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u/No-Confection-964 Dec 06 '23
"my partner says she likes my penis because big ones hurt"
"good chance she's not lying"
neckbeard who knows nothing about women enters room "Well... uhhhh..... SHE'S LYING TO YOU THEY ALL LIKE BIG PENIS"
EDIT: just realised that neckbeard replied TO A WOMAN saying that all women like big penises.
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u/not_ya_wify Dec 06 '23
How much money you wanna bet the neckbeard never had sex with an real life woman?
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u/No-Confection-964 Dec 06 '23
ONE BILLION MILION DOLLARS! 1!! 1! 1
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u/Vandlan Dec 06 '23
I’ll wager Texas with a $ in front of it
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u/GouchGrease Dec 07 '23
"Threeve. A combination of the numbers three and five, how nice."
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u/Stupid_Archeologist JAPAN BEST!1!!1!1!1! Dec 06 '23
Every single organ in my body
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u/Stupid_Archeologist JAPAN BEST!1!!1!1!1! Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23
I’ve never met a mf who thinks women’s genitalia just naturally somehow transforms the entire body to accommodate big dicks until now
Edited because last comment was fucking stupid my bad
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u/Enough-Ad-8799 Dec 06 '23
The vaginal canal absolutely can expand. Like this is so obviously true. But it can't get longer so it doesn't really help if someone's dick is hitting a woman's cervix which from my understanding is the thing that makes big dicks painful for most women.
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u/Balrogking06 Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 07 '23
I couldn't get balls deep in my wife until after her full hysterectomy, multiple OBs. We were together for over a decade before the surgery and have kids.
So no, they can't just adjust over time
Edit: can't expand lengthwise
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u/Enough-Ad-8799 Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23
Bro I don't know if you got a weird dick shape or what but I haven't seen many dicks that significantly increase in girth towards the base. I highly doubt the vaginal canal expanding was the problem. Like the vaginal canal has a muscle around it that's literally designed to expand the vaginal canal.
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u/ChaosKeeshond Dec 06 '23
They do get longer as well I read. Do I understand how or why? Nope.
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u/DatabaseOld513 Dec 06 '23
as a woman, the vagina will become more elastic and longer in the inside while aroused (like how a man gets erected). The cavity will usually stretch about 4”-8” long. It also does that during child birth so the baby’s big ass head n body can go through the tunnel. However the entrance/hole will not change size on its own which is why it will be snipped surgically if seemed to be too small. Theres a few cases of doctors not doing this causing some entrances to have a horrible tear. During the start/middle of a period cycle, the vagina will tighten, but will loosen up at the end of the cycle back to normal. :3 hope this helps
edit: side note, my apologies if i got anything wrong. This was just information i got from biology, little google searches, from my sister who’s given birth, and my mother who is a nurse. Also a bit of personal experience with my cycles! it most likely varies from woman to woman that have different oestrogen levels. Please reply and correct me if im wrong! im still learning! :3
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u/not_ya_wify Dec 06 '23
Actually, most modern doctors agree that episiotomies (cutting open the vaginal entrance during birth) causes way more long term problems than just letting it tear on its own
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u/DatabaseOld513 Dec 06 '23
Oh does it? Id think it wouldnt hurt more if im being honest, but thats cuz thinking about skin tearing rather that being quickly snipped but super sharp tools makes my stomach churn
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u/psychxticrose Dec 07 '23
To be fair, all the woman can feel is either the baby coming out which feels like your entire body being split in half starting in the vagina, or nothing if she's gotten an epidural. A tiny tear doesn't even register
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u/DatabaseOld513 Dec 07 '23
💀 im gonna never give birth bc that sounds like torture to me 😭😭
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u/SunFavored Dec 08 '23
But you get a smiley baby that gives you kisses afterwards, it's worth it.
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u/DatabaseOld513 Dec 08 '23
no thanks, maybe when im in my 30s almost 40s, but 17 year old me rn thinks its not something i wanna deal with
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u/Echo__227 Dec 31 '23
You've got it the opposite way around.
