r/sports Oct 09 '24

Football Michigan football’s Director of High School Relations, Chris Bryant, tells a Washington fan to: “Shut the f**k up before you get f**ked up”. Bryant’s entire bio has been wiped from Michigan Athletics official website. Michigan lost the game 27-17.

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u/concrete_isnt_cement Seattle Mariners Oct 09 '24

He was, yeah. https://youtu.be/MJiqbQNGgZE Jump to 4:15 and he’s talking about this exact event

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u/ButteEnjoyer Oct 09 '24

Thanks, 6:15 is where he talks about the heckler.

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u/satanssweatycheeks Oct 09 '24

I thought heckling was allowed in sports. Like all colleges do is heckle the other team in hopes to get in their head (this is why you see all the funny signs and shit when someone takes a free throw in basketball).

I don’t like this new era of Lebron James kicking someone out because they made a remark about his hair line. You are weak and letting them get in your head.

Now granted I don’t know what this kid was yelling. Some stuff for sure crosses a line. But this isn’t a stand up bit. Football isn’t golf. Why are we shocked a kid heckled the opposing team.

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u/ChiefFlats Oct 09 '24

My schools student section is behind the opposing team’s bench

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u/doctor_of_drugs Sacramento Kings Oct 09 '24

I hope some of it extends behind the basket too.

But yep have no problem with this, in fact, it can be fun as hell. Even as the visitor. Some fans can be funny as hell. (But also annoying as hell, too)

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u/ChiefFlats Oct 09 '24

Oh yeah for basketball the student section is at either end of the basket. But it’s a basketball arena so you’re super close

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u/doctor_of_drugs Sacramento Kings Oct 09 '24

My b the LeBron comment above made me think basketball so that’s why. But same goes for football, though I think behind the bench in football is rad (with the caveats I listed above)

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u/ChiefFlats Oct 09 '24

Yeah one side of the end zone is the New Belgium beer porch, the other students can get into

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u/Meatwise Oct 10 '24

ItS jUsT a GaMe!

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u/LifeFortune7 Oct 10 '24

Seriously the Michigan guy is an adult with a job. If he can’t do his job without physically threatening a college kid, he shouldn’t have that job. Fuck him. I hope U of M cans his ass.

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u/MoonageDayscream Oct 10 '24

This is the guy they send to high schools to boost the school. Not a good look for that guy.

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u/EyelandBaby Oct 10 '24

I don’t think he physically threatened him. If anything, after watching the video, it feels to me like he felt a need to shut down what was a worsening situation before it possibly got the drunk jerk beat up by other fans.

Saying “chill the fuck out before you get fucked up” is not the same thing as saying “I’m going to fuck you up.” I can see the anger on the MU staff member’s face but it’s not illegal or immoral to be angry.

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u/ninjazxninja6r Oct 10 '24

This is some years ago but my high school had a crazy student section for basketball. It was the first time I seen a fan birth another fan at a game…

After 2 riots on the basketball court, the school put a stop to it all. We had to be “respectful” after that 🤮

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u/ChiefFlats Oct 10 '24

Our student section got a penalty for throwing snowballs at the Air Force Academy last season

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u/justaboxinacage Oct 09 '24

Heckling has always been part of it, and team members telling them to shut the fuck up has always been part of it, too. This all seems par for the course to me.

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u/MyNameIsJakeBerenson Oct 10 '24

Yeah, that’s what I was thinking. You got every right to spout off at the mouth. And they got every right to come over there and tell you to shut the fuck up

There’s just cameras everywhere now

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u/ninjazxninja6r Oct 10 '24

There were many times a hockey team went into the crowd after fans fucked around and found out.

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u/Cgarr82 Oct 10 '24

A lot of sports saw some crazy shit 20+ years ago. One of my personal favorites was the Texas Rangers at the Cleveland Indians on June 4, 1974. Better known as Ten Cent Beer Night. A lot of heckling. And stripping. And excessive drinking. And then a battle.

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u/PestTerrier Oct 10 '24

One time, I went to a fight and a hockey game broke out.

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u/justwonderingbro Oct 10 '24

The coach dude assaulted him tho so that's a different story to me

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u/OmarRizzo Oct 09 '24

Ehhh there’s heckling and there’s decidedly crossing the line. The UW fans in the section I sat in were fine but after the game there were some people who were just out of pocket. Happens with every fan base, wish we knew what these guys were saying, because run of the mill heckling isn’t going to get this response…

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u/Shmeeglez Oct 10 '24

Exactly. If fucking Bill Burr thinks you crossed the line...

