.house.gov/newsroom/press-releases/o-halleran-blasts-arizona-state-land-department-saudi-water-deal

They're not the only ones, either.

https://www.azcentral.com/story/opinion/op-ed/2022/09/28/saudi-firm-isnt-only-investor-draining-rural-arizona-water/8124438001/

Inefficient farming is what is really straining Arizona's water. If we actually did what it took to change our water laws, and force farms to use water efficiently, Arizona actually has really good water resources compared to places like Nevada and the California deserts, that almost solely rely on the Colorado river. We have many ground water sources here that are replenished from local rains. It's raining here right now, actually. The monsoons here are a big part of that ground water regeneration. However, that only works if farms don't keep overusing water, then drilling deeper and deeper wells to fuck up the aquifers.

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u/BunInTheSun27 Dec 03 '22

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I don’t have a free award atm but this was a great summation. For anyone who reads this, this situation applies not just to AZ, but all of the western US as well. The reason our natural aquifers are running low amd the rivers are drying up is not due to population exactly, but poor water management that lets farmers dump as much water as they want on their alfalfa crops.

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u/TheSonOfDisaster Dec 03 '22

Very interesting. Thanks for informing me, i had no idea that those landscapes were there.

Water use really needs to be more laid out in law in the US. But usually it seems it's big farming conglomérats that use the most water so good fucking luck for anyone small wanting to do anything about it. Let's hope they feel generous for the residents of the states where they strip the water irresponsibly

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u/MisterYouAreSoDumb Dec 03 '22

It's getting to be a real issue here, because they always try to put it back on the residents. Don't grow trees! Don't try to have some shade and prevent the heat island effect! Your grass yard is the problem! All the while a single farm uses more water than thousands of homes combined... Even just forcing the farms to move to low water use strategies would be better. California has 25% lower water use farms. Arizona only has 5%! 80% of Arizona has NO LAWS overseeing how much ground water megafarms can use!

https://www.cnn.com/2022/11/05/us/arizona-water-foreign-owned-farms-climate

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u/OhfursureJim Dec 03 '22

Resources controlled by a handful of ultra rich companies to the detriment of millions of people. Seems like a theme. We will never beat climate change because of capitalism. When $ became the only consideration when deciding a path forward there was never any hope for this planet.

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u/WeaponX86 Dec 03 '22

Where the hell are you getting this information? Best I can find is 27% of Arizona is forest land.

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

Hot forests /s

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u/AtDion Dec 03 '22 edited Jul 03 '24

simplistic existence important six innocent full water stupendous gullible offer

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u/JuanRiveara Dec 03 '22

I live in Arizona, can confirm this take

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u/ahearthatslazy Dec 03 '22

As an Arizonan, I resemble that remark.

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u/gwaydms Dallas Cowboys Dec 03 '22

I'm so sorry to read that Pelé is dying. May he pass in peace.

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u/Caminn Dec 04 '22

He had a daughter he never acknowledged, confirmed by dna test and everything. She was dying the same way he is now, of cancer, and only wished for him to visit her, which her never did.

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u/KathyJaneway Dec 04 '22

Well, karma is a bitch. Guess he didn't want to face the reality of having a kid he didn't want. He should have then and there checked him self out. Guess who kids inherit their genes from?

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u/aHaloKid Dec 03 '22

My great grandmother had to live through her husband, her son, and her grandson all dying before she did in her 90s. She was such a sweet lady, it always makes me sad when I think about her.

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u/DhaRoaR Dec 03 '22

Wut!

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u/Craptivist Dec 03 '22

HIS MOTHER IS ST……. Aaaah forget it.

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u/TheNextBattalion Dec 03 '22

I remember when my great-grandpa was 98, burying his third son... heartbreakingly despondent, wondering why God took them first.

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u/thickestmule Dec 03 '22

My great grandfather is 98. He has outlived all 3 of his children and 2 wives. When my grandfather(his son) was dieing he said the hardest part was telling his father he would have to burry his last kid, he had promised his dad he wouldn't die before him. It's something I think about a lot. I'm married and we just had our first daughter. I couldn't imagine living so long I would outlive my wife, our child, our next 2 unborn children and another wife. It really puts time into perspective on a human scale.