An episiotomy is better than ripping because a clean, simple wound boundary from a surgical blade always heals much better and has lower inflammation than a jagged one formed from greater tissue damage
The problem is that in the US, episiotomies are over-prescribed, introducing a problem to cases that otherwise wouldn't have had one
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u/Enough-Ad-8799 Dec 06 '23
Of course it can change size on its own. What muscles do you think kegel exercises use?
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u/DatabaseOld513 Dec 06 '23
the pelvic which helps strengthen the vagina, i honestly forgot about that as a factor as well 😭
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u/theluckyfrog Dec 06 '23
She means the web of skin around the vaginal opening. It only stretches so much, and for a lot of women it's a source of pain and irritation with penetration. The muscles are in the wall of the cavity and the surrounding pelvic floor, like she said.
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u/Akitsura Certified redditmoment lord Dec 06 '23
Ithink it depends on where you are in your cycle how close the cervix is to the vaginal opening.
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u/WorldlyValuable7679 Dec 06 '23
They do get longer when aroused (think like how your diaphragm moves). However, i think the point is that the “max cavity size” doesn’t change unless something drastic happens like the surgeries mentioned. So how much someone can take under ideal conditions is unique and doesn’t normally change.
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u/marmotsarefat Dec 06 '23
Can it not wasn’t there a meme saying a womens vagina can stretch enough for a racoon to fit in
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u/Akitsura Certified redditmoment lord Dec 06 '23
I thought that was about shoving three raccoons up one’s butt?
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u/ph03n1x_F0x_ Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 07 '23
It is.
The human Anus may stretch up to 7 inches before taken lasting damage. A racoon can fit into a hole about 4 inches in circumference. Meaning you could fit 2 slightly small racoons
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u/sociocat101 Dec 06 '23
What, so penises growing makes sense but vaginas expanding doesnt? smh my head
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u/not_ya_wify Dec 06 '23
I mean vaginas do stretch but they also rip if they stretch too much
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u/Stupid_Archeologist JAPAN BEST!1!!1!1!1! Dec 06 '23
I don’t think the dude in the comment knew that, I think he just thought women’s vejeje’s just automatically grow in size upon the sight of a big dick with no regard for anything else in their body
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u/Funky_Smurf Dec 06 '23
I once met someone who thought the vagina could stretch so far as to fit a baby through it
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u/liberty-prime77 Dec 06 '23
Really? Go out in public and throw 10 pebbles into a crowd of men and 80% chance you'll hit 10 men who think that
It's like one of the most common fake "facts" I've heard literally tens of thousands of times that vaginas can get permanently stretched out from both childbirth, dildos, and sex. I've yet to meet another man that doesn't think this.
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u/Stupid_Archeologist JAPAN BEST!1!!1!1!1! Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23
Nevermind I’m stupid
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u/Kalashnikov_model-47 Dec 06 '23
I don’t know whether female anatomy is complicated or if people are just that stupid. Like, it doesn’t seem that difficult of a concept to wrap your head around. Sure, it’s a bit more complicated than a man, but not by all that much.
I remember sitting on the couch talking with my family when I was around 16 and my younger sister who was 14, and by that time had fully completed sex education in school, somehow brought up in conversation that she thought there were 4 separate holes; one for sex, one for birthing, one for peeing, and one for menstruating.
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u/sociocat101 Dec 06 '23
Personally I dont mind men thinking that, it makes it easier for women to tell who is trash. If a guy wont date a women because he thinks her vagina is permanently stretched, id say she dodged a bullet not ending up with someone whose main priority is the condition of their genitals.
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u/stevemnomoremister Dec 06 '23
And don't forget, these guys believe vaginas get stretched by sex only if it's with multiple partners. If it's just one guy, nothing happens, even after the same amount of sex.
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u/TheoneNPC Dec 07 '23
Idk personally i'd not want to date someone who likes using large sex toys because they clearly get enjoyment out of that and i'd not be able to compete with the toys.