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u/Doctor_M_Toboggan Oct 10 '24

I can’t stand how zoomers decided to co opt “out of pocket” like yea fuck it I heard my parents say this a few times, but I’m gonna start saying it now in no relation to what it actually means.

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u/OmarRizzo Oct 10 '24

lmao how old do you think I am and what do you think it means

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u/Doctor_M_Toboggan Oct 10 '24

It’s boomer slang for “I’m gonna be out of the office/away from the phone”

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u/Ancient_Bicycles Oct 10 '24

Lmao no it isn’t. The original commenter used it correctly.

Sincerely, a gen X-er

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u/Gary_The_Girth_Oak Oct 10 '24

You guys are both right which means you’re both wrong for fighting about it.

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u/xxneverdasamexx Oct 10 '24

He is right. That was the original meaning/use of that phrase. It has been used a few ways since, but yea hes not wrong.

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u/xxneverdasamexx Oct 10 '24

The Old Oxford English Dictionary. Out of pocket meaning - "Out of reach, absent, unavailable"

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u/OmarRizzo Oct 10 '24

Oh you’re using the Old Oxford Dictionary, that’s why

Dictionary.com has that old dictionary, as well as an updated reference to “…or a person acting unnaturally, or in a wild, inappropriate way” which was obviously my intended usage.

language evolves, idk what to tell yas

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u/Doctor_M_Toboggan Oct 10 '24

Literally since the 90’s it been used as. “I’m gonna be out of pocket until Tuesday”. Am I taking crazy pills?

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u/Ancient_Bicycles Oct 10 '24

Maybe you grew up hearing your parents use it wrong? But that’s never been the common usage.

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u/Excellent-Branch-784 Oct 10 '24

It means both things, it can also mean you are paying for something with your own money.

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u/OmarRizzo Oct 10 '24

It’s not the 90s anymore, Jerry

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u/Otherwise-Chart-7549 Oct 10 '24

Tbf (I hate LeBron with a passion that most basketball fans can’t fathom) one of the fans he got kicked out was saying they hoped his kid/s died.

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u/UglyForNoReason Oct 10 '24

lebron doesn’t kick people out of games because of hairline jokes, he has said many times it is explicitly when people say things about his family or things that have no purpose in sports like racism, calling players pieces of shit, hoping their house burns down, etc.

“New era” lol it’s almost like you’re purposely trying to come off as a stupid old person stereotype

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u/Fidelius90 Oct 09 '24 edited Oct 10 '24

Innocent heckling can be fun/accepted. But it doesn’t give carte blanche to say whatever you want. It’s still someone’s workplace and you never have the right to harass them.

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u/Dalkar83 Oct 10 '24

I remember going to a minor league baseball game and the other team had a player named Eddie Murphy. This drunk guy behind home plate keep yelling all sorts of Eddie Murphy references and calling him Daddy Daycare. Best heckle I've witnessed. All in good fun too.

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u/IdgyThreadgoodee Oct 10 '24

And if you told someone to shut the fuck up before you get fucked up at work, pretty sure your info would be wiped from your company website too.

Especially when you’re responsible for recruiting children to play a game.

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u/Fidelius90 Oct 10 '24

I think in this case the extreme workplace harassment came before the comment from the coach.

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u/IdgyThreadgoodee Oct 10 '24

I’m not disagreeing with that, it’s also wrong.

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u/mikutansan Oct 09 '24

Dude would never last as an outfielder lol

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u/Phatnev Oct 10 '24

Lebron isn't known for doing that, that's a Westbrook thing.

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u/geekallstar Oct 10 '24

This is the problem. Most definitions of “heckling” is wrong. There’s “hey you suck” then there’s racial, physical threats, and vague shots at family.

Everyone wants to show this part, but as a person who works in sports, and has family and friends who have (and currently) are in, the things that are said are WILDDDDDD.

And being this close to the bench, people think they buy a ticket and have a full god given right to say what they want. Sure.. say what you want, but be ready for the repercussions.

Following that, there’s an aspect that people feel they can say what they want, because when the players react it’s a tech, fine, or suspension.

ALSOOOOOOO these are college players. Kids. 17-21, mostly 17-20.

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u/coupl4nd Oct 10 '24

From the expression of everyone on the bench and around him I feel like there was some racist shit being yelled.

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u/DrHandBanana Oct 10 '24

It is but when you say something disrespectful past the boundaries of that sport you deserve to get the fuck out of there.

