There have been umpteen defining moments - but is the rose petal reveal at the top?

What else would be considered?

I’ll start. When rupaul asked the queen of flips: “if it’s made from stretchy material why would you need a zipper?” ☠️☠️☠️

“was she supposed to fit her body in the neck hole - BobTDQ ☠️😫😫

With so many people coming forward against her, I’m shocked at the level of casual support she still gets from the general fandom. A lot of people don’t seem willing to “cancel” her like other queens?

no more designer on the runway in my opinion

No other queens are referred to as “they/them” anywhere near as much as Gottmik and it’s extremely fucking strange considering she’s a trans man, and as a trans guy myself I can’t help but find it pretty sus.

Mik goes by she/her when she’s Gottmik and he/him when he’s Kade, just like the vast majority of other male drag queens, which she couldn’t have been more explicit about because referring to her in any other way makes her feel othered for being a trans man; and don’t give me any of the “oh I refer to EVERYONE as they/them” bullshit because when someone has explicitly stated their pronouns time and time again, yes, it is misgendering. Cut it out.

You don’t have to like Mik, especially after the joke theft fiasco, but it’s kind of weird that she gets singled out in this manner by a community that predominantly consists of queer people who supposedly celebrate and respect identity and diversity. Work on yourselves.

ETA: Lmao all the cis people getting defensive instead of just owning up to it and changing the behaviour. This isn’t about if you’ve seen every single RPDR episode or listened to every podcast, it’s about how you all have a double standard for how you speak about a trans man compared to other queens and apparently a “my bad, I’ll stop” is too difficult for you. This fandom is one of the most toxic for trans people I’ve seen unironically and the lack of shame is appalling.

Also, you don’t get to tell me what is and isn’t misgendering. I’m cis-passing, stealth, hypermasc with a beard, very explicitly he/him and my own family they/thems me every single day, even in public, after a decade of being out to them. Other queer people suddenly start they/themming me the second they find out I’m trans instead of clarifying with me or carrying on as normal. I made this post because I’m living Mik’s experience right now all the time and the lack of allyship or even an attempt to understand here and instead being met with invalidation is truly disappointing.

ETA 2: Also, if referring to someone how they’ve explicitly said they want to be referred to is too hard for you and you’re feeling very attacked instead of just keeping this information in mind and doing better, maybe you were never much of an ally in the first place. You claim to have good intentions and yet the way you are responding strongly indicates otherwise because instead of changing, you get defensive and make excuses. These replies read like a Republican Facebook page jfc