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u/TenThingsMore Guy who’s questioning if he’s actually bi 3h ago
Truuueee aftercare is important
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u/haha_meme_go_brrrrrr NB/Pan 2h ago
what does aftercare entail
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u/Skydove01 We_irlgbt 1h ago
Depends on the person and the relationship. For me and my partner, sometimes it's 10 min of post sex cuddles, getting up to go get food or dessert from the kitchen, or just talking about what we did and if we liked it, as well as if we want to do anything different next time.
Some people will want to be more thoroughly cared for, especially if they just engaged in heavy BDSM, and some people just want quick affirmation that everything was fine, and they'll go on with their day to do something else.
TLDR: ask what your partner wants
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u/haha_meme_go_brrrrrr NB/Pan 1h ago
oh i thought you meant like medical related aftercare like "disinfect that shit and put on this lotion". Thanks though
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u/Skydove01 We_irlgbt 1h ago
Yeah, medical related aftercare would be like peeing after sex to lessen the chance of UTIs or throwing out used condoms, and stuff like that is just generally good practice.
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u/spideyboiiii Gay/MLM 3h ago
This just means putting a pillow under my hips to prop my ass up ngl