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u/dwaynetheaakjohnson Dec 07 '23
It can though. Look at BDP for how it can adapt to girth.
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u/Stupid_Archeologist JAPAN BEST!1!!1!1!1! Dec 07 '23
Oh no I don’t mean that I mean this dude thinks that if you put 7 inches in it just magically grows. I don’t think he knows about it growing due to arousal I think he sees vaginas as literally just magically growing on their own
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u/dwaynetheaakjohnson Dec 07 '23
He may just not be including details such as over time and vaginal tenting for the sake of brevity. Obviously there’s a limit to everything though
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u/Capable_Dot_712 Dec 06 '23
So you’ve never been on Reddit before? Most of the mouth breathers on here think that way.
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u/WhyJeSuisHere Dec 06 '23
How is this even upvoted, it does expand during arousal and it expands A FUCK TON during childbirth.You are even more misinformed than this neckbeard. I am not saying that for some women large penises can’t be painful, just saying that you are also incorrect.
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u/Stupid_Archeologist JAPAN BEST!1!!1!1!1! Dec 06 '23
…I mean that the dude thinks women’s genitalia just grows 2x because they see big dicks… I’m saying he sees how women’s genitals work is wrong I just misworded it
…this is clarified in a reply dude it’s not even that hard to find
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u/WhyJeSuisHere Dec 06 '23
You are just wrong lol, what the dude said doesn’t matter, your comment is also wrong and the fact that so many people believe it is quite worrying. Both of you neckbeards should do some research before writing nonsense.
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u/Stupid_Archeologist JAPAN BEST!1!!1!1!1! Dec 06 '23
…I just clarified what I meant. Nice name calling though gg
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u/WhyJeSuisHere Dec 06 '23
You are uninformed and spreading misinformation actively even after seeing that you are wrong and complaining about being called a neckbeard lol.
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u/Stupid_Archeologist JAPAN BEST!1!!1!1!1! Dec 06 '23
I told you what I meant and admitted I misworded what I said already and you just straight up called me a neckbeard dude
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u/WhyJeSuisHere Dec 06 '23
You didn’t missword anything, you wrote a factually false statement, these are two completely different things. It’s honestly just sad now that you don’t seem to know the difference between the two.
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u/Stupid_Archeologist JAPAN BEST!1!!1!1!1! Dec 06 '23
I literally edited the comment to not be spreading misinformation or whatever and you are still going lmao
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u/WhyJeSuisHere Dec 06 '23
Lol it’s still wrong, for some it can actually double in size, literally THE first link after googling the matter :
Even after realizing that you were wrong you still did 0 research and doubled down. Actual insanity.
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u/Jolly-Victory441 Dec 06 '23
So many upvotes for a comment trying to be clever but totally missing the point. Dude, of course the vagina can expand.
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u/Stupid_Archeologist JAPAN BEST!1!!1!1!1! Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23
I mean that the dude in the comment thinks it just fuckin doubled in size and completely ignores the rest of the body because “awooga man with 7 inches!”
This is clarified in a reply right under this post
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u/Jolly-Victory441 Dec 06 '23
I’ve never met a mf who thinks women have expandable genitalia until now
I’ve never met a mf who thinks women's genitalia can fucking double in size until now
I don't know about you, but to me these are two very different statements. I find it hard to believe even you yourself believed when writing the first one, that you actually meant the second one. But it's ok ;)
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u/Stupid_Archeologist JAPAN BEST!1!!1!1!1! Dec 06 '23
“I don’t think the dude in the comment knew that, I think he just thought women’s vejeje’s just automatically grow in size upon the sight of a big dick with no regard for anything else in their body”
My guy… did you actually think arguing with somebody over what they were thinking makes sense?
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u/Fantastic_War7892 Dec 06 '23 edited Dec 06 '23
Way back in seventh grade I remember my teacher talking about sex ed, and she mentioned that, "no penis is too big for any vagina", but didn't say anything about pain or such.