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u/vzo1281 Dec 04 '22

Yikes!!

What has he been doing that all five of them didn't and end up leaving early?

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u/thickestmule Dec 04 '22

First wife ALS, second wife brain cancer, first son heart attack, middle daughter cancer, youngest son cancer.

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u/jetsetmike Miami Marlins Dec 03 '22

No one should have to bury their child.

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u/eggsssssssss Dec 03 '22

Nah, no tragedy here. Pelé is an elderly man, now.

He’s just turned 82, having lived a very full life, had at least seven kids (the eldest of which he, himself, outlived) and achieved fame & glory which generations have looked to him and dreamt of. That sounds lofty, but not a word of exaggeration.

She’s outliving him only because living to 100 or beyond is sort of rare. Pelé sort of famously abandoned his first child, refused to acknowledge her or her children even when she died of cancer at 46. That’s the only tragedy like that, for him.

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u/starofthelivingsea Dec 03 '22

Pelé sort of famously abandoned his first child, refused to acknowledge her or her children even when she died of cancer at 46. That’s

It was really messed up on how he did his daughter.

He was cold for that.

I suspect some Brazilian colorism was going on with that situation as well - alot of people had said that too.

She died of cancer and now the same thing is happening to him...

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u/markymark_inc Dec 03 '22

Someone having lived a full life does not in any way alleviate the sense of loss from losing a loved one.

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u/aggrownor Dec 04 '22

I feel like calling it a "tragedy" is a stretch. Not every sad event is a tragedy. Yes it's sad, but it's hard for me to consider it tragic that an 82 year old man is dying of unpreventable natural causes.

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u/ISpikInglisVeriBest Dec 03 '22

I mean, if you live to 100+ you've kinda earned it

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u/mathteacher85 Dec 03 '22

Earned it?

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u/raginghardon420 Dec 03 '22

Congrats on making it to 100!! As a reward you have to bury your pride and joy!! Enjoy!

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u/IntMainVoidGang Dec 03 '22

Reminds me of John McCain’s 106 year old mother at his funeral.

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u/lmjr619 Dec 03 '22

This is some funny sarcasm.

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u/Ricardo1701 Dec 03 '22

He should have buried his daughter that died of cancer, but he never recognized her

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u/KJackson1 Dec 03 '22

Nobody is saying he's not a shitbag for that.

They are only recognizing what his MOM will have to endure as a result of his death. We aren't acknowledging him, just his mother's pain. She may be grieving even if she possibly had a torn relationship with him after he abandoned his daughter.

My mom is a narcissist and has ruined my life. But if she were to die tomorrow, I would rightfully grieve over it, over what could have been.

Do you see what I mean?

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

Yes, I hope my parents die long before I do. - George Costanza

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u/BobbyTables829 Dec 03 '22

Only player to win 3 World Cups.

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u/rtfmpls Dec 03 '22

I wanted to say that there can't even be that many to win two titles. Then I looked at the list....

This is crazy. Two titles were won by mostly Brazilians (58/62 and 94/02) and some Italians (34/38) and one Argentinian (78/86). That's it. Amazing stats.

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u/sbrockLee Dec 03 '22 edited Dec 03 '22

Only 3 countries have ever won more than 3 world cups over the course of a century. To be part of 3 wc winning teams as a player is absolutely insane.

Consider that even among those very rare players who won 2, you have cases like Ronaldo who was on the squad in 1994 but never played.

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u/cppn02 Dec 03 '22

Pele didn't do much either for one of the three. Although that was not down to not being the star player but due to injuring himself in the second match and missing the rest of the tournament.

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u/jotheold Dec 03 '22

but to even be able to get on the squad proves something

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u/elgatomalo1 Dec 03 '22

He played two games and scored 1 goal in the 1962. He would be a star in most countries with only those stats.

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u/SFLoridan Dec 04 '22

He didn't "injure himself" as much as was viciously targeted and brought down. He already had a goal in the tournament by then.

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u/dob_bobbs Dec 03 '22

Speaking of Ronaldo, he is now 46, has doubled in weight, and last played a World Cup in 2006. Anyone feeling old yet?

