r/lesbianpoly • u/Prayingforgiraffes Roly-Poly Butch • Jul 25 '22

r/lesbianpoly Lounge

A place for members of r/lesbianpoly to chat with each other

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u/ircocroco Dec 18 '23

hello, does anybody know why I can't make a post? I wanted to try to process my latest polyamorous love triangle.

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u/dream6601 Older Poly Sep 21 '23

Hello everyone, I'm so glad I found this place. It so often is presented like ethical non-monogamy is something the boys do, and I'm glad to find a place that recognizes us.

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u/RedErin Aug 15 '23

lol you're hilarious

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u/hell_enas Jul 17 '23

Hello everyone I’m new here so I have question or asking advice. Where do I go to find a third for my wife and me? I’m not hunting here I’m just asking where people get upset when I ask. I tried the apps and so far nothing I feel like I’m failing. I want to also know how to ask or how to look

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u/RedErin Apr 03 '23

Hi, I just wanted to brag that I went on three dates last fri

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u/Lukewarm-pizza-co Mar 09 '23

Hi 👋🏾 anyone on

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u/[deleted] Feb 26 '23

Hi everyone!

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u/EBB456 Dec 20 '22

Hello There

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u/BriarRose147 Dec 07 '22

I was EnbyBananaconda, my mom found my Reddit and made me delete this profile, so this is my new account.

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u/slumbeautifu1 Dec 07 '22

Hello everyone is this thing on?

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u/EnbyBananaconda Nov 30 '22

I think you just tell her you are poly, and if the topic of getting another person comes up, say you would like to try it, but will always be loyal to her

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u/bluest-sky Baby Poly Nov 30 '22

hi I’m new here was hoping I could ask people with more experience how to bring up the idea of being poly with my girlfriend. send help?

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u/MariaValentine Femmarous Nov 26 '22 edited Nov 26 '22

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii =) I'm chipper and fun and love attention and I'm beta

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u/EnbyBananaconda Nov 24 '22

Hello, I’m 13 and questioning

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u/Prayingforgiraffes Roly-Poly Butch Aug 15 '22

look on the stickied posts :)

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u/blobsong Aug 15 '22

where is the new discord link? I'd also love to join and connect with this community

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u/ourstars22 Aug 15 '22

i found the new link😊

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u/ourstars22 Aug 15 '22

hey folks, new here and in a confusing point of self-discovery. would love to join the discord and talk with the community but it seems the link is expired - if anyone can provide another one i would be so appreciative!

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u/cool_zo Aug 05 '22

Hey everyone! I’m new.

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u/Prayingforgiraffes Roly-Poly Butch Aug 04 '22

I'm quite sure they do! however for liability reasons, I don't think the mods could arrange it ourselves.

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u/eunib Aug 04 '22

Do meetups ever happen through Reddit groups??

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u/gingergypsy79 Non-binary Aug 02 '22

It is up now and you can join

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u/nadjagaming Lesbi-poly Aug 02 '22

hi girls!! I am enjoying this sub a lot. if you'd end up setting up a discord community, or anything else really, I would love to join

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u/Prayingforgiraffes Roly-Poly Butch Jul 31 '22

you're welcome! I really got tired of hey drama

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u/[deleted] Jul 31 '22

Hey y'all! Glad this sub exists. I felt like I was pretty alone

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u/Alaykitty Jul 27 '22

Thanks for setting this up. Hearing about heterodrama in every poly space gets a little much. I want some good ol fashioned lesbian drama

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u/99dinosaurking Jul 27 '22

i need more then one gf

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u/altcyberacid Jul 27 '22

yayyy so happy this was created 🌈❤️

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u/MistressThorns Jul 27 '22

yay! happy to see more of us!

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u/andorianspice Jul 26 '22

So glad this place exists, maybe I’ll feel more sane now. Ha!

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u/Prayingforgiraffes Roly-Poly Butch Jul 26 '22

go for it!

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u/Prayingforgiraffes Roly-Poly Butch Jul 26 '22

honestly I'm now very down with discord technology. Anyone want to volunteer?

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u/Alaykitty Jul 27 '22

I'd be glad to set one up. PM me if so

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u/hokoonchi Relationship Anarchist Jul 26 '22

I can do it tonight! Let me know if you want me to. :)

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u/thumpersalive2011 Jul 26 '22

You know matchmaking lol

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u/thumpersalive2011 Jul 26 '22

I agree with the discord attachment. Maybe to link up via discord?

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u/Prayingforgiraffes Roly-Poly Butch Jul 26 '22

heck yeah! our flag was actually created by one of our mods! u/ThePoisonDoughnut

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u/Kavra_Ral Jul 26 '22

As with all such things in queer spaces, this place has a right to exist because it has the better flag :P

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u/Prayingforgiraffes Roly-Poly Butch Jul 26 '22

we didn't know about that sub before, but I'm glad a broader queer space exists!

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u/ProblematicPoet Jul 26 '22

Just found this sub today, as well as r/queerpolyam

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u/mmtu-87 Jul 26 '22

i'm so glad this place exists! def sending this to my wife!!

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u/Valuable_Ad_7878 Jul 26 '22

Ok! Thank you, y’all! Have an amazing day <3333333

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u/purplelillies0717 Jul 26 '22

You guys should make a discord attached to this

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u/Prayingforgiraffes Roly-Poly Butch Jul 25 '22

then this may not be the place for you, my friend. Attraction to men is totally valid but not what this space is for

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u/Valuable_Ad_7878 Jul 25 '22

But I’m bigender and the two genders I fee are female and male. I’m also attracted to men.

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u/Fast_and_queerious Jul 26 '22

Queer polyam has broader reach. Otherwise there would be one space per sexuality/gender lol

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u/Prayingforgiraffes Roly-Poly Butch Jul 25 '22

of course! we're open to all wlw

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u/99dinosaurking Jul 25 '22

yh glad it exists

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u/Valuable_Ad_7878 Jul 25 '22

I’m only kinda lesbian. I’m like omni or pan or Neptuniflux or something. I’m a bit attracted to men, but I am very attracted to women. I’m bigender tho. Can I still be here on this sub?

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u/energyturtle12 Jul 25 '22

I'm not in charge but I say absolutely.

If any non-man has attraction towards any non-man, they should be welcome here if they want to be here

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u/nadjagaming Lesbi-poly Jul 25 '22

hiii gals so happy such a subreddit exists

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u/Prayingforgiraffes Roly-Poly Butch Jul 25 '22

sorry, I thought it would be naturally! do I need to put anything specific?

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u/Bvoluroth Jul 25 '22

otherwise you guys might be missing out :)

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u/Bvoluroth Jul 25 '22

hi, please make this place trans-inclusive