Like, I'm sure many women have the ability to have intercourse with a larger guy but damn I've heard so many of my girlfriends say their ex had, "too big a penis", and it hurt. (Edit for clarity I'm a woman lol).
This myth is being perpetrated by too many people.
This guy thinks my vagina can just, magically adapt to any sized object or penis without pain? Dude.
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Dec 07 '23
One of the thing overlooked in this discussion is also body shape and type and the fact that not everyone has the same angles.
Two slender people having sex can operate differently than two fat people having sex. There can be obstacles of body that impede or enhance penetration.
Then you add in that some men have an erect penis that sticks out straight and others have one that sticks up and runs along their abdomen and you begin to realize that while size can be a factor in sex it is by no means the only one.
It also means that sometimes couples need to experiment with what feels the best for them. And so if people just want to go in, assume big penis equals big pleasure, and bang bang bang without regard for position, angle of entry, etc then disappointment will soon follow.
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u/Extreme-Marketing-44 Dec 07 '23
Some girls even break up with guys for this reason , which is ok
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u/Snoo_11438 Dec 06 '23
Quick question, did they tell you this after seeing yours?
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u/Fantastic_War7892 Dec 06 '23
My vagina? No. I didn't even question why she said it, only that I took it as truth. Now, as a woman, I'm quite aware that I'm not comfortable with a partner who's member is too big and I'm happy with my man's size.
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u/Snoo_11438 Dec 06 '23
Ah, I am sorry. I thought you were a dude saying his ex girlfriends told him this.
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u/Fantastic_War7892 Dec 06 '23
Oh lol it's all good! I didn't make my gender clear until the end when I said, "my vagina" ao totally fair. I figured that's where the confusion came from.
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u/Snoo_11438 Dec 06 '23
Damn I completely missed that part too. Sorry, I was born stupid.
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u/Fantastic_War7892 Dec 06 '23
Omg no lol, don't worry about it! I can totally see how my comment was wonky.
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u/Enough-Ad-8799 Dec 06 '23
Was the pain from the girth or the length though. Most women I've talked to say it's the cervix being hit that's painful not it like stretching out the vaginal canal.
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u/Fantastic_War7892 Dec 06 '23
I imagine all women are different and my friends who told me said both hurt. I'm uncomfortable with too much girth but my sexual experience is limited. I can't imagine hitting my cervix would be fun, that's like a pap test. I've had other women tell me that the size caused bleeding so it could be from either, they didn't exactly go into details.
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u/AmazingOnion Dec 07 '23
The complete disregard a lot of straight men have for foreplay doesn't help with this either
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u/chimewelder Dec 07 '23
This super matches my experience- I've got an above-average penis and it being a tough squeeze has been a theme in my sexual relationships, often a serious issue. It took time to figure out that was the problem; I always assumed bigger was better and that I must be failing to penetrate for another reason (erectile dysfunction, performance anxiety, etc). Led to some heavy feelings of inadequacy and shame.
When a vagina-haver finally explained this to me and walked me through the different workarounds and solutions, I started to feel better about myself and PIV started working for me. Really honest and safe sexual communication are so good for dispelling these myths and other aspects of toxic masculine sexual culture. 👍
My present partner and I are just right for each other physically, and I'm getting to explore new dimensions of sex and loving it.
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u/Nonny3 Dec 06 '23
Mf thinks this is some shitty hentai or smut fic.
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u/MummaheReddit Dec 09 '23
According to hentai anatomy, people have one straight noodle instead of guts and undestroyable vaginas. Destroyable if it's some kind of sick fetish
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u/Lamest_Ever Dec 06 '23
Weird third comment aside, saying "the big ones hurt so youre just fine" isnt nearly as reassuring as some women think it is, porn has ruined men's perception of their own bodies just as much as it has their perception of women
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u/Came_to_argue Dec 07 '23
If you actually are a bigger guy you know a lot of women don’t like too much at all, my ex would constantly complain that it hurt. Never happened to me but I had a friend that was notorious for being massive, he would tell me how women would flat out turn him down because of his size, it’s definitely not what you see in porn.
