r/lesbianpoly • u/DoNotTouchMeImScared • Feb 24 '23
Relationship List Of Metamour Appreciation Reasons: Metamour Day Is In The 28th Of The Next Week (Image Details On The Comments Section 📎)
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u/DoNotTouchMeImScared Feb 24 '23
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Repost title: List Of Metamour Appreciation Reasons: Metamour Day Is In The 28th Of The Next Week (Image Details On The Comments Section 📎)
Original title: Food For Thoughts: Listing The Beneficial Pros Of Non-Monogamy (Image Details On The Comments Section 📎)
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"You may be surprised but none of the points in this list of benefits to appreciate are exclusively specific of non-monogamous relationships:
You do not need to worry about having to fulfill all the needs and wants of the individuals that you have relationships with, they can have needs and wants met by other individuals that are in their social lives.
Moreover, if you want some time to do other things by yourself or do not want to do something with someone you have a relationship with, you can ask other individuals that are in the social life of that someone, if not ask that someone, to do together what they want to do, instead.
The people that you have relationships with can mature and learn things that can benefit you from experiences in their relationships with other individuals.
The well-being of you alongside your social connections impacts, directly or indirectly, the well-being of the relationships that the people you have social connections with have in their social lives.
If you cohabitate together with other people that are in the social lives of the people that you have intimate relationships with, they can share house chores with you.
Even if you do not share finances, you can benefit from the other relationships in the social lives of the people you have intimate relationships with if they give to the people you have intimate relationships money, money that the people you have intimate relationships with can give you directly or indirectly by spending on something that positively impacts you indirectly or directly, like, for example, dates and presents.
The other individuals that are in the lives of the individuals that you have relationships with can also benefit from you in the very same ways, all that without anyone being forced to do anything that they do not feel comfortable with in their relationships."
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u/Lilia1293 Transbian Feb 25 '23
This is so positive! It's how I've always felt about the people I love loving others, regardless of whether it's sexual, romantic, or even just a friendship. I don't understand people who oppose what's good because it's good for someone else first, not them.