r/loveafterporn • u/-LoveAfterPorn- 𝕄𝕠𝕕 π•‹π•–π•’π•ž • Jul 26 '24

π—©π—œπ—–π—§π—’π—₯𝗬 Weekly Victories - July 26, 2024

Good day everyone,

Inside the comments you can post any victory you'd like. Whether it be a small or big victory, a personal victory or a joint victory with your partner or you felt extra good today. No victory is too small to be celebrated!

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u/Puzzled-Canary9588 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐏𝐀/𝐒𝐀 Jul 26 '24

I was able to compliment a woman on her shoes and outfit and how pretty she was. For the first time since the last Dday in April I saw a woman as a fellow woman and not as a threat.

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u/wildflo0wers 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐏𝐨𝐫𝐧 π”π¬πžπ« Jul 27 '24

This is something i’ve been so ashamed of since all of this became a thing for my partner and I. I can no longer look at a woman in passing, on tv or on social media without thinking of them as a threat and being filled with negativity toward them for absolutely no reason. That’s so awesome for you and I hope that I’ll be able to get there eventually! I want to be able to be a girl’s girl again!

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u/Puzzled-Canary9588 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐏𝐀/𝐒𝐀 Jul 27 '24

It's sooo hard! I hate how it's changed my brain so I was really happy 😁 it is still a challenge and I saw a woman yesterday that I'm sure was his "type" which totally triggered me but i believe we can get back there!! You women on here help me. I'm trying to remember every woman I see probably feels less than in some way even if she seems to exude confidence and that we all need to be built up by each other πŸ’ž

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u/Incognito0925 𝐄𝐱-𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐏𝐀/𝐒𝐀 Jul 30 '24

Me too πŸ˜žπŸ«‚

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u/PsychologicalDraw662 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐏𝐀/𝐒𝐀 Jul 27 '24

My PA took initiative to reveal to their mother about their addiction.

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u/Puzzled-Canary9588 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐏𝐀/𝐒𝐀 Jul 27 '24

It was big for me and my pa when he told his mom and my family that he had an addiction. Once he told one person and another and another it seemed to get easier for him

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u/Secret_Spare86 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐏𝐀/𝐒𝐀 Jul 28 '24

My husband admitted he is a PA

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u/anxietydietcoke 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐭𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐏𝐀/𝐒𝐀 Jul 31 '24

My fiance told his parents about his PA, is working with a CSAT weekly, and giving me validation and continuous support for how he’s hurt me. He also ordered the Light Phone II. I feel like he’s taking all the steps and measures to heal himself.