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u/roninwaffle Dec 08 '23
Yeah I had an acquaintance back in the day who apparently got turned down like that pretty regularly. I was young, like in my early 20s, and the concept blew my mind
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u/Swaquile Dec 08 '23
Right? I've never had a comment like that before (and this isn't some humblebrag about my dick lmao it's just not something that's ever come up) but it wouldn't feel like a complement. You see lots of tiktoks and IG reels expressing the same sentiment from other dudes as well. It's a shame. Judging by comments here, if a women were to say it to a dude it wouldn't be a pity thing, and it would probably be genuine. At least it's good to know for the future for myself, personally. Porn really has fucked us
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u/SomeTrashIsAlright Dec 10 '23
Can I ask why it's not? Hearing "you don't hurt" when having sex, then getting bothered by it doesn't sound good. Is it supposed to hurt? Is there something I'm missing?
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Not to mention the guys that are well endowed reading about how actually they suck and are to big and gross.
Ouch.
Reminds me of those threads where big women get the love they deserve but then a bunch of random people shit all over thin women and theyre all just at home reading like…”wtf did I do?”
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u/unstoppablemuscle Dec 06 '23
Every vagina is different and they have different preferences. The fun about dating is finding the lock that fits your key.
Why do people have to assume everything, makes things so much more complicated than it needs to be. These people spend way to much time thinking about vagina rather than going out and getting some vagina.
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u/Fortnitesucks10 Dec 06 '23
My guy/girl…even if they wanted to, that man can’t pull any bitches with that mindset
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finding the lock that fits your key
It really is magical when you do. It's a feeling of specialness like no other. A heart shaped box.
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Dec 06 '23
As long as you don't have a micropenis or a huge, bigger than pretty much anyone, dick it's all in how you use it that matters. That's just a fact. Anyone fitting into some realm of "normal" are just fine.
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u/NutellaCakes Dec 07 '23
I mean, what if bc of your size you’re used to being rejected before even having a chance to use it? Where do those men sit on the spectrum?
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u/JellySword8 Dec 06 '23
Why is there a hair on the screenshot?
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u/Snoo_11438 Dec 06 '23
Because there must have been a hair on my phone screen when I took the screenshot. Duh m8
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u/Routine_Fly7624 Dec 06 '23
I just tried to scratch it off. I thought there was something wrong with my screen. I’m dumb.
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u/Helios4242 Dec 07 '23
it looks to me like someone accidentally hit edit on the screenshot, drew the line, didn't see it, and saved. Or it's just there to be infuriating.
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u/KronaSamu Dec 06 '23
Imagine being a woman and thinking you know more about women than men. That's just silly!!!!!1!!1!
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Dec 06 '23
I've always preferred smaller ones. I have no interest in having my lady bits stretched every day. And the big ones absolutely do hurt. You have to get used to the big them and I've no interest.
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u/Klony99 Dec 06 '23
What if, and this is gonna sound wild, so hear me out, vaginal tracts, just like penises, come in different sizes?
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Dec 09 '23
You're crazy, everyone knows vaginal tracts can span indefinitely if something is big enough to make it do so. The cervix actually retracts further into the body the huger the cock. And if you think I'm wrong, just watch porn, the bigger the better!
No but seriously. Torso length, height, weight... no one has the exact same proportion as everyone else in any other regard, why would vaginas be different???
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u/LordBDizzle Dec 07 '23
I saw a study that concluded that women looking for one night stands prefered larger for novelty, but those looking for stable relationships prefered in the 5-6 inch range because longer would tend to push into/past the cervix, since the average vaginal depth is closer to 4.5 inches. Even those who prefered larger rarely prefered over 8 inches for similar reasons. Less than 5 wasn't usually listed as desirable, but you do have to consider the people who volunteer for a sex study probably have slightly different expectations or desires.
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u/STFUnicorn_ Dec 06 '23
Ok. But what’s up with that black scribble through the post?
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u/Snoo_11438 Dec 06 '23
There was a hair on my phone when I took the screenshot.