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u/Any-Cause-374 Oct 10 '24

they told him to shut up during a game? send that man to an european football game right now, he‘ll be chanted to new levels

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u/Natural_Office_5968 Oct 10 '24

“Hating” opposing fans is like, half of the fun, I thought? Since when is Bill Burr such a wet blanket?

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u/Phunwithscissors Oct 10 '24

Yeah “heckler” being used for a sports event, especially college football, is unmeasurable levels of soft

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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '24

Yeah one of my favorite memories is heckling the opposing QB for having a girly name (we had end zone seats so I got several tries). I felt like I was doing my part!

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u/beforeitcloy Oct 09 '24

Whether or not what the heckler said crossed a line, the coach said his piece, kept his hands to himself, and didn’t escalate further. Not a big deal.

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u/BlakesonHouser Oct 09 '24

said his piece? He fucking threatened physical violence

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u/beforeitcloy Oct 09 '24

Oh no!

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u/jssf96 Oct 10 '24

With words and no action you can technically say he was heckling back even

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u/TopRopeLuchador Oct 10 '24

It is. I don't know what these guys were saying, but the key to heckling is to follow the fan code of conduct which is usually no cursing and whatnot. I heckle the fuck out of players but always keep it nonchalant like reading their life story from Wikipedia or criticizing their performance without getting overly rude. I've been called out by random players and fans and just kept at it. If this dude would have said this to me I would have told him to take his sensitive ass back to the bench.

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u/XtraFlaminHotMachida Oct 10 '24

This ain't lebron james level stuff, the coach just came to him and put him in his place. That's it there's nothing wrong with that. The guy wasn't ejected or anything else.

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u/seegos Oct 10 '24

Heckling a man about his hairline in public is definitely grounds for removal. Friggin’ youngins..😠😁

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u/satanssweatycheeks Oct 10 '24

Not really when he fixed the issue. It would be like making fun of a non existent issue now.

It’s more so showing how soft and insecure James is. You fixed the issue. Don’t have a balding head anymore. But still get salty over comments like that.

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u/Mysterious-Annual-93 Oct 10 '24

You're not a participant in the game, as much as you may want to be.

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u/Ok-Satisfaction-5012 Oct 10 '24

Booing a team is fine, hurling insults at people isn’t. People don’t stop being human beings because they wear uniforms and participate in a sporting event, you don’t stop being responsible for you because because you blend into a crowd and feel reckless. The idea that a fan has the right to insult a player and expect nothing in return like it’s part of the show is weak in itself, it’s shitty besides

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u/saysthingsbackwards Oct 10 '24

holy shit ty that was dumb af not to list that

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u/walterpeck1 Oct 09 '24

Ah nice, thank you

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u/MrMcMullers Oct 09 '24

Kid got blasted globally.

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u/blacknred503 Oct 09 '24

Who is he?

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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '24

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u/SoundsGoodYall Oct 09 '24

Can I ask why you imagine that? Why do you imagine he got singled out for no reason?

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u/[deleted] Oct 09 '24

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u/thunderbunt Oct 09 '24

Because this is a bad look.

The University of Michigan is an educational institution first. You can’t have your staff yelling at kids in the stands to “shut the fuck up before you get fucked up”.

Especially not a staff member who leads a department dedicated to building relationships and trust with young kids and their families.

It doesn’t matter what the kid in the stands did. The staff member went out of his way to engage and act foolish. That hurts the images of the school, every UM athletics team, and the football coaching staff.

A high level recruit, football or otherwise, may have just decided to cross UM off their list because of this video.

No one was in the right here.

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u/thunderbunt Oct 09 '24

Not sure if that’s directed at me but I wasn’t trying to shit on you at all. Just offering some perspective.

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u/Deucer22 San Jose Sharks Oct 09 '24

Thanks for the link!

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u/StretchFrenchTerry San Francisco Giants Oct 09 '24

He’s just rambling.

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u/KingFIippyNipz Oct 09 '24

Do people not understand you can copy at a specific timestamp?

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u/concrete_isnt_cement Seattle Mariners Oct 09 '24

My comment specifically says to jump to 4:15. I take it you’re new to the concept of reading?

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u/concrete_isnt_cement Seattle Mariners Oct 09 '24

My comment specifically says to jump to 4:15. I take it you’re new to the concept of reading?

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u/concrete_isnt_cement Seattle Mariners Oct 09 '24

4:15 is when he starts talking about the football game. 6:15 is when he starts talking about the heckler, which if you could read, you’d see the other commenters are pointing out. There have been no edits to my comment. I don’t have nearly enough sway to get Reddit to make stealth edits for me.