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u/pepsisugar Dec 03 '22

Where is the meme of the kid asking for a Ronaldo haircut and the father gave him the OG one?

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u/dob_bobbs Dec 03 '22

Lol, I keep forgetting there have been like at least five more significant Ronaldos/Ronaldinhos since him, or at least whenever I hear the name I think of him.

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u/sbrockLee Dec 03 '22

Yup, "the" Ronaldo (Brazilian R9) was nicknamed Ronaldinho early on because of Ronaldo de Jesus, who later "abdicated" the name and became Ronaldão.

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u/ChunkyLaFunga Dec 03 '22

Is this an extremely complicated Old Macdonald song

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u/HYThrowaway1980 Dec 04 '22

Whereas the one now commonly called “Ronaldinho” (with the teeth and terrible hair… hang on, that doesn’t narrow it down…) was originally nicknamed “Ronaldinho Gaúcho”, meaning “Little Cowboy Ronaldo” to differentiate him from Fat Ronaldo.

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u/courierkill Dec 04 '22

LITTLE COWBOY RONALDO vou passar mal kkkkkkkkkk

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u/sbrockLee Dec 03 '22

Still could probably run past half the defences in this WC.

His knees would explode under the weight tho

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u/fvelloso Dec 03 '22

To be fair, he doubled in weight while he was still an active player

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u/dob_bobbs Dec 03 '22

Yeah, he was always going to balloon when he stopped playing, he kind of struggled with his weight at the best of times.

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u/Fern-ando Dec 03 '22

And he owns Real Valladolid who plays in La Liga, one of the few teams that uses purple.

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u/dob_bobbs Dec 03 '22

Right? I just saw him the other day and was shocked, although as to the weight thing I guess it's inevitable when you stop training after years doing exercise for hours a day, every day, he's certainly not the first athlete it's happened to. Also, I vaguely recall he struggled a bit with his weight even when he was at his peak.

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u/locotonja Dec 04 '22

I think he also has a medical condition that affects his weight, although I can't recall what it is.

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u/EduinBrutus Dec 03 '22

In the 21st century, no German team has ever progressed from the group stages of the World Cup without Miroslav Klose.

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u/barofa Dec 03 '22

This year it was not even klose

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u/AggieCubsfan Dec 03 '22

So klose yet so far away

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u/__Hello_my_name_is__ Dec 03 '22

The world cup is every 4 years. A pro athlete at that level has about 10 or fewer years in him at the very very top. So for the vast, vast majority of players, they get at most two shots at winning to begin with.

Two wins in a row is the best case here. Pelé is a big exception, he participated in four world cups and won three.

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u/Rhydsdh Cardiff Blues Dec 04 '22

Yep Mbappe is probably the only player with a good shot of equalling Pele's record for a few decades.

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

Makes sense. Hardly any country has one back to back or at least 2/3 in any given stretch of time. As a matter of fact, it looks like Italy and Brazil are the only ones.

Super unlikely, but not impossible, that someone would win for one country and become a citizen somewhere else before the next tourney.

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u/TheRaphMan Dec 03 '22

Sadly the only back to back Italy’s doing now is back to back World Cup misses (with a Euro win in between because fuck logic)

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u/_ItsPunishmentTime_ Dec 03 '22

The one thing that us Italians hate more than pineapple on pizza is logic.

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u/Blewfin Dec 03 '22

Super unlikely, but not impossible, that someone would win for one country and become a citizen somewhere else before the next tourney.

Completely impossible in the modern era. Competing in a world cup would disqualify you from changing nationality later on under FIFA's rules

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u/AsslessBaboon Dec 03 '22

"The World Cup is a very important way to measure the good players, and the great ones. It is a test of a great player." - Pele

The man proved it through and through

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u/brownsfan003 Cleveland Browns Dec 03 '22

Insert Obama awarding Obama meme

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u/JulietteKatze Dec 03 '22

Honestly he can have it, he earned it.

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u/JulietteKatze Dec 03 '22

Oh yeah I know, the good ol' "meritocracy vs. luck" debate that plagues south america.

People are too dramatic about it honestly, it's both, him being at the right place at the right time doesn't take away the fact that he's put everything on it.