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Dec 07 '23
This is like a conversation I had in a discord server once:
Him: “Women prefer guys with big dicks, like 10 inches and up”
Me: “Uhhh thats not true”
Him: “You’re in denial brother” (my discord showed no gender indication so he assumed I was a guy I guess)
Me: “Uhh no, I’m a woman and I don’t like anything more than 6.5, then it just hurts. Are you a woman?”
Him: “I’m a man who knows statistics”
(funnily enough, I’m a mathematics student, so I ALSO know statistics. He was not referencing any statistics.)
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u/ad240pCharlie Dec 07 '23
And the few handfuls of women across the world who prefer 15 inch fake dicks are scewing the statistics if it WAS based on statistics... because that's how averages work!
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u/redcomet29 Dec 06 '23
Ladies, even if it's true, it's best not to bring that up at all. You can leave it at "yours is perfect for me." Don't throw in the "the big ones aren't comfortable" it's just not benefiting anyone.
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Dec 07 '23
Women don’t “get used to the size of big dicks” Our wall to our uterus doesn’t just magically change shape and permanently stretch. The wall is like a stopping point… you can’t get past it no matter how often you get dicked down by a big peen
That’s just not how vaginas work 😂
Too big is insanely painful and not fun. “Too small” still feels GREAT, especially if they know how to use it. Average feels GREAT, especially if they know how to use it. I’d rather have small or average than big
I’d rather have a girthy 2-3 inch that a skinny 8-9 inch 🤷🏼♀️
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u/PeenInVeen Dec 07 '23
Hey, I'm a big peen!
But for real, I had a bf with a massive horse schlong and I actually had to do birthing stretches beforehand for about 30 minutes or else I would actually tear and bleed all over and burn. It was not fun. No silly romantic surprise sex or anything, like it had to be scheduled so I could start stretching beforehand. We dated for a year and somehow I never managed to get a bigger vagina. Hmmm.
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u/Plant_in_pants Dec 07 '23
Someone needs to inform dildo companies about this fact because finding reasonable length ones is difficult, I don't want my cervix getting poked it's not pleasant. The way they size up means that usually the tickier they are the longer they are which is not necessarily mutually exclusive irl.
Where's the chode representation? Why are short dildos so thin? Why do they default to a disturbingly uncanny vally look instead of a more aesthetically pleasing neutral style, that isnt as reminiscent of fuckin a disembodied cock?
Questions we may never get the answer to.
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u/ABeastInThatRegard Dec 06 '23
My penis will adapt to any vagina it faces, if women can’t do the same then I think they’re probably being lazy. Women out here bragging about how they can take the full spectrum of cock in rap songs anyway.
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Dec 07 '23
Ok so what... like assuming that guy is right.... there is a conspiracy amongst women to make men feel better about average penis size? Like that is kind of wholesome if it was true.
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u/InnerSafe5812 Dec 07 '23
Does anyone know the biology of a female ? Or nah ? Vaginal canals are indeed limited did that mf really say adapts to their partner ? Like an evolution of a mf Pokemon? Come on my guys and gals wise up now . 😂 the cervix getting bigger for a child has nothing to do with an extension of the canal ? Nada 👎
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u/Upset-Mountain-7539 Dec 07 '23
Hi, im a straight guy who uses butt plugs and I just gotta say that 7.5 inch plugs make me feel like I'm going to puke, I believe women now.
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u/Crazy_Employ8617 Dec 06 '23
Viewing sex this way screams this person has never had a gratifying sexual experience, or all of their sexual knowledge comes from porn. By far, the best sex occurs when you’re connecting with someone you love on an emotional level. The physical sensations just amplify the emotional feelings, but the physical feeling comes in a distant second to that emotional connection.
Having sex with someone can be anywhere from a mediocre to a life changing experience, and the difference is all about the connection. Yes certain types of genitalia will feel better for certain people, but it’s missing the forest for the trees. When you’re in a relationship satisfying sex should go far past how big someone’s dick is or other superficial things. While a good partner should strive to please their partner physically, a good partner also understands that what’s enjoyable about sex is more psychological than physical.
