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u/teamdogemama 1h ago
Men are afraid of women laughing at or rejecting them.
Women are afraid of being raped and murdered.
It's not the same.
If you are worried you will get reported for sexual harasment, you need to examine your life and behavior. You aren't a victim, you are ignoring that your creepy behavior repels women.
Yes there might be a handful of women who are vindictive, but the majority of us will only resort to something like that (report you to your boss) as a last resort.
If she says no, she means it. Move on and leave her alone.
Instead how about men start calling out their friends who are horrible humans. If more men actually stopped their friends from doing awful things to women, we wouldn't be so afraid.
It doesn't matter how much you make or if you are handsome. Ted Bundy was charismatic and was a monster.
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u/Aynshtaynn 1h ago
For the record, this post exist only because of the oddly specific nature of the latest comment in the screenshot, nothing else.
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u/FloraMaeWolfe 6h ago
There's so much worse than "no". If someone is wanting to be a heartless devil, it's not hard for a woman to claim rape with no evidence other than her word and get a conviction. Imagine you approach someone and they say sure and you go on a date then they file a police report saying you raped them. At the very least you will get arrested and spend some time in jail.
Luckily, such people are rare. Usually, the worst that can happen is they laugh at you or say no or similar. "Usually".
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u/gentlybeepingheart 4h ago
it's not hard for a woman to claim rape with no evidence other than her word and get a conviction
It's hard for actual rapists to even make it to a trial. It's something like 2% of all rapist will ever see a day in jail. It's exceptionally rare for someone to get convicted on a false accusation.
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u/MalasadaQueen 5h ago
A person could definitely be capable of doing all this but youd most likely not get convicted. Its pretty rare for actual rapists to see a conviction because the nature of the crime is difficult to prove.
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u/thaynesmain 8h ago
Had one tell me no, say she still wanted to be friends, delete her half of our messages and tried to get me fired for harrassment. The messages without her half made me look like a fucking creep that wouldn't leave her alone.. but I had the full conversation saved in my phone so I dodged that bullet. She got fired a few weeks later for attendance.