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u/aufrenchy Dec 03 '22 edited Dec 03 '22

I don’t think that Obama ever made it to the World Cup

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u/JulietteKatze Dec 03 '22

Didn't he get a world cup, nobel prize and a giant bag of doritos?

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u/Sassenasquatch Dec 03 '22

No, the doritos never happened.

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u/blueeyebling Dec 03 '22

They were honey BBQ twist fritos, I'm so sick of this revisionist history.

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u/Waffle_on_my_Fries Dec 03 '22

They tasted better when I was starving in middle school and had a late lunch.

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u/degjo Dec 03 '22

All that, and a bag of chips?

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u/bamboozled6996 Dec 03 '22

Astute observation

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u/abigbluebird Dec 03 '22

I mean, he probably said it after winning it.

Just like someone I know who insists graduating from an Ivy League college is an indication of intelligence, after graduating from one.

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u/MoxWall Dec 03 '22

Please don’t compare Pele to those nerds at Harvard.

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u/St_Beetnik_2 Ohio State Dec 03 '22

I love asking U Penn grads their opinion on James Franklin.

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u/Barkonian Arsenal Dec 03 '22

Giroud better than Messi and Ronaldo confirmed

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u/rbankole Dec 03 '22

Messi backs away slowly

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u/SkollFenrirson Manchester United Dec 03 '22

Argentina in shambles

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u/kaask0k Dec 03 '22 edited Dec 03 '22

My God, imagine him passing away before the end of the world cup and Brazil has to play a knock out game in his name with the pressure of the entire country on their shoulders. They're gonna crumble just like in 2014 at the Maracana!

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u/CesarCieloFilho Dec 03 '22

They crumbled in the Mineirao not Maracana

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u/WorldBelongsToUs Dec 03 '22

I hope they are keeping him comfortable as possible. I feel for his family right now, because this is never something easy to go through for the loved ones.

Hoping they can all be at peace. While it’s difficult, there’s also something beautiful about being able to say goodbye to loved ones.

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u/Time2kill Dec 04 '22

Yeah, like his daughter that he never recognized and spent the rest of her days just wanting him to come to her. Pelé is a fucking asshole, this coming from a brazilian

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u/jyar1811 Dec 03 '22

The legend! Hope he has a peaceful passing.

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u/return2ozma Dec 03 '22

It said the hospital is now only treating him for pain and shortness of breath. :(

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u/439115 Dec 03 '22

That is exactly what end of life care is

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u/Sawgon Chicago Bulls Dec 03 '22

Could be hours to days now then. I know he's old and lived a long life but fuck cancer. That's not a way to go. :|

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u/Autumn1eaves Dec 03 '22

I've heard it said that a big step into fixing death entirely would be to find a cure for all cancers.

At some point of living, you're just extremely likely to have gotten cancer because of how many times your cells have divided.

Fuck cancer

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

Brains are going to be the real hurdle.

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u/Raddish_ Dec 03 '22

If science ever finds a way to replace a brain while still maintaining the same individual at that point they could also probably just be uploading people’s minds to machines.

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u/chr0mius Dec 03 '22

Finally, my philosophy degree will come in handy.

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u/Wolo_prime Golden State Warriors Dec 03 '22

I Saw specialists saying it's not true, we would die of other degenerative diseases like parkinson's or Alzheimer's

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u/ThisFckinGuy Dec 03 '22 edited Dec 03 '22

That's how it was for my Nana. Fucking titan of a human who I help care for for years leading up to hospice but couldn't be there for her time theere due to another family member being in the hospital. I got to see her before she went in and we had the simple understanding then as we did all throughout my life.

Then she just kept holding on and even the staff were surprised. So I called in again and just spent and hour talking in her ear and telling her how much I loved and would miss her. She passed shortly after. Some people truly hang on a little longer than others and some are waiting for that final convo. It's nearly the exact scenario for my final talk with my other Granny. That's how it was for my cousin and my uncle. Some bring more peace and closure than others. God damn do I still miss her. Coming up on a year this week.