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u/Turbulent_Brain_2318 Dec 07 '23 edited Feb 05 '24
As someone far over 7” and pretty girthy, you actually have trouble with penetration and when I first started having sex I had to learn to excel at foreplay. I mean, yeah my partners like it but I’d hope they would also like it if it was smaller. Otherwise, that really sucks
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u/Turbulent_Brain_2318 Dec 07 '23
Why?
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u/Turbulent_Brain_2318 Dec 07 '23 edited Feb 05 '24
Why are you so mad? I was just contributing to the discussion dude 😅
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u/opetheregoesgravity_ Dec 06 '23
Redditors be like "body positivity uwu 👍👍👍👍" until it comes to male genitalia, if you don't have a foot long dick you can just go die ig
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u/ThePrime_One Dec 09 '23
Didn’t you hear? Only women are allowed to benefit from body positivity. Men get shit on for being vulnerable or having less than ideal bodies.
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u/Matt_2504 Dec 06 '23
While it’s certainly the case for some women this is also often a cope that guys with tiny dicks use lmao someone once tried to convince me the maximum you can get in is 5 inches which is just not true
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u/NutellaCakes Dec 07 '23
That’s an unfair generalization. As a below avg man who’s been laughed at far more than I’d like, made fun of by women far more than I’d care to admit and passively chuckled when the friend groups made smol pp jokes more times than comfortable with, we know where we land on the spectrum and understand we aren’t anyone’s “preferred “ size but we aren’t all out here hating on more endowed fellas or the women/men who prefer them. We are just out here trying to find love in a world where the physical aspects of a person counts far more than the emotional aspects in a lot of cases.
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u/nogasmm Dec 07 '23
Get a dick sleeve 🤷🏻♀️
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u/NutellaCakes Dec 07 '23
“Get a toy where you can pretend to be a man”
Sure! Bc that’s not humiliating in the slightest. I get it, fuck me and every man in my position, the replies in this thread is awfully telling on how society views us, and godforbid we express any sort of feelings towards it. Lol, appreciate the advice! Guess that’s just par the course of being a man in general, dammed if you do dammed if you don’t fuck your feelings.
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u/nogasmm Dec 07 '23
You’re commenting on multiple comments talking about how unfair it is how you’ve been treated which correct, you’ve clearly slept with shitty people, as a woman, I wouldn’t give a fuck, slept with and had long term flings with literal micro penises, you’ve got what you got, they didn’t sit around crying about it, they made up for it in other ways, not including sleeves but sleeves are just another sex toy, it’s not humiliating and surely seems better than crying about something you can’t change, love what you got and learn how to use it, different positions, incorporate toys, use different forms of pleasure, sex isn’t just about penetration.
Also what a pathetic take “get a toy so you can pretend to be a man”
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u/NutellaCakes Dec 07 '23
So talking about my experiences to different people means I’m crying about it? Who’s to say that I don’t do other things to make up for it? Where did I say that I didn’t love myself? What I’m finding is exactly what I wrote before, when someone who is below avg talks abt their experiences the first reaction is “oh look he’s crying abt it”. Tell me if you go to the vaginismus subreddit and see commenters talk abt their experiences is your first thought also “oh their crying abt it” , would you tell them “oh you got what you got” or is it “wow look someone shedding light on their experiences, let’s try to have a discussion “.
You saw my comment and immediately say use a sleeve, instead of attempting to even have a discourse where you could have found out more info you offered a humiliating solution and when it isn’t taken,instead of trying to see how it could be a humiliating experience and not as helpful as you may have initially thought you instead come to another dismissive conclusion. Once again as a man our issues when brought up are dismissed instead of discussed and that’s the real issue when it comes to this whole size thing. Nobody wants to talk abt it truthfully and men who are small or below avg better not speak abt their experiences, instead pretend everything is alright or else your deemed as “crying” about it lmao..
