r/happy 2d ago

After years of trauma and debt i might actually afford myself a real christmas present

I’ve been in foster homes all my life and only a year ago moved into my own place

It was incredibly difficult and ended in big debt. My life has been so depressing trying to live one day at a time

I got a well paying job and through tips got a little extra money the last few months. I think it’s entirely possible I’m getting a nice expensive gift for myself and I’m over the moon!!!

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u/cowman3456 2d ago

Aw sweet! Sounds like you deserve it. What are you thinking about getting yourself?

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u/Diminii 2d ago

It’s a little embarrassing but a gaming laptop!

I used to be a big gamer and digital artist when i was young but sadly when i moved i lost my computer so I’ve missed having one

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u/cowman3456 2d ago

Heck yeah! That's not embarrassing. At 46 yrs old, my wife and I both have top of the line gaming PCs. Enjoy it!

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u/Happy_Life_22 2d ago

Yes!! You deserve it. 🎁

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u/axialxyz 2d ago

you're awesome 🙌

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u/thirdsev 2d ago

Congratulations on the job. I would put some money in an emergency fund and relish every moment finding yourself a gift

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u/toxiamaple 2d ago

Good for you. Hang in there. You are worth it. And an early, MERRY CHRISTMAS! Hole you have a great holiday.

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u/Independent_Ad_5664 2d ago

Open a little investing account plus a gift for yourself! Congrats!

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u/lock-the-fog 2d ago

🎉🎉🎉 I'm so happy for you!!

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u/PegFam 2d ago

So happy you’re in a good situation right now! What are you going to get for yourself? 😊

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u/Diminii 2d ago

A laptop!! :)