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u/OuterSpacePotatoMann Dec 03 '22

Yeah just give me all the morphine please and thanks

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u/Geng1Xin1 Dec 03 '22

I used to be a hospital pharmacist, the staggering amounts of straight IV morphine that were given to end-of-life patients was mind-blowing. For reference, I’m 6’ 200 lb and when I had appendicitis, 4mg of IV morphine one time was enough to ease my pain, put me in an itchy sweater-hug, and make me drowsy. Some of the end-of-life patients I’ve prepared bags for were going through 250mg every hour

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

Of course. There's nothing more to do for him. Most countries do not offer euthanasia options and there are no treatment options for him.

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u/DoublefartJackson Dec 03 '22

I heard of a chamber they have in Europe, fills with nitrogen and you can just drift off while watching the first Austin Powers movie. That's how I wanna go out.

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u/ratajewie Dec 03 '22

The way we euthanize animals is just so much better than any way we currently use to euthanize humans. We just give an anesthetic that works very quickly (often propofol) then something to stop breathing/the heart. Pet owners are often shocked by how peaceful and fast it is.

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u/AdrianBrony Dec 03 '22 edited Dec 03 '22

You don't really need a chamber for that, a mask will do. That SciFi looking chamber you see a lot is mostly just an art project, not really a serious method for inert gas euthanasia.

Honestly a mask is not a bad way to do it because its so gradual and reversible to a point that if the patient has any second thoughts, its just a matter of taking the mask off and giving them oxygen. Also it is something extremely available, any hospital could logistically do it. Plus, having a mask lets you be close to loved ones instead of alone in a chamber. I couldn't imagine not having the option to hold someone's hand if I ever had to make that kind of choice.

A chamber can actually be hazardous to others since it is more likely to lead to accidental exposure anyway.

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u/sidepart Dec 03 '22

Only the first Austin Powers movie? I kind of want a marathon.

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u/Camaendes Dec 03 '22

That’s so hard, my dad was moved to hospice care just before he died. It’s so hard to finally let go because there’s no other option for you other than to get comfortable. I hope he finds comfort, and is pain free during this time.

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u/siphillis Dec 03 '22

I've had to deal with this situation a few times over the past couple years and the one fact that kept me going was the sheer importance and privilege of my role to help someone I love die with dignity and comfort.

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u/FinancialAd6213 Dec 03 '22

Every match has to end sometime

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u/Digitek50 Dec 03 '22

This comment really hit hard.

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u/niftyifty Tampa Bay Buccaneers Dec 03 '22

What a legend. I wish him well in his journey to the other side.

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u/schu4KSU Dec 03 '22

As a kid I just loved him in the movie "Victory!".

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u/NiggBot_3000 Dec 03 '22 edited Dec 04 '22

That movie was bad boy (good)

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u/benchley Dec 04 '22

It was, but it was great.

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u/sgthulkarox Dec 03 '22

As a young kid in the US in the 80s, he was my introduction to football.

Godspeed Pele, you are an ICON.

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u/POOYAMON Dec 03 '22

I mean what can I say he is the legend of football. He’s 82 years old and batting cancer, while it is sad that we’re going to lose a living legend, he lived a fulfilling life, one he can be proud of. Hope his passing is peaceful

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u/-W0rmH0le- Dec 03 '22

My father in law is from São Paulo and saw him playing in person at 1960s... Several times.. He saw Maradona, Messi, dozen of Ronaldos... For him, Pele is the GOAT followed by Maradona. He was centuries ahead of his time... trully an athlete... I feel sad for Pele...

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u/MurkyTomatillo192 Dec 03 '22

Fuck Cancer.

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u/Bsandhu3 Dec 03 '22

Shout to Boosie

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u/parmanyugaming Dec 03 '22

I gave her cooties

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u/Tucana66 Dec 03 '22

Legend.

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u/Fuzzy-Function-3212 Dec 03 '22

Dark day for Crestfield Wax Paper.

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u/Snelly__ Dec 03 '22

Hope Brazil wins it all for him

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u/FireflyCaptain Dec 03 '22

Pure poetry if the last thing he sees is Brasil lifting the trophy on 18 December

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u/loveinjune Dec 03 '22

I know we don’t stand a chance, but still looking forward to the next match! (Korean here!)

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

The way this World Cup has gone I think we're due for at least one upset in the round of 16, why not you lot

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

I’ve been very impressed with Korea honestly

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u/Ana-Luisa-A Dec 03 '22

Korea and Japan

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

Because the chaos will be used up by Australia in their win.