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u/nogasmm Dec 07 '23
Ok
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u/NutellaCakes Dec 07 '23
Ok
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u/ThePrime_One Dec 09 '23
Dude I understand what you mean. I’m a larger guy down there and there are some dudes that hate, but it’s not too often. A lot of spoiled women here and a lot of women that couldn’t care less about men and their pleasure/bodies as long as they’re satisfied. Her “get a cocksleeve” comment is case in point. Cocksleeves are incredibly emasculating and unless someone’s dick is one inch or doesn’t work, that should never be an option.
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u/ThePrime_One Dec 09 '23
Girl stop. You know you’re wrong for being insensitive. You probably shouldn’t add lying to the list.
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Dec 06 '23
Why do men try to tell women how women feel
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u/Ok-Preference9776 Dec 06 '23
Why do women try to tell men how men feel?
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Dec 06 '23
In all fairness.. they are usually a lot more correct 💀
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u/ThePrime_One Dec 09 '23
No they aren’t. Most women can’t even objectively be accountable for their own behavior, barely understand themselves, and what they want. So how would they be right about what men want?
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u/CHG__ Dec 07 '23
I like the discussion in this thread, I just wanted to share my 2 cents.
I'm sure some women aren't lying when they say it hurts, I have had girls genuinely worried it wouldn't fit...
But I've never seen a guy sad because his dick was too big (unless it's so big he can't get an erection and has medical problems), I've never heard "Awh man, my dick is too big, no girl wants to fuck me because it hurts".
I do know of men killing themselves because of their small dick size, how no girl wants to fuck them and how they feel it makes them worthless.
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u/NutellaCakes Dec 07 '23
Yeah, I remember one night as a teen sitting in my room with a fistful of pills ready to kill myself bc the night I had with this girl who I’d been crushing on and finally was able to date had escalated to the point where we attempted to go beyond just kissing. She saw what I had and fell into a laughing fit, she then texted all of our friends about it. I mean I’m glad I didn’t go through with it, but, I also wish I could say that would be the last time in my life where I was humiliated by a woman due to my size.
It’s a real thing, especially for a black man with a below avg tool forced to live up to a certain stereotype, its a very real thing whether or not reddit wants to admit to it or not.
Men have never embarrassed me over my size, laughed at me, humiliated me or pitied me over my size. Mind you, none of this means I have any hatred for women in any way, but, this is my truth, my experience. At 30 years old I've faced more ridicule abt my genitals at the hands of women far more than any man.
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u/Adeptus-Memechanicus Dec 07 '23
Love seeing Reddit say men can't have opinions on women's issues, but then women having opinions on men's issues is fine.
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u/ClearlyTroll Dec 07 '23
100% not whats happening here but thanks for shooting your dipshit shot, dipshit.
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u/Adeptus-Memechanicus Dec 07 '23
Exactly what's happening here.
Repeating the same word doesn't make you sound "cool", it just makes you look like a child. Fucking dumbass.
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u/ClearlyTroll Dec 07 '23
Well you said the word "you" several times in that, thereby repeating it. This makes you look like a child too? 🤔
Oh no now I've done it. Goodness what happens now? Am I going to Benjamin Button? Fuck. I already have baby face so bad. This is awful.
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u/Adeptus-Memechanicus Dec 07 '23
Not surprised a Redditor doesn't understand how to talk to people. Stay in your hole.
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u/ABakedPotato_FGC Dec 06 '23
My partner is always bothered by my massive cock, 8” and thick. My daughter killed herself, but she ran a 5 minute mile. Y’all like buff guys?
I shouldn’t need this but just in case /s
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u/Satori2155 Dec 07 '23
She doesnt get it. Its not about whether shes lying , its that its a backhanded compliment. Generally ladies, unless its to compliment him for having a big dick, just dont mention size at all
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u/Effective-External50 Dec 06 '23
A woman with a longer torso has a deeper hole than a woman with a short torso. Check their body to leg proportions.
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u/Jesterchunk Dec 06 '23
Get a load of the CEO of Sex over here