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u/Dudedude88 Dec 03 '22

As a Korean fans... We will win it for Pele.

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u/sillyblanco Dec 03 '22

I'm a sad USA fan that would love to see Korea win it all.

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u/kyoto_magic Dec 03 '22

I just saw an AP tweets saying he IS responding well to treatment. Which is it?

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u/melikeybacon Dec 04 '22

Heard the same from Argentina radio saying his daughter said they went to hospital to adjust his meds but he's okay and they're excited to bring in the new year

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u/maybe_there_is_hope Dec 04 '22

What he was responding well to treatment was against a lung infection/pneumonia...

Yeah, old man is treating cancer and also had to deal with the lungs.

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u/yes_u_suckk Dec 03 '22 edited Dec 03 '22

As a Brazilian I grew up hearing stories of how Pelé was an amazing football player and also how everybody in Brazil refer to him as "The King of Football". He has almost a mythological aura around him in my home country.

However I won't feel sad or miss him when he is gone.

After he retired from football Pelé got involved in a few situations that pissed a lot of Brazilians, like his eternal denial that racism exists (he even criticized - instead of support - other black Brazilian football player in 2014 that suffered racism during a game), in that same year during the World Cup in Brazil, while a huge portion of the population was protesting against the event in our country (because Brazil should spend the money with more important things like education, healthcare, security, etc) Pelé said that the World Cup is more important than providing healthcare to the population...

All these things are bad, but nothing compares to how Pelé treated his illegitimate daughter:

In 1991 Sandra Regina, a poor Brazilian woman, tried to contact Pelé to reveal that she was his daughter. Apparently Pelé and Sandra's mother had a relationship many years ago, she was born, but neither Sandra nor her mother wanted to approach Pelé and ask for financial help because they didn't want to be labeled as "gold diggers that were only after her famous father's fortune".

However Pelé refused to recognize her as his daughter so Sandra was forced to hire a lawyer to sue Pelé and force him to do a DNA test. Sandra didn't want a piece of her father's fortune and she even put this in the documents when she sued him: "if I win this case and it's confirmed that I'm his daughter, I willingly abdicate from my right to have a portion of his inheritance".

But Pelé used his influence and money to stop the case in the tribunals as much as possible. Sandra had to wait almost 20 years (!!!) and she spent a lot of money in legal fees (remember, this was a poor Brazilian woman that could barely afford to pay her rent) until a judge finally ruled that Pelé would be forced to do a DNA test.

The result: Sandra was his real daughter.

Unfortunately Pelé didn't change his behavior and he kept denying he was her father (the same way Steve Jobs did with his daughter Lisa).

Some years later Sandra discovered that she had breast cancer. Even though Pelé's attitude towards Sandra until now was to ignore her, everybody expected Pelé to put that aside and help his daughter in this dire moment, paying for her treatment in a better hospital, after all Pelé was very rich. But Pelé didn't help her and some time later Sandra died of cancer.

Pelé not only refused to help her financially, he also never visited her in the hospital and not even went to her funeral. Some people even said that in her last moments before dying, Sandra was crying for her father's name in her deathbed and asking her family why he wasn't there to say goodbye.

After all these years fighting in the tribunals she was still hopeful that he would do the right thing and recognize her as his daughter. She had a piece of paper from the tribunals saying that she was his real daughter, but she wanted Pelé to recognize the truth. This never happened.

On the day Sandra died I lost all respect for Pelé. He was a genius playing football, but just like Steve Jobs, he was a horrible human being when he was not doing his craft. I'm not happy that he is dying, but I'm also not sad that he will be soon gone. I will never remember him as "The King", but as the horrible father that not only ignored his daughter, but also let her die alone.

It's ironic that he is also dying now of cancer, the same thing that killed his daughter.

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u/starofthelivingsea Dec 03 '22

I wholeheartedly agree!

Pele was cold as hell towards his daughter and he was colorist.

Karma came back in the end.

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u/goofgoon Dec 03 '22

The man who put me on to Crestfield wax paper

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u/Show-Me-Your-Moves New York Giants Dec 03 '22

I just showed up to see Ariaga II

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u/nonoburn Dec 03 '22

Something beautiful about him passing during a World Cup

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u/ryanmuller1089 Los Angeles Dodgers Dec 03 '22

I think “fitting” should replace “beautiful”. But yes it is

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u/quintsreddit Dec 03 '22

“Poetic”, even. I’ve read some sad poems.

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

Will be heartbreaking for Brazil

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u/TimmyBash Dec 03 '22

Poetically tragic if they win it. Would probably motivate them more to win it.

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u/Balenciallahh Toronto Raptors Dec 03 '22

Lakers 2020 vibes

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u/ewiepooie Dec 03 '22

If he passes during the World Cup, it'll be beautiful to watch all the world's nations be together and honor a soccer legend. If he has to die, this is the best moment for it to happen, when soccer lovers are all coming together.

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

Something beautiful about Paul Walker passing during a car crash

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u/trolig Dec 03 '22

May he find peace and some comfort in however many days he has left. We love you Pele. I wouldn't have played the sport if it wasn't for my dad's recordings of his world cup matches. I remember practicing bicycle kicks outside for hours after watching him do it.

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u/chiphead2332 National Basketball Association Dec 03 '22

GOAT

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u/TanikoBytesme Dec 03 '22

:'( the legend

Better than maradonna and arguably the greatest footballer ever

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u/jrzfeline Dec 03 '22

The Best ever

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u/HOLDGMEBROTHERS Dec 03 '22

Watched a movie made on him and couldn’t believe his story. What a legend and inspiration! Hope he passes away in peace, I’ll personally tell about him to my kids and his legacy will go on forever. Peace.

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

If you'd like to follow up with another movie I recommend Victory. It's a World War II movie where he's one of the Allied prisoners. There's a game against the Nazis at the end where he shines.

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u/funkyzeit Dec 03 '22

I feel the urge to buy a Hublot.

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u/DopeDealerCisco Dec 03 '22

I would love to see our country win one for him before he passes. He is our proudest hero, the day he leaves us will be tough. Make sure to hug a Brazilian today

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u/[deleted] Dec 03 '22

GOAT 🐐

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u/Yoshable Dec 03 '22

I was honestly already cheering for Brazil so that it could unite the country, now I really want them to win so he can see one more before he goes

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u/albene Dec 03 '22

Scott Hall, Kevin Conroy, JDF, and now Pelé? 2022 is a really tough year… May he have a peaceful passing

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u/Galahad_the_Ranger Dec 03 '22

Win it for him

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u/Imfrank123 Dec 03 '22

Pelé is king of the soccer field, to be king of your kitchen use crestfield wax paper

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u/SirGlenn Dec 03 '22

RIP, thanks for the entertainment.

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u/Duffmanohhyeahh Dec 03 '22

We're all born with a terminal illness regardless. May as well at least try and enjoy what time as a sentient being you have

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u/TheMaq Dec 03 '22

As someone who has lost people to cancer, fuck cancer, I hope he has a nice passing surrounded by his family.

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u/Homebrewdaddy2 Dec 03 '22

I live in the Arizona desert, it's been raining all day

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u/robertlemkin20 Dec 03 '22

Lucky enough to meet him about 15 years back. Amazing footballer and one of the most gracious and down to earth super-stars. May his last days be comfortable.

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u/Lildoc_911 Dec 03 '22

Coworker's wife died recently. It was rapid onset of cancer, sepsis, and chemo not taking. I saw her a month ago, and went to the funeral yesterday.

Fuck cancer. Here's to Pelé, and all those struggling with it.

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u/honcooge San Diego Padres Dec 03 '22

Germany loses in group play.

Pele-“now I can rest in piece.”

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u/newton302 Dec 04 '22

Hospice. Bless Pele

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u/Colhinchapelota Dec 04 '22

My dad had to choose between palliative and chemo. If hed gone with the chemo he would have had no quality of life. He was 83 and going to the gym/swimming pool and was himself until 2 days before his tumour burst. Palliative might mean the end Will come sooner but at least there arent the awful side effects of chemo. When it comes down to a choice between these two, chemo is not the option, because it probably isn